Depressed in Dallas!!!! Any Help????
Hey guys, sorry to ask such a stupid question, but I guess I'm just a little down in the dumps right now! Just moved to a new town a few months ago, along with a new job, so most of my week is dedicated towards 50-60 hours of work! Its a "sales job" so I have to put a lot of hours in at first. Well I put so much time in to my job that I really havent had time to go out and make friends. I mean I've met some cool people at work(guys mostly), but thats about it. So by the time the weekend comes all I want to do is lounge and re-coop the whole weejend from the previous work-week. (As I'm doing now on a Saturday night! by myself! haha!) Anyway, I do go out some but I just dont know how to find that special someone to spend time with, talk to, etc. I'm not being cocky, but I work out, and consider myself a good looking guy, I'm not as ripped as some of you bro's, but you certainly cant tell in jeans, and shirts, I'm just 5'10", 190ibs, so its not like I'm a huge fat-ass! I like to believe I''m a genuine, honest, down to earth southern guy, and when I go out I'm not looking for the one night stand. I guess what I'm saying is I dont know what to say to girls when I'm at a bar, in the gym, etc. I'm a VERY outgoing guy, but just not to people I dont know. I'm too shy to just walk up to some girl and say, well whatever it is you need to say to a girl. I always think I'm gonna come off as the guy who's just wanting to hook up, and I'm HONESTLY not looking for that. I just want to meet a genuine girl as me, likes to have fun, hang out, share hopes, dreams, etc. I guess I just dont know what to say to them, or how to be more sociallable when I'm out. All I do during the week is bust ass at work and in the gym, so I pretty much have no social life during the week, and MOST of the time on the weekend. I do go out every now and then, but mostly with co-workers. Anyway, sorry for the long rant guys, just wanting to meet a good girl who shares the same interests I do. Any ideas??? LADIES PLEASE CHIME IN AS WELL!!! Thanks for listening guys! Sorry....... :(