Okay- I have a homosexual brother, and I need help...
My brother's recent coming out would have been a lot harder on the family had he been a complete flamer, but fortunately he's a very manly gay man. For some reason that has lessened the blow. He now has a significant other that is also "another one of the guys," and the family is trying to get to know and accept him- however, it's still hard. The guy seems cool, but I can't get over the weirdness of it all. We're planning on a Thanksgiving family reunion that would bring everyone, including our spouses and "others" together. Are there any suggestion on how me and my fiance should try and bond with the new addition to the fam? Has anyone else had similar issues?