Am I reading into things too far...?
Alright. About two years ago, I dated a chick for almost three years. I thought everything was going fine. Every part of our relationship was healthy. About three months before the relationship ended, our sex life slowly died out. We both worked and were in school and were very busy, but always made time for that. Anyways, I came home from vacation visiting family out of state to find her porking my roommate and best friend in my living room. It was very traumatic, and I don't care how big of a man any of you are, it hurts to see that. Long story short, she had been sleeping with him since about a month before we stopped having sex. After a year or so of the single life, I met my current girl. She is a beautiful woman. She has a daughter I love to death. The first few months we dated, I was still partying/living the single life and wasn't too serious. I realized I cared for this chick a good bit and we started getting more involved. I chose not to sleep with her on many occasions simply because I cared for her, and wanted to make sure it wasn't just sex. I could find a piece of A$$ if I really wanted it, but I wanted this relationship to go somewhere. After a few really deep conversations, I realized we both agreed and felt the same way about each other. Well, needless to say, the sex was awesome for the next 4 or 5 months. I mean every chance we got. And I rarely ever had to propose the idea, she usually beat me to the punch. Well, about two months ago, we stopped having sex. I have been patient, and don't pester her about it. I let her know when I am in the mood, which is all the time, but I don't push things. after a few weeks, I couldn't take the anxiety any more and asked if she isn't attracted to me anymore, or if anything else was wrong. Keep in mind every other part of our relationship is great. She is in the process of moving, and said that she has work and moving into her new place and her daughter all keeping her to busy and sex is the last thing on her mind. She reassured me she was still attracted to me and that once she moved and things settled down, it would be different. I am a very understanding guy, and took her word. She has been out for a few weeks now, and I have bent over backwards helping her move. We have been getting along really well. I have been fortunate to spend almost everyday with her, whereas before we wouldn't spend more than two or three days a week with each other. But she still doesn't want to have sex. Last night She had a late night at work, and her daughter was at her dad's. I skipped my workout and headed straight to the barber shop last night for a haircut. I spent 80 bucks preparing a fancy dinner, and bought an expensive bottle of wine. She came home, and was surprised and really excited. We had an excellent dinner and the wine was great. As we headed to bed, she popped in a movie, and basically stayed on her side of the bed. Normally she is on top of me. We stayed awake for a while, and not much was said. I didn't do all of this expecting sex, I just thought we could spend some quality alone time, and get thigns rolling in the bedroom again. We fell asleep. This morning, I woke up and everything seemed fine. I was on my way to work when it hit me that this is the exact same way the first chick acted while she was banging my roommate. I can't help but have the suspcision after being hurt like that. I trust her, and we spend alot of time together so I don't think she is cheating on me. So ladies, do you think I am thinking to hard? This is extremely stressful. I want to talk to her abobut it but don't want to bring up the past. I just want to know what is going on. Sorry about the long post, thanks in advance.
