The time has come....

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:04 PM

Well you bastards.. (j/k) are making me go to the wedding.. I have done all that is in my power to try to make it come to a halt, but now we are less then 48 hours away....

The only good news I have now is that I do not have to drive his 2 little brats back here after the wedding.. I convinced my mom that the gas prices were to high and that it would cost more to drive then to fly.. lol...

So I fly home again tomorrow at 4 pm with my pink and brown bathingsuit in tow to sit my Friday on a pontoon boat to watch my mother marry some money grubbing jerk off.

I think I have gained enough strength from the 2 weeks of my Var cycle to hold his head under water as my new bestest friend CA has advised me to do...

I really hope this is all for the best... but I still blame you people for the fact that I am going to this mockery of a wedding.

Princess

**decadbal** · 06-09-2004, 07:09 PM

if your moms happy, i dont see a problem

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:11 PM

Originally Posted by decadbal

if your moms happy, i dont see a problem

I was gonna go into the reasons why its not ok.. but I dont feel in the best of moods to do so right now..

but if your kids didnt want you to marry someone wouldnt you atleast hear them out???

**decadbal** · 06-09-2004, 07:13 PM

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

I was gonna go into the reasons why its not ok.. but I dont feel in the best of moods to do so right now..

but if your kids didnt want you to marry someone wouldnt you atleast hear them out???

your grown, she is as well, you should be happy if she is. just as she is for you and CS... if she said she refused to accept cs, would u leave him?

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:18 PM

Originally Posted by decadbal

your grown, she is as well, you should be happy if she is. just as she is for you and CS... if she said she refused to accept cs, would u leave him?

if she had a good reason.. but my man has a job... didnt lie about being ,married before, or having kids.. he also did not move into my house 1 month after we met and mooched off me..

**decadbal** · 06-09-2004, 07:21 PM

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

if she had a good reason.. but my man has a job... didnt lie about being ,married before, or having kids.. he also did not move into my house 1 month after we met and mooched off me..

yea, he moved into her house, and she doesnt mind, i see where your coming from, i also seee that if shes happy, respect it, dont cause her problems when all she is wantin is happines...gluck

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:22 PM

Im sorry .. I have not even begin to tip the iceberg.. the things he has said infront of my boss, who is my moms best friend, the things he has done.. are not something that someone who loves you would do.

**bermich** · 06-09-2004, 07:25 PM

I wouldnt have gone. A wedding was it? For whom? I remember a wedding thread like a month ago. I guess I should have read it.
Anyway. My answer to a thread I know nothing about: If you need 10 people to convince you to go somewhere, you should not be going. Go have a bbq and swim somewhere else.

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by bermich

I wouldnt have gone. A wedding was it? For whom? I remember a wedding thread like a month ago. I guess I should have read it.
Anyway. My answer to a thread I know nothing about: If you need 10 people to convince you to go somewhere, you should not be going. Go have a bbq and swim somewhere else.

my moms 4th wedding.. lol .. what a joke

**bad_man** · 06-09-2004, 07:43 PM

I'm on your side Princess. My mom moved in with a guy and she just continued to tell me how much of an asshole he was. She's left him twice. He is now a topic that is off limits. If she brings him up I have to end the conversation. It's for my own sanity. If she told me they were getting maried, I wouldn't show up.

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:44 PM

Originally Posted by bad_man

I'm on your side Princess. My mom moved in with a guy and she just continued to tell me how much of an asshole he was. She's left him twice. He is now a topic that is off limits. If she brings him up I have to end the conversation. It's for my own sanity. If she told me they were getting maried, I wouldn't show up.

she didnt even tell me they were getting married.. he assistant.. one of my friends let it slip..

WTF???

**Jade** · 06-09-2004, 07:46 PM

Your mom sounds like the type of person who can't be alone and hooks up with the first person who shows interest regardless of who they are or how they treat her, my dad is the same way and it drives me nuts but if you don't accept the way she is then you are going to spend alot of days being upset with her decisions instead of enjoying the time you have with her. My advice is just be there for her on what she thinks is an important day. My dad is with another women that I don't agree with but he says he loves her and I will accept her only because I love him...

