what should i do?

**Jeremy34** · 06-03-2004, 07:44 AM

First off, I know I was stupid. A friend calls me last night to go out because his sister had several friends in town and asked him to get some friends to come out, so I went. I ended up hitting it off with one of his sister's friends, but the stupid part, never got her number. I also made the mistake of telling my friend I thought she was hot. He tells me a little while later that he has been trying to hook up with her for a long time and asked her out. By that time it was too late, they were already gone. This girl is really hot, was definitely showing interest, and appeared to be serious girlfriend material (which doesn't exactly punch you in the face all that often). I know my friend's sister pretty well and my friend has about 3 other girls he is working on right now, which brings me to my question: Should I pursue this at all or chalk it up to the "g*d d****t, what the f**k was I thinking" gods and just forget about it?

P.S. I am normally not the type to give up easy at all because once I see something I want, I do my best to get it. Also, I am aware that this is b.s. high school type drama...

**cpt steele** · 06-03-2004, 07:46 AM

Imo if you are not cockblocking or talking trash about your bud I would pursue it, may the better man win

**Mart651** · 06-03-2004, 07:47 AM

I never let a friend come in between me and a piece of ass.

**Spoon** · 06-03-2004, 08:18 AM

to each his own but if i really liked her id go for her

**allsaucedup** · 06-03-2004, 08:42 AM

go for it just tell him whats up

**Jeremy34** · 06-03-2004, 09:37 AM

Thanks guys, thats all I needed to hear, he wants competition, its on like donkey kong. Now...just have to figure out the best angle to attack this thing.

**bad_man** · 06-03-2004, 09:41 AM

Bros before hoes.

**Mart651** · 06-03-2004, 09:46 AM

Originally Posted by bad_man

Bros before hoes.

Yeah. That should keep you warm at night.

Take it from an old guy. Never pass on a piece of puss no matter how you got to get it. You will regret it for the rest of your life.

**Jeremy34** · 06-03-2004, 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by bad_man

Bros before hoes.

Unless your bro is hoeish?

**cpt steele** · 06-03-2004, 09:50 AM

Originally Posted by Martha

Yeah. That should keep you warm at night.

Take it from an old guy. Never pass on a piece of puss no matter how you got to get it. You will regret it for the rest of your life.

the worst piece of azz I ever got was the one I didnt get

**bad_man** · 06-03-2004, 09:51 AM

I've never regretted passing on a piece of ass - well, I've never regretted it for more than about a week. I have regretted putting some ass before one of my buds.

I look at it this way, which is easier to do? Replace a friend or replace some chick I just met? I can go over to the next girl and buy her a drink, but can I go up to a dude and say "Will you be my friend?"

For this specific instance though, I think the friend is being a greedy prick. If he's got three others on the go, he should let you take a run at this one.

**Mart651** · 06-03-2004, 09:51 AM

Originally Posted by cpt steele

the worst piece of azz I ever got was the one I didnt get

**** straight.

The best piece was one of my friends girlfriends. saved him from her cheating and him not finding out.

**cpt steele** · 06-03-2004, 09:53 AM

Thats what I am say'n if he has been working on it for a while and hasnt closed the deal he isnt going too. Besides as long as you dont trash him or be a jerk about it game on bro. Its just a p.o.a. he shouldnt get worked up over that, there is enough for everyone

**Dee-termined** · 06-03-2004, 10:03 AM

Put it this way do you want to hear about how good she is in bed from your buddy because you were to indecisive to act on it and make a move? I doubt it, regret sucks, go for it!! Mabey your buddy has been trying for awhile because this girl isn't all that intrested.

**rambo** · 06-03-2004, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by bad_man

I've never regretted passing on a piece of ass - well, I've never regretted it for more than about a week. I have regretted putting some ass before one of my buds.

I look at it this way, which is easier to do? Replace a friend or replace some chick I just met? I can go over to the next girl and buy her a drink, but can I go up to a dude and say "Will you be my friend?"

Amen. Bros before hoes, money over bitches.

**Mart651** · 06-03-2004, 10:30 AM

Originally Posted by rambo

Amen. Bros before hoes, money over bitches.

Thats just wrong dude. Women have the right to choose. I think it is just my way of standing up for womens rights.

**Mr. Death** · 06-03-2004, 12:51 PM

Originally Posted by bad_man

Bros before hoes.

I would normally say the same thing, but I think this is a different situation. If your friend is trying to hook up with three other girls he obviously doesn't care too much for the girl you are interested in, and if he is upset if you get her than he is just being greedy IMO. Be straightforward with him, tell him that you are interested in her as well, and that you are going to pursue her.

**cpt steele** · 06-03-2004, 01:04 PM

have you called around to get her # yet? If not time is burning bro git after it

**BOUNCER** · 06-03-2004, 05:03 PM

All's fair in love & war bro, go get the b*tch.

**cpt steele** · 06-04-2004, 12:07 PM

whats the update

**big daddy k de** · 06-04-2004, 04:26 PM

good luck and have fun bro

**1badcamaro** · 06-04-2004, 04:40 PM

if hes workin on like 3 other girls just tell him straight up that you have a thing for her and wanna pursue it, any good friend would back off if he knew how much it meant to you......

**Jeremy34** · 06-08-2004, 03:35 PM

sorry for the late update...i finally talked to my friend's sister and got to talk to the girl again. she said that she wished i would have asked her out before my friend...so now i have a date with her this weekend. thanks for all the input bros, its looking good