Question mostly for the females here
No bull****ting/joking in this thread plz
To the women here(dont mind if the bros give input either)
Imagine this situation. You have a husband and a son. Your husband is a asshole. He is a mean alcoholic that whenever he drinks just a little bit treats you like ****. Hits you sometimes but most often tries everything he can to break you down mentaly and threath you in everyway you can. Now this has been going on for 15 years now. Since your son was born and longer.
Everynow and then when your husband is harassing you you trie to yell for your son to come and help you so you dont have to be alone with him, but almost every time he is to coward to aid you and instead hides in his room. The few times he comes to your side he quickly escapes when your husband turn his attention on him and starts to sling threats and insults towards him.
finaly one day your husband goes over the line. He tries to choke you and even though you scream your son does nothing. He just hides in his room to afraid and to disconnected mentaly to even respond or check out what happens(even though he by now is 15 years old and a rather big/strong wrestler for his age). Luckily your husband stops and goes away.
Would you after this hate your son for not helping you this time and all the times before?