**big daddy k de** · 06-09-2004, 07:47 PM

well if hes a ass then she will just have to find out but shes a big girl ...be strong princeess

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:50 PM

Originally Posted by Jade

Your mom sounds like the type of person who can't be alone and hooks up with the first person who shows interest regardless of who they are or how they treat her, my dad is the same way and it drives me nuts but if you don't accept the way she is then you are going to spend alot of days being upset with her decisions instead of enjoying the time you have with her. My advice is just be there for her on what she thinks is an important day. My dad is with another women that I don't agree with but he says he loves her and I will accept her only because I love him...

if she was like that it would be ok.. but she has never been that way until she met him.. she use to be the most independent woman ever..

Oh well.. I just think its a stupid idea to spend money on a wedding .. and to have it on a pontoon boat with only your children present.. and my little sister refuses to go now... she moved out of teh house about 3 months ago cause she hates him so much

**Jade** · 06-09-2004, 07:55 PM

It sounds like alot of chaos, I can understand your frustration! Maybe this is just some kind of mid-life crisis and she will be over it and back to normal quickly.

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 07:57 PM

Originally Posted by Jade

It sounds like alot of chaos, I can understand your frustration! Maybe this is just some kind of mid-life crisis and she will be over it and back to normal quickly.

oh well we can only hope..

but still you people from Ar are all to blame for me going home for this.. lol j/k

**chicamahomico** · 06-09-2004, 09:07 PM

Princess, you will be glad you went. The 2 days of misery you will soon forget, if you didn't go you may always regret it.

ttuPrincess · 06-09-2004, 09:09 PM

Originally Posted by chicamahomico

Princess, you will be glad you went. The 2 days of misery you will soon forget, if you didn't go you may always regret it.

yup.. I blame you the most.. lol

**ColdSore** · 06-09-2004, 10:13 PM

glad i have to work...2 weddings in 2 weeks is too much for me...

**Sierra_Breeze** · 06-09-2004, 11:29 PM

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

I think I have gained enough strength from the 2 weeks of my Var cycle to hold his head under water as my new bestest friend CA has advised me to do...

Just remember girl I said just hold him under long enough to get the point, not untill he stops squirming! And, it won't be so bad you'll see, it'll all be over with soon enough, just play nice for a day lol

**Sierra_Breeze** · 06-13-2004, 02:08 AM

Ok I'll try asking here in order as not to offend anyone else.... tried doing a search earlier and couldn't find it my apolagies to everyone!!!

So princess, any details you'd like to share as to how the wedding went?? Did you catch the boquet?? And was it as bad as you thought it would be??

**bermich** · 06-13-2004, 02:26 AM

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

but I still blame you people for the fact that I am going to this mockery of a wedding.

Princess

Cant blame me. I told you NOT to go.
I dont believe in being miserable so someone else can be happy.

**Elliot** · 06-13-2004, 05:33 AM

sorry princess but i havnt read the thread but all i can think about is that its on a ponton.. who has wedings on a ponton!? lol.. j.k love you girly have fun :-D

**LeanMeOut** · 06-13-2004, 02:21 PM

Originally Posted by Elliot

sorry princess but i havnt read the thread but all i can think about is that its on a ponton.. who has wedings on a ponton!? lol.. j.k love you girly have fun :-D

<<LMO>>

ttuPrincess · 06-22-2004, 10:30 AM

Let me give yall a quick update... for those who wondered what I had against this guy.. lets call it a gut feeling.. i just recieved a phone call from a family friend that my mother has been beaten up... only a week after the wedding.. boy is that a nice marriage right there

now lesson for ya'll when your getting married and your oldest daughter says mom I have a bad feeling and i dont like this guy.. maybe you'll listen!

**mass junkie** · 06-22-2004, 10:34 AM

thats ****ed up... take CS and go whip his ass

ttuPrincess · 06-22-2004, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by mass junkie

thats ****ed up... take CS and go whip his ass

oh I am

**Maraxus** · 06-22-2004, 10:42 AM

Fcuking pussy ass. Please destroy his dumbass. Is your mom ok?

**Mealticket** · 06-22-2004, 10:42 AM

Call the police on him. just tell them you're neighbor and want to report domestic violence. AFTER they process him...............THEN WHOOP HIS azz. Or go home and start putting liquid clen in his drinks till he freaks out and gets all fuked up. Might as weel add some l-dex and clomid just to see what it does to him. But only in super high doses. Good luck Princess

ttuPrincess · 06-22-2004, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by Maraxus

Fcuking pussy ass. Please destroy his dumbass. Is your mom ok?

