guys, how do you do it??

[apocalypseRC51]

I saw an ex tonight, on christmas eve. The most recent ex.I know I owe her an apology. Not trying to get back with her, but im the one who was wrong and its my fault were not together. Still, im too god-**** proud to say im sorry for what I did after 4 years. I want to but I cant. I just cant swallow my ****ing pride, no matter how hard I try.

So, how do you do it? Cuz no matter how hard i try,I cant...

[houseofpain]

you need to man up, it will make you a better person bro.
~HOP

[GetinBig]

I agree with HOP. Man up bro and just get it overwith... It will feel much better when your done.

And who knows maybe you will hit a tender spot in her heart and get some.. LMAO


Just end it bro....

GB

[apocalypseRC51]

But im not sure i wanna be a better person. I think i'd rather be stubborn

[KGBnine]

But im not sure i wanna be a better person. I think i'd rather be stubborn

then obviously we can't help you.

[apocalypseRC51]

It was a joke dude...

but seriously, no matter how hard I try, I get all choked up and cant mutter anything more than hi. Its terrible.

[Polska]

what I did after 4 years...

Do you mean what you did 4 years ago, or were you with her for 4 years? If it's the former than that's one long time to be single brah!

[Dally]

its a bloody shame when sh*t dont work out, we make excuses for why and why its better to be apart. Sometimes it is better, but, when it comes to ex's its best to leave em be for a good while, to heal and let go, FOR REAL, otherwise your asking for the hard times you went thru initially all over again.

or a hump that you will most likely regret.

just let her go bro, who gives a SH*T

fak em all!

(see, i'm bitter)

[KGBnine]

It was a joke dude...

but seriously, no matter how hard I try, I get all choked up and cant mutter anything more than hi. Its terrible.

I hear ya. Well it's not easy to do something like this, but we all have to at times.

[ottomaddox]

I'm pretty bitter when it comes to women as well, but apocalypseRC51 man up and appologize, what's the worst that can happen? What's the best thing that could happen? Choose or loose.........
otto

[Polska]

F u ck I could not be more bitter when it comes to women. I guess I am not the only one

[1morerep]

all u have to do is think of the outcome not the event. the event being approaching her and the outcome being getting it over with. when u can't do something eg.(approach a hottie/stick with your diet/hit the gym) always think of the outcome and thats what gets you through.

[Dally]

all u have to do is think of the outcome not the event. the event being approaching her and the outcome being getting it over with. when u can't do something eg.(approach a hottie/stick with your diet/hit the gym) always think of the outcome and thats what gets you through.

THANKS u just sent me on my way to the gym!

forget the biatch! or see if you can play er! ehehhe YAHP!

[decadbal]

id say never admiit your wrong, less its killing you..

[apocalypseRC51]

Do you mean what you did 4 years ago, or were you with her for 4 years? If it's the former than that's one long time to be single brah!

We were together for 4 years. I ****ed some things up (no cheating or violence)... she was a great girl, I miss her, but I cant swallow my pride and say sorry, even though I want to.

[workdude]

you need to man up, it will make you a better person bro.
~HOP

I agree with HOP...

[Chemical King]

Shed respect ya more if you just come clean. I normaly write a letter or summit, that way you get to say what you want to without bin interupted.

[*Narkissos*]

I agree with HOP too(never thought i'd've seen the day)

[maxex]

Shed respect ya more if you just come clean. I normaly write a letter or summit, that way you get to say what you want to without bin interupted.

i agree, just write a letter, send it and never think about it again. Its up to her if she wants to respond but at least you got it over-with.

[maxex]

Shed respect ya more if you just come clean. I normaly write a letter or summit, that way you get to say what you want to without bin interupted.

i agree, just write a letter, send it and never think about it again. Its up to her if she wants to respond but at least you got it over-with.

[maxex]

Shed respect ya more if you just come clean. I normaly write a letter or summit, that way you get to say what you want to without bin interupted.

i agree, just write a letter, send it and never think about it again. Its up to her if she wants to respond but at least you got it over-with.

[maxex]

Shed respect ya more if you just come clean. I normaly write a letter or summit, that way you get to say what you want to without bin interupted.

i agree, just write a letter, send it and never think about it again. Its up to her if she wants to respond but at least you got it over-with.

[maxex]

what the heck just happened there

[The Baron]

Don't do it for her... do it for you. It is stopping you from putting stuff behind you. I think "closure" is the new cliche of the day. Try a cheap bouquet of flowers. It will make you feel good... trust me. You will walk away with a big ol grin and you will be able to move on, or move back, whatever seems like the right thing to do.