Originally Posted by max2extreme
You know what. Marriage is NEVER going to be that "in-love" feeling all the time...NEVER. And if you ask any other married person here, they will tell you the exact same thing. You said yourself you still love her. That is what marriage is all about. Marriage takes work. You get married and pledge that love to your spouse and make the promise to, in other words, work thru whatever bad times there are. This bad time you are going thru isnt even a bad time. Its something that you yourself and wife brought on yourselves and something that you and your wife can fix...easily. Stop hanging with the boys. Stop having girls nights out, and start having husband/wife nights out. Make it a point, even if you dont want to at the time, to hang out, force conversation, even if its about nothing, because that 'nothing conversation' will probably turn into a good conversation, or turn out to be funny or whatever. I say work with it. You love this girl. She loves you. Thats what its all about. If you keep chasing this eternal in-love feeling, you're gonna be either married 50 times, or end up lonely 20 years down the road. I say keep it, cherish it, and make it fun again. take the iniative and it will happen.