Why do chicks....

**kloter1** · 01-31-2005, 01:22 PM

...Never call when you give them YOUR number? So I hit on a waitress i had at hooters, i know they constantly get approached, BUT this girl didnt seem like many guys have hit on her. we were talking and she said she loved to fish and i invited her to go fishing the next day. she said she would call and would love to go out sometime. well i didnt get my hopes up anyway, she never called. i dont understand why NONE of the girls ive given my # to dont ever call. normally i ask for their number, and if they actually answer instead of a voice mail they simply blow you off. what do yall guys do?

**kloter1** · 01-31-2005, 01:23 PM

maybe its because I go for the hottest girls i can find?

**Bigen12** · 01-31-2005, 01:31 PM

Originally Posted by kloter1

...Never call when you give them YOUR number? So I hit on a waitress i had at hooters, i know they constantly get approached, BUT this girl didnt seem like many guys have hit on her. we were talking and she said she loved to fish and i invited her to go fishing the next day. she said she would call and would love to go out sometime. well i didnt get my hopes up anyway, she never called. i dont understand why NONE of the girls ive given my # to dont ever call. normally i ask for their number, and if they actually answer instead of a voice mail they simply blow you off. what do yall guys do?

If you have to give the girl your number, the girl simply isn't interested. If she was interested, she would have made sure you have her number also.

She is just agreeing to go fishing with you to be nice, and not hurt your feelings.

Just my opinion.

**marka** · 01-31-2005, 01:34 PM

When a girl asks you for your phone number, that means she is not interested 99% of the time, or at least not interested in the way you would want them to be. If she were, she would give you hers.
As far as them being too hot, thats not the reason either, unless they are in an obvious way, out of your league.
When getting a phone number, IMO dont talk too much, just meet them, real quick, then ask for number, and then call them.....try to create as much interest as possible but not talking too much. Then on the phone do the same, but with goal of setting up date....then on date, you can talk about inviting on fishing trip, and so forth.
ANyway, this is what works for me.

**Monkeytown** · 01-31-2005, 01:35 PM

Originally Posted by Bigen12

If you have to give the girl your number, the girl simply isn't interested. If she was interested, she would have made sure you have her number also.

She is just agreeing to go fishing with you to be nice, and not hurt your feelings.

Just my opinion.

Agreed. Those chicks get hit on all the time. Look at it this way, if she blew you off you would tend to leave her less of a tip than if she agreed to go out sometime right? There you have it. Trying to pick up a waitress, bartender, etc. is the worse b/c they hear it all the time and just turn it off to customers/guests.

JMHO.

**OGPackin** · 01-31-2005, 01:38 PM

She just wanted a good tip...

OG

**bor** · 01-31-2005, 01:40 PM

ah the good ole' "don't call us, we'll call you".......

**IntensityX** · 01-31-2005, 01:41 PM

Maybe she had to do her hair

**Mesomorphyl** · 01-31-2005, 01:45 PM

Maybe it is you. Are you one ugly MF'er?

**Hot-Rox** · 01-31-2005, 01:47 PM

If you want to be positive, ask her what time she gets off. And, say that you'll take her out for a late dinner or something similar after her shift. Her responses to this question will give you a good indication of her true intention.

**frank_frank** · 01-31-2005, 01:54 PM

go back there and harrass her

j/k

**justin2305** · 01-31-2005, 02:04 PM

never have this problem bro LOL im blessed by the good lord with A+ game LOL im such a $hit head iono either bro some chicks are just like that i would rather a chick tell me shes not interested then get my hopes up thats what i tell chicks anyways

**needmorestrength** · 01-31-2005, 02:07 PM

lol start stalking hehe JJ.... I usually give my numbers to girls most of the time they call...if not.. nothing lost nothing gained

**HeavyHitter** · 01-31-2005, 02:08 PM

Bro... unfortunately, girls at hooters that dont give you there number are just flirting to get bigger tips. It is very rare that she will call you!! Sorry man, but you got played for a better tip!! Happens to the best of us man! how much you tip her??

**frank_frank** · 01-31-2005, 02:10 PM

Originally Posted by HeavyHitter

Bro... unfortunately, girls at hooters that dont give you there number are just flirting to get bigger tips. It is very rare that she will call you!! Sorry man, but you got played for a better tip!! Happens to the best of us man! how much you tip her??

ya im interested in how much u tipped her too....

it happens all the time so dont worry about it man

**XxElitexX** · 01-31-2005, 02:13 PM

Yeah its not a good sign if they ask you for your number. These girls DO get hit on all the time.

**edmen2** · 01-31-2005, 02:14 PM

give her the number and if she calls thats a bonus. now this technique sounds scary but only the nines and tens are worth the effort. dont hit on her just make small talk and try to find out where she shops or gets her hair done. if u can catch her in a grocery store with no makeup on and her casual clothes she will be putty in ur hands. the grocery store is the easiest place to pick up women cause they arent expecting it.

**Bigen12** · 01-31-2005, 02:16 PM

Originally Posted by Monkeytown

Trying to pick up a waitress, bartender, etc. is the worse b/c they hear it all the time and just turn it off to customers/guests.

JMHO.

Agreed,

If you still want to go after this type of girl, you will have to find out what she does for fun try to just happen to meet her there. Catch her at the beach, or at a club, and then strike up a conversation but leave her be at work.

