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    Anyone actually enjoy being single?

    Cut the macho crap and answer this honestly. Sure you can run wild bang tons of women, blah , blah, blah.........BUT is it really a satisfying existance? I've been laid a ton, ran around like a freakshow and drank and screwed and all the other "fun stuff". It doesn't sound very appealing to me anymore. What the heck am I gonna do with myself when my marriage finally cracks?

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    I enjoyed it the five years i was in the army being an international lover, but it did get old, I am glad to have my wife now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    Cut the macho crap and answer this honestly. Sure you can run wild bang tons of women, blah , blah, blah.........BUT is it really a satisfying existance? I've been laid a ton, ran around like a freakshow and drank and screwed and all the other "fun stuff". It doesn't sound very appealing to me anymore. What the heck am I gonna do with myself when my marriage finally cracks?

    like rodney carrington says, when men get married its b/c they are tired of chasing it!!

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    no, it freakin sux... Steak'n'BJ day is HORRIBLE when your alone

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    lay it on me Hung

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    lay it on me Hung
    its half and half with me, i like to mess around but i love good company! nothing like having a best friend and lover all wrapped in one. you just cant beat it..

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    thats why my wife is still in the army only home half the time, and the rest in another country.

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    where does one find a sane woman these days?

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    I mentally cannot handle being single, if it wasn't for my girlfriend dragging me away from things i would probably be in a lot of trouble. Anytime i've ever done anything REALLY stupid it was in between girlfriends in the transition phase. My girlfriend seems to be my guardian angel.

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    no, it freakin sux... Steak'n'BJ day is HORRIBLE when your alone
    hahahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    where does one find a sane woman these days?
    no such thing

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    Quote Originally Posted by taiboxa
    no, it freakin sux... Steak'n'BJ day is HORRIBLE when your alone
    lmfao... vasoline and a warm towel just doesnt cut it eh

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    but.. the other half says, **** it! i get to do what i want , when i want, who i want to do it with and etc..

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    Bd..............I can say the same thing..........left to my own devices I seem to get into trouble.

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    In my case I enjoy being single quite a lot. Of course having a kid living with me 50% of the time it's not like being 21 and single... Free time is now a foreign concept.

    To me being single means I enjoy my life, got my family and have my occasional "fück friend" (or the politically correct version: consenting adults with no emotional commitment) come over when my boy is with his mom. Who could ask for anything more?

    I don't think I'd want to get hitched up again... been living like this for a long time and I am quite happy this way. Had a few GF's in the last few years, but I've tired of all of them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Red Ketchup
    In my case I enjoy being single quite a lot. Of course having a kid living with me 50% of the time it's not like being 21 and single... Free time is now a foreign concept.

    To me being single means I enjoy my life, got my family and have my occasional "fück friend" (or the politically correct version: consenting adults with no emotional commitment) come over when my boy is with his mom. Who could ask for anything more?

    I don't think I'd want to get hitched up again... been living like this for a long time and I am quite happy this way. Had a few GF's in the last few years, but I've tired of all of them.

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    i hear ya bro! its cheaper on ya too hahahaha

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    its either Single and lonely, or married and annoyed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hung-solo
    like rodney carrington says, when men get married its b/c they are tired of chasing it!!
    Yeah, this is true........ After I was divorced from my first wife I had my fun for a few years but it gets old............. I'm very happy that I met my new wife....

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    hell no man...i feel gay

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    After my divorce I had a load of fun being single. I fvcked anything that moved. I was all about quantity, not quality. After a while it got old. I have been with my current fiance for over 2 years and we are getting married in May. I won't lie and say I'm not scared to death, b/c I am. I just look at it like this......all pvssy is the same, it's what surrounds it that makes the difference. If you find one you love and can keep the flame alive, then why not.

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    well I will have my 16 year old son and 4 year old part time so it wouldn't be completley single. When I was single before (for a few years) I really missed contact ie: hugs etc with a woman. Just touching .........perhaps it's ghey but too fukking bad!

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    Its good to be able to just shag who you want when you want, but its also good to be able to go home to ur other half for a bit of affection. Theres loads of times when ive thought to myself that id love to be single again, then when me and the missus have time apart cos of a row, i wish i was with her.

    As the old saying goes "you can't live with them, and you can't live without them"

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    Quote Originally Posted by farrebarre
    hell no man...i feel gay
    well keep that **** to yourself man! talk to tailboxa if you need to talk to someone about that. he will be your hooked on phonics lover

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    Quote Originally Posted by farrebarre
    hell no man...i feel gay
    happy?

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    I am past the age of finding satisfaction with just getting laid, it's the downside of pushing 40, and it suks ass

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    after a 4 yr relationship and one 5 yr. i have been playin the field for the last four years. i havnt had a steady girl for more than 4 or 5 mons. i also havnt dated a girl over 25 either. i can honestly say i wouldnt trade this lifestyle for anything. way too much fun. im sure one day i'll feel different but for now i feel like a kid again.

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    1819............I hate you! (in a jealous sort of way!)

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    1819............I hate you! (in a jealous sort of way!)
    cant help it. i love young chicks and no responsibility. when you're tired or they give you any **** whatsoever, you politely show them the door.

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    yes i love being single ,get to do my own thing and spend my own money,ok so i dont get to dip my meat in the sauce every nite but sure.

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    Well vic I'm back in the same situation as U. I was wondering the same thing. I am miserable being married and scared sh1tless of being single at 40!. I was lucky to get married. If not I'd be dead or in prison. So I relate to BDTR and you on that issue as well. THIS SUCKS. Very confusing.

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    phyisical joy is alot more satifying than emotional joy

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    I don't know.....When you get older things change. The emotional contact becomes more important. At least for me.

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    It really does suck....there is no other way to say it. I am far from perfect but I am 10x the man I was when we met and she still isn't happy. How much is enough? I will tell you this I will dive head into my faith and not come up for air until I feel safe that's for sure.

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    Yes it is weird how it flips. Getting laid is great but I need to have feelings for her, it has no purpose otherwise. I'd rather spank it than shag a bimbo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 1victor
    Yes it is weird how it flips. Getting laid is great but I need to have feelings for her, it has no purpose otherwise. I'd rather spank it than shag a bimbo.
    Yeah, if you woulda told me I'd be sayin that when I was in my 20's I woulda slapped you upside the head!

    I too am far better now. I don't drink, I don't drug, and my temper is way under control.....Go figure....

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    In the end it aint worth it

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    I'd honestly rather sleep with the same girl over and over,then some random girl I don't know every weekend. It's just a lot of crap you are going to face either way.

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    gotta be honest. i'd marry the chick in irish bulldog's avatar. dont know for how long, but i'd give it a shot.

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