I dont know. they just called to inform me that something happened.. and my boss( who is alos my moms best friend) is goign to get my mom from work and check her out then call me back and see if i need to come home etc.

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-22-2004, 10:48 AM

Have Taser.......will travel!

Originally Posted by ttuPrincess

Let me give yall a quick update... for those who wondered what I had against this guy.. lets call it a gut feeling.. i just recieved a phone call from a family friend that my mother has been beaten up... only a week after the wedding.. boy is that a nice marriage right there

now lesson for ya'll when your getting married and your oldest daughter says mom I have a bad feeling and i dont like this guy.. maybe you'll listen!

**Maraxus** · 06-22-2004, 10:48 AM

My step dad hit my mom once. Lets just say he cant use that hand to write anymore. I hate that sh1t really bad.

**LeanMeOut** · 06-22-2004, 11:12 AM

Originally Posted by mass junkie

thats ****ed up... take CS and go whip his ass

No $hit.... CS Woop that ass.

<<LMO>>

**ColdSore** · 06-22-2004, 12:18 PM

I promise you guys this will not go over looked for sure...

It is way worse than i would have thought...princess just called and he broke her nose.

This needs to be taken care of...

I just hope that her mom realizes that he has to go...no exceptions...ill move his ass out coldstone style (window exits from the 2nd story)...

**ColdSore** · 06-22-2004, 12:27 PM

if the abused party doesnt press charges will he even get any type of punishment?

**LeanMeOut** · 06-22-2004, 12:28 PM

Originally Posted by ColdStone

I promise you guys this will not go over looked for sure...

It is way worse than i would have thought...princess just called and he broke her nose.

This needs to be taken care of...

I just hope that her mom realizes that he has to go...no exceptions...ill move his ass out coldstone style (window exits from the 2nd story)...

****..... $hit like this makes my blood boil. F*cking tough guy.... definitely go show him what him how tough he really is. That is bull$hit...... tell Princess I am sorry and I hope her mom is doing alright. Broken nose sucks.... did they take to her to hospital? CS I hope you woop his ass..... or atleast i hope he goes to jail and gets F*cked in the ass. Then we'll see how tough he feels. Again very sorry, hope everything turns out for the best.

<<LMO>>

**LeanMeOut** · 06-22-2004, 12:30 PM

Originally Posted by ColdStone

if the abused party doesnt press charges will he even get any type of punishment?

Nope.... if she won't press charges there is not much anyone can do. If she doesn't press charges over this then she needs to get mental help. I thiink princess should knock some sense into her mom, and you should woop that guy's f*cking pussy ass if she doesn't press charges.

<<LMO>>

**Maraxus** · 06-22-2004, 12:31 PM

if the abusing party doesnt choose to press charges, then no. Unless there is a witness I think.

ttuPrincess · 06-22-2004, 12:36 PM

she wont even admit it happened.. she claims a boot feel on her from the closet.. 2 black eyes and a broken nose..

theres nothing i can do... evenyone i have talked to says that unless she admits he did this that hes safe..

Im about to move my as$ back home and sit infront of him and watch his every move...

**ColdSore** · 06-22-2004, 12:38 PM

Originally Posted by LeanMeOut

Nope.... if she won't press charges there is not much anyone can do. If she doesn't press charges over this then she needs to get mental help. I thiink princess should knock some sense into her mom, and you should woop that guy's f*cking pussy ass if she doesn't press charges.

<<LMO>>

ill be the first to say it...her mom does need help...she said a boot feel on her face!...it takes more than a boot to break a nose...

its sad really...i feel bad, cause theres nothing we can do we are almost 6 hours away and her mom is lyeing to everyone about it...

her moms freind has been on the phone with womens protective service, and they said if she wont admit to it then nothing can be done...

sick fukkin world we live in...this asshole has no clue what he did to i bet??...i bet hes been abusive all his life....

****...i dont really even wanna hit him for some reason...i wanna get him in a leg lock and break his arm...then spit in his face...seems more painful...and way more disrespectful