The friends zone

[helios]

This weekend I visit a friend of mine in nyc. Had an awesome time. Last night I went to strata for Wyclef Jean's private party. Real good time. So I get back to my friend's apt with her, we both are pretty smashed.

We are laying in bed, and I make the move....of course I get shut down and get the whole "I don't want **** up another friendship bc of a stupid drunk hookup" deal. What is it with girls sticking guys in the friend zone, and not making the cross over? Like who the hell cares if its a drunk hookup? I see no hang ups about it if its just some temporary fun.

Some things I'll never understand....and women top that list. Sorry just had to rant a little bit- thanks.

[Spoon]

your friend obviously respects you, it sucks but what you should understand is that most women(many exceptions tho) consider sex more than just a physical act. its diff for us guys as we will shag anything with a hole!

[Lozgod]

She must not be attracted to you. That whole friends thing is bull. Women want it like we do. Thats why I dont try to develop friendships with them. If I don't hit after a couple of weeks we got nothing left to talk about.

[EastCoaster]

Yea, girls really like to have "guy friends" that they can be just that with. I hope you didnt ruin her respect level towards you.

[helios]

your friend obviously respects you, it sucks but what you should understand is that most women(many exceptions tho) consider sex more than just a physical act. its diff for us guys as we will shag anything with a hole!

very true. Its something that nags me in the back of my mind though when it comes to this girl. On occasion its almost torturous being friends with her bc I want her so badly. <sigh> oh well, you win some and lose some. Actually come to think of it, being in the friend zone, I have probably about a 20% recovery record going from friend to hook up. Not good odds at all. I guess im just going to stop befriending girls and just go for them as hook-ups. I think that way I can keep my sanity together.

[helios]

She must not be attracted to you. That whole friends thing is bull. Women want it like we do.

This crossed my mind also. Bruise to the ego, but i guess i would respect it better if that was said out right.

[KAEW44]

If you are ODB like in your avatar then i'm not surprized she wasnt attracted to u, btu in any case you should stay away from the 'friend-trap' because it basically means they will use you and make you think there's hope...and it will only waste the time u can be using to hookup with girls that want to be with you.

[rambo]

She must not be attracted to you. That whole friends thing is bull. Women want it like we do. Thats why I dont try to develop friendships with them. If I don't hit after a couple of weeks we got nothing left to talk about.

Jesus. Can I get an AMEN?