My MIND - My own worst ENEMY ????
I will apologize ahead of time for this long post, but I need to release. I have been lifting hard for 4 months or so, alot of my quick gains are basically muscle memory from before my accident that is mentioned in this thread.... http://forums.steroid.com/new-members-male-female/137597-erndog21971-about-myself.html .... and I am eating the diet that is laid out in this thread.... http://forums.steroid.com/read-here-first/113010-unoffical-how-bulk-thread-sample-diet.html .... and resting like I should. Now don't get me wrong, I am making gains, even good gains, I have had a positive attitude and I have never been more " hungry " or serious about lifting as I have been for the past few months. People that have not seen me for a while say I look bigger than I ever was, even at 203, this is due to the clean diet and more definition, almost like an optical illusion since my arms are the same size now as they were when I weighed 203, I am now 172 lbs. But the point of this post is this: Here recently some days I get up and look in the mirror and think "YES" I am looking good, and I am almost on a high, then some days I look in the mirror and I feel small. I want to be BIG now!!! I am sure alot of you feel the same. I know I need to keep a positive attitude as it will help my recovery and also my focus. I am sure if I weighed 225 and ripped I would still feel the same way, never really happy with myself. I need to quit beating myself up, but some days it seems hard not to. I come to this board and get some uplifting by reading some of your threads and searching for advice in the archives. I am just having a bad few days in a row and it is usually just one here and there, almost like depression, but it feels more like anger from so much desire to be bigger that I am being extra hard on myself. I have people almost every day saying positive things about the changes I am making and it was great for a while, but now I am almost like " yeah right" . I don't mean to use you guys for my personal pshychiatrist...LOL... but I just needed to vent, and maybe tomorrow things will be different. Thanks for taking the time to read this, and any positive comments or suggestions will help I am sure.