Lazy Sex Aint Cool For My Back!

this is rather embarassing.

i've got a reasonably strong back - i can lift over twice my bodyweight when deadlifting (naturally) and yet

when i have a shag and i lie back and she is sat on top and goes at it for a bit, for up to two weeks after my back feels really dodgy and i can hardly bend at the waste. it feels as if it just sort of loosens all the muscles of my lumbar region and erector spinae and they seem to go out of tune.

anyone else have this happen to them?

PLEASE not flames. its bad enough as it is when my mates ask me why i am having trouble bending over (!)

suggestions welcome chaps

i better mention. before all you folks think i am a lazy shyte. i do perform many other celebrated methods of copulatory thrusting. none of which cause me trouble as long as i am not a stationary partner.

but you know how it is. sometimes you just can't be arsed and its nice to let them do the business for a change. like when you are asleep and you get pounced on.

ok enuf of that.

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Originally Posted by skinjob

this is rather embarassing.
its bad enough as it is when my mates ask me why i am having trouble bending over (!)

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LOL thats hilarious. Sorry I had to bro. On a more serious note, does it hurt during the sex or just after?

nope............ it's just you..........




















try a rolled up towel under your back.. will give the support...

INvid - its not during its sort of the next day and thereafter for 1 -2 weeks. its like the musculature loosens off or de-tunes. there is never any structural problems (i go to physio every week as i get very knotted shoulders tattooing all day)

thanks SpyWizards Sleeve, i'll give it a go with the towel.

dude i will try *anything*

(except blokes arf arf arf)

Start working on that lower back and abs.....

lol lol is your girlfriend 300lbs, just kidding do some lower back exercises like mark suggested.

Your bed is too soft. try rolling her onto the floor.

a pillow under your back

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Originally Posted by chrisAdams

Your bed is too soft. try rolling her onto the floor.

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I agree.. could just be a really soft, or old, matress... :hello:

if all else fails you're going to be stuck with the workload :)

I think you just like to pound away. I know I would much rather work than be "rode". I'm going to use this from now on as an excuse. "Can't lay on my back, babe... it just KILLS"

Spoon it!

I would have to take her for a test ride to tell you what the problem is.......J/K J/K

It sounds like you may have disc problems in your lower back to me. That type of movement and pressure are irritating it.

Oi pillow under your lower back seems to be the right way to go.

I would suggest a pillow and a weight limit.