Ever informed....??

Has anyone ever been informed by a girlfriend/wife or a loved one that "All you concern yourself with is lifting, and steriods"?

Tonight at a bar (after having a nice dinner with her which was exspensive btw) I was informed by my g/f that all I talk about is lifting or steriods :unsure:
Well....I haven't touched any AS in 10 months so I don't really see what she's complaining about? Maybe it's because I had a bad shoulder injury and haven't really worked out in 6 months (not like I used to anyway).
And YES tonight I did talk about making a strong comeback, but who really cares if you wanna look good and feel good about yourself?? If you were a chick wouldn't you want your b/f to look good?? I don't understand women's way of thinking.... :unsure:

Yes my ex-gf told me that alot. caused arguements too...she'd always tell me "don't work out tolday!!" ,too.

in fact she called me on my birthday (bout a week ago, and the first time i had talked to her in months) and in our 5 min. conversation, two of the things she told me was "all you care about is your body!" and "are you still on steroids?"

The way i look at it is, everybody's got something they like doing and i like lifting and playing guitar. that's my hobbies i enjoy doing. if she don't like me for who i am and what i like doing then i don't need her.

I would appreciate you MB. I don't understand it either. I love being with a man that shares that love........but then again, we've all established....I'm not normal!!!

Move to Seattle :) I'll listen to you and not complain.

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Originally Posted by MBaraso

Has anyone ever been informed by a girlfriend/wife or a loved one that "All you concern yourself with is lifting, and steriods"?

Tonight at a bar (after having a nice dinner with her which was exspensive btw) I was informed by my g/f that all I talk about is lifting or steriods :unsure:
Well....I haven't touched any AS in 10 months so I don't really see what she's complaining about? Maybe it's because I had a bad shoulder injury and haven't really worked out in 6 months (not like I used to anyway).
And YES tonight I did talk about making a strong comeback, but who really cares if you wanna look good and feel good about yourself?? If you were a chick wouldn't you want your b/f to look good?? I don't understand women's way of thinking.... :unsure:

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i think most ppl will get this ,when your into something football etc you talk about it ,its who you are and what you do.
all i guy wants is to look good and the **** you have to take from ppl is depressing and gets you down.
i think girls say that cause they like more attention to them than to the gym plus they know theres alot of fit girls in the gym :wg:

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Originally Posted by irish bulldog

i think most ppl will get this ,when your into something football etc you talk about it ,its who you are and what you do.
all i guy wants is to look good and the **** you have to take from ppl is depressing and gets you down.
i think girls say that cause they like more attention to them than to the gym plus they know theres alot of fit girls in the gym :wg:

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I have to agree. Honestly I've been with a few girls that were intimidated by the fact that I would take attention off of them. Not only by looks but other men tend to be more reluctant to give random girls attention,when her bf/husband makes them think twice about it.

I also think that it intimidates girls with some security issues. They know they like what you have and other girls would to.

It's just another reason to find a girl with similar interests. If not this is something that eventually you are going to deal with about any girl. At least I know I have.

she probably just wanted to talk about your future and how much you love her, given the setting was a romantic night out.

I'm lucky. My girlfriend's real supportive of my training.

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Originally Posted by Dude-Man

she probably just wanted to talk about your future and how much you love her, given the setting was a romantic night out.

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lol that's probably right