OK, where to begin. I started seeing this girl about a week and a half ago. She is a nice girl (although she smokes and drinks a bit to much) and she has a good personality, we hit it off pretty good and we have spent alot of time together. Her vehicle is torn up at the moment so i have taken her to work and home a few times which is totally out of my way but i do not mind. I took her to see her uncle who is dying of cancer last Saturday, drove about an hour to take her there each way and spent my Saturday doing that. Obviously this is not a fling..i am wanting a relationship....
Well last night she calls me from an unknown number so i don't pick it up, i get a voicemail and it is her and she does'nt sound to happy. So i call the number back and it is her friends cell phone (some guy thats 36) and i talk to her, she seems a bit down. I tried to cheer her up but to no avail, se starts asking me in a round about way (can never put a perfect sentence together with a question) what i want. I told her that we are exclusive and that we should take it day by day and see what happens she then tells "Do you know how many times i have heard that" then literally she breaks down and cries and gives the phone to her friend...here i am laying in bed because i wanna get up early for cardio...
I talk to him and he tells me about one of her ex's that cut her with a knife and beat her up all the time etc...she finally comes back to the phone and i was trying to tell her that i am serious about her but we should take it day by day and see where this relationship takes us ( i usually go all out and let the chips fall where they may but those days are over so now i kind of see what happens and go from there, i'm not setting myself up like i have in the past)...she starts balling and hands the phone off again...i talk once more with her firend and he says hat she really likes me but won't talk bla bla bla...
I have known this chick for a week and a half and she is already crying and obviously has past issues haunting her which can only be normal seeing as how she was treated. What type of person would abuse someone and cut them up (has scars on her legs) etc...That is some sadistic ****. :unsure:
My question is, what in the hell should i do..i am thinking about letting this one go..to much drama to soon for me personally.
Anyone else ever have something like this happen so soon?
Needless to say...i did'nt make it up for cardio god****it!