Do I have psychological problems?
I'm gonna try to sum this up as quickly as possible so bare with me bros. Ok, here's the story. In high school I went to a new school my final year and met some girl. I was whoring it up back then you can imagine new school, new and big kid, lets just say I got alot of attention. She wanted me and I held her off. I decided after sometime to hook up so I did. We spent several years together and got extremely close. We were basically married up until the time I turned 21. We had our ups and downs but more ups then anything. To make this short we took a break from our relationship cause things wern't going all that great. She met a guy, dated him and I found out so I came back into the picture. She left him for me and after about a two months that I completely gave her my 150% she ended up breaking up with me out of nowhere a few days before a vacation her and I and both our groups of friends had planned she broke up with me. She thought I wouldn't go because of how upset that would make me and I did, caught her there with him. That traumatized me and I went crazy for months and months after. I met my current gf now. She's great...we've been together for about six months but I still can't find a way to get as close to her as I was to my ex. My current gf has told me about two or three times that she loves me but something inside of me just can't find a way to say it back. I was betrayed in a major way by the last person I'd ever think would do such a thing. Do you guys think I have a problem or is this normal or what? I feel bad for her because she tries so hard and she's such a great gf but I just can't do it.
Let me know whats you guys think. Any psychiatrists out there?