Help me to help my friend, im serious guys.
Hey all
Right. Where do i start, basically my best friend has been getting worse lately, he is practically scared of everything.
He wont eat out anywhere or eat other peoples food, food they have prepared etc because he is scared of being sick. He wont eat chicken, meats or foods that MAY cause you to be sick if its not cooked properly etc. Its very bad, he wont even eat chicken EVEN if HE was the one who cooked it...JUST IN CASE. Its real bad
He is also scared of flying, because he is not in control, he cannot stand it, he cannot grasp also how something so large can stay airbourne.
He doesnt take ANY risks, and im not talking like major things, im talking he wont maybe accelerate in his car a tad faster than an 80 year old JUST IN CASE he has a blown tyre.
His life is lived on IF's and BUT's and WHAT IF's.
We had a massive arguement down the gym today, i know its not my concern but i cannot understand how he lives like this, he stormed out and is ignoring my calls.
I want him to get help, he says he will but when he is ready, he has been on about this for ages.
He even broke up with his girlfriend, coz she wanted to go out for nice meals etc, go on holiday etc and he is not prepared to do this.
I have looked into hypnosis but he just says in my time. which is bull coz he is sayin that for years.
Just annoys me, he is scared of EVERYTHING we cant do nuthin, cant go to a club, he is so timid!! AHHHH
Its not my problem but he is my mate and i wanna help him. You guys no any experiences etc, what can i do