**HeavyHitter** · 01-31-2005, 02:22 PM

ive given a hooters girl my number. She actually did call! but, i realized how annoying she was on the phone, (plus she had NO hooters and she was barely a 6) that i ended up not even hangin w/ her. My father, uncle and two lil cousins were with me too, so that might of helped!!

my point is, you never know... what if she lost your number by accident!! wait a couple of weeks and go back and ask what happened... then stalk her

**Psychotron** · 01-31-2005, 02:32 PM

Originally Posted by HeavyHitter

ive given a hooters girl my number. She actually did call! but, i realized how annoying she was on the phone, (plus she had NO hooters and she was barely a 6) that i ended up not even hangin w/ her. My father, uncle and two lil cousins were with me too, so that might of helped!!

my point is, you never know... what if she lost your number by accident!! wait a couple of weeks and go back and ask what happened... then stalk her

then stalk her, that is always the solution the problem, oh and 'just stick it in her butt' no matter what the problem is, just stick it in her butt.

**Panzerfaust** · 01-31-2005, 02:55 PM

Go back to restaurant when she gets off and when you see her get into her car, slam on the gas and bash your car right into the drivers side door.

She might at least date you out of fear after that?

If she is concious, simply ask her for her number and remind her she better pick up or else.

**jonnytour** · 01-31-2005, 02:59 PM

Originally Posted by Psychotron

then stalk her, that is always the solution the problem, oh and 'just stick it in her butt' no matter what the problem is, just stick it in her butt.

Hey...gotta stick with what works bruddah!!

**kloter1** · 01-31-2005, 03:16 PM

Originally Posted by Psychotron

then stalk her, that is always the solution the problem, oh and 'just stick it in her butt' no matter what the problem is, just stick it in her butt.

ya thats usually what id do, hahah, i dont think she was workin it for a tip, my bill was $30 i tipped her 6. I really dont think any girl is out of my league, ive dated a few 8's. thanks for the reply's. i think I'll stick to stalking.

**kloter1** · 01-31-2005, 03:20 PM

oh forgot to mention. she charged my credit card twice. i guess she didnt like me LOL

**Benches505** · 01-31-2005, 03:30 PM

Originally Posted by kloter1

ya thats usually what id do, hahah, i dont think she was workin it for a tip, my bill was $30 i tipped her 6. I really dont think any girl is out of my league, ive dated a few 8's. thanks for the reply's. i think I'll stick to stalking.

It's the 4's, 5's and 6's that will rock your world.

**Monkeytown** · 01-31-2005, 03:33 PM

Originally Posted by Bigen12

Agreed,

If you still want to go after this type of girl, you will have to find out what she does for fun try to just happen to meet her there. Catch her at the beach, or at a club, and then strike up a conversation but leave her be at work.

I worked at a bar for a few months. The best thing is that the girls working the bar are so easy when it comes to guys they work with. I worked with 4-5 different girls and nailed 3 of them and they all knew about it. Was trying for the 3-some but met my current gf before it panned out. Dam the luck! haha

**Monkeytown** · 01-31-2005, 03:35 PM

Originally Posted by Benches505

It's the 4's, 5's and 6's that will rock your world.

Quantity, not quality, is my motto!!

**AandF6969** · 01-31-2005, 05:11 PM

slut

**frank_frank** · 01-31-2005, 05:15 PM

Originally Posted by muriloninja

Go back to restaurant when she gets off and when you see her get into her car, slam on the gas and bash your car right into the drivers side door.

She might at least date you out of fear after that?

If she is concious, simply ask her for her number and remind her she better pick up or else.

hahahha, seriously the funniest thing ive heard in a while!!!
LOL

**josh8416** · 01-31-2005, 05:22 PM

Originally Posted by kloter1

oh forgot to mention. she charged my credit card twice. i guess she didnt like me LOL

she charged it twice?????? i would go back there for sure, thats messed up. i wouldnt worry about it dood, it happens all the time, just find someone else to stalk...lol

**chuck89gt5.0** · 01-31-2005, 05:23 PM

Originally Posted by Monkeytown

I worked at a bar for a few months. The best thing is that the girls working the bar are so easy when it comes to guys they work with. I worked with 4-5 different girls and nailed 3 of them and they all knew about it. Was trying for the 3-some but met my current gf before it panned out. Dam the luck! haha

Exactly! I am a bouncer at a club here and the waitresses fall into your lap, being a bouncer is THE BEST way to pick up ANY kind of girl you want!

**Commando_Barbi** · 01-31-2005, 05:31 PM

Wish I could help you but I don't take numbers from men I won't call. I just tell them I have a big boyfriend and it wouldn't be good for their health (even if I don't have one at the time).

Your bill being messed up is a good chance for you to go back and talk to her. I would try for the late dinner after your shift thing. Might work for you.

**AnabolicBoy1981** · 01-31-2005, 05:58 PM

Intersting. Maybe it's best to just ignore chicks like bartenders and hot waitresses. Maybe they will wonder why your NOT into them and get curiouse. I would like to try that,. Just go and not even smile at them when they take my order.

I kinda sorta did a similar thing saturday nite. I went to a bar with my buds, and i was the DD. So i decided i would train for my hot dog eating contest and pig out since i wasn't drinking. I ordererd a 1/2 pounder chili burger, then a double burger 1/2 lb per pattie, and a whole pound of meat coverd with onions and cheese. 2 pounds of beef i ate in front of this super hot bartender like a carnivorouse animal getting my fingers and face covered with sauce. Needles to say, she was impressed. Was she turned on? I dunno. But she seemed pretty interested.Her face when she saw me clean those plates was classic.
I had also just come from the olive garden where i killed a 16 ounce steak.

Anyway, maybe girsl like that find it refreshing when you ignore them and act like your not interested. I dunno.

Yeah she was prolly being nice. But, maybe it's better that way. I think i would rather get led on for a day, than get shut down right there and have my whole meal ruined. Plus you don't feel awkward the rest of the time. Except for the next time you go there. Oh well.

edmen2, is the food store thing true? I go to Giant and Superfresh all the time lookin for MILFS, but gave up recently. Should i keep at it? How many chicks have you picked up at food stores?