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    Am I addicted to porn

    So my girlfriend thinks i look at porn too much. But if I can still perform I dont see what the big deal is. I think she may be a little insane. Anyway she tried to tell me either porn goes or she goes.....wtf. Well i am gonna keep looking at porn....is that bad.

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    It's sad what the world is coming to..

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    I mean i like havng sex everyday....but i also like looking at porn everyday too.....i think she is just jealous of porn.

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    Has she never had a boyfriend before? She needs to learn than men love naked women. It doesn't mean that we love our girlfriends any less. It's just that even if our chick is a complete nympho, more than likely we have desires beyond them. Porn is a staple of the male life. If she doesn't understand that, tell her that even though you look at other women through porn, you are only thinking of her.

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    yeah thats sad. lets weigh our options, get the real thing or beat your dick 3 times a day........hmmmmmmmm after intense thought(not really) i am gonna go with keep the girl and quit watching porn as much.

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    dont keep the girl, shes replacable... porn is a lifetime commitment... by straight men atleast..

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    Quote Originally Posted by houseofpain
    yeah thats sad. lets weigh our options, get the real thing or beat your dick 3 times a day........hmmmmmmmm after intense thought(not really) i am gonna go with keep the girl and quit watching porn as much.
    How sweet!!

    Yeah let's not care what the real flesh and blood person thinks, I mean she is only his gf and probably loves and cares for him. Yeah everyone else has the right advice, ditch the girl and keep the porn filled with actors who don't know him....Smart.

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    The ideal mate likes porn as much/little as you do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Decadbal
    dont keep the girl, shes replacable... porn is a lifetime commitment... by straight men atleast..

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    i beat it seven times a day minimum. when my girl starts putting out seven time a day ill give up porn

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigBoi83
    i beat it seven times a day minimum. when my girl starts putting out seven time a day ill give up porn
    Amen..lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigBoi83
    i beat it seven times a day minimum. when my girl starts putting out seven time a day ill give up porn
    bahahahaha
    7 times a day? that must be hard to hide

    "uhhh i have to take a piss, i'll be back in 10 mins"

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    Maybe she is insecure and a little jealous, but have you considered the possibility that you nudged her in that direction? There are women who don't like porn (obviously), but most of the time they accept that it's part of a man's life. But if it's interfering with your life with her, then it changes her perspective. She may be getting plenty sexually, but could there be other areas that make her feel inadequate in the relationship that you could be contributing to?

    If that's the case, you even looking at a Playboy reminds her you're desiring another woman (even if it is just fantasizing for a few minutes), and if she's already feeling at all insecure in her relationship with you, this will only deepen that feeling. So of course she's going to want you to stop, though this only gets rid of a symptom and doesn't address the real problem.

    I would just start looking at all areas of my relationship with her and see if there are any loose ends you should be working on. If not, maybe she is just a woman who has no self-esteem and needs to mature a bit

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    Me like porn to

    Alot!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by TexasFitnessGirl
    How sweet!!

    Yeah let's not care what the real flesh and blood person thinks, I mean she is only his gf and probably loves and cares for him. Yeah everyone else has the right advice, ditch the girl and keep the porn filled with actors who don't know him....Smart.
    Thats some great acting

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    I'm a porn addict too.

    Maybe we should form an addiction group. Special forum for guys like us

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    It's not about porn IMO, it's about someone else imposing conditions on you. If the porn just bothers her and she has no real rational or valid reasons to back it up then it's a power play and who knows what she'll want you to quit next. First she'll make you give up porn, then beers with your friends, maybe your baseball card collection, and on we go. Sounds like more of a control issue to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TooSmall
    bahahahaha
    7 times a day? that must be hard to hide

    "uhhh i have to take a piss, i'll be back in 10 mins"
    naw bro when u do something so often and for a such a long time u get good at it. i can crank one in thirty seconds lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by BigBoi83
    i can crank one in thirty seconds lol

    im callin the BS flag on this 1, make a video and send it to mass junkie for proof.

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    i could probably get going real good with a blown up image of bigbois avatar.

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    Hi my name is Tom and i am a addict

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    Hi Tom, welcome to the Porn Addicts suport group. So far only two members strong, but anyone can join. when did you first realize you were an "addict". You know addict is such a strong word to use...around here we can call each other porn lovers....you know i enjoy good porn like some people enjoy fine wine.

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    Well once upon a time I was addicted to internet porn and masturbation............Its very addictive and it ruins your head..........now lemme ask u one thing when u r intimate with your woman how often do u picture the broads from the porn????? BE FVCKING HONEST!!!!!!........lol

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    Show me a straight woman that isnt attracted to a well built naked male,and i'll quit looking at porn....Well maybe a well built,naked male with hundred dollar bills hangin from his 12 inch dong,but nonetheless its just human nature...I personally don't see anything wrong with it. If I had a chick checking out porn and she was faithful....I'd tell her go head that would mean shes gonna wanna f*ck more..When I click my mouse and she gets naked then i'll pay more attention to her as well..

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    good question - when you are with her are you thinking of her or someone from the porn?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sir hugenstein
    ...around here we can call each other porn lovers....you know i enjoy good porn like some people enjoy fine wine.
    "porn entheusiasts"

    There's some comedian who has a whole great bit (and makes a point) about women who try to get you to toss your porn and how it ****s up the relationship by driving you to cheating because seeing other women naked on screen is kind of like cheating but still keeps you monogomous...

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    I'm not much into porn. Although it's fun too watch with a woman when the moments right. I've an addictive personality and like gambling or drugs I'm always worried I'd like it too much. Besides, nothing beats the real thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gachamann
    Maybe she is insecure and a little jealous, but have you considered the possibility that you nudged her in that direction? There are women who don't like porn (obviously), but most of the time they accept that it's part of a man's life. But if it's interfering with your life with her, then it changes her perspective. She may be getting plenty sexually, but could there be other areas that make her feel inadequate in the relationship that you could be contributing to?

    If that's the case, you even looking at a Playboy reminds her you're desiring another woman (even if it is just fantasizing for a few minutes), and if she's already feeling at all insecure in her relationship with you, this will only deepen that feeling. So of course she's going to want you to stop, though this only gets rid of a symptom and doesn't address the real problem.

    I would just start looking at all areas of my relationship with her and see if there are any loose ends you should be working on. If not, maybe she is just a woman who has no self-esteem and needs to mature a bit
    Well said... and I agree here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chicamahomico
    It's not about porn IMO, it's about someone else imposing conditions on you. If the porn just bothers her and she has no real rational or valid reasons to back it up then it's a power play and who knows what she'll want you to quit next. First she'll make you give up porn, then beers with your friends, maybe your baseball card collection, and on we go. Sounds like more of a control issue to me.

    I agree, its a fine line bro, women wanna control something ... one at a time, to turn you into a finely tuned whipped machine, to go shopping with, and god forbid, not watch trading spaces for fack sakes.

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