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so basically ive been dating this girl for about 9 months now, and we are both about to graduate college and could end up not very close to eachother, the sad thing is that im starting to realize i love this girl and i dont know how to tell her or if i should tell her at all. so i dont know what to do, im wondering if i say it she will want to be close to me even if it isnt as great as a job.......any advice!?
If you love someone set them free... If they love you they will come back
Tell her you love her, she probably feels the same way.
i would just come out and tell her how you feel
why do u assume that SHE would have to move closer to YOU??? if you love her why arent YOU willing to move closer to HER??
you shouldnt assume that SHE should make the sacrifice.....
that being said... if u love her, tell her....whats the point in having emotions if you arent going to express them??
Tell her and sort it out. Find some sort of compromise if you both want to be together.
she has job offers both in nor cal and in so cal, i got a job in the bay area, and i told her i would move close to her.... basically ive never told a girl something like that before and i dont want go get rejected.
I don't think you will. If you've been with her that long, she's bound to feel the same way.Quote:
Originally Posted by CrazyRussian
i hope you're right, im going to try and say it after something romantic... i may be all big and tough on the outside but not on the inside... im all flustered, i just dont want this one to slip away... god i sound like a wuss
Naw, you sound like someone in love. I told my boyfriend of 19 months now, that I love him first...Quote:
Originally Posted by CrazyRussian
how long did you wait to do that, i have a test tomorrow and i cant study, i hate it.
tell her or you may someday tell the story of the one that got away.the ending to the first suggestion will probably be better.Quote:
Originally Posted by CrazyRussian
I think I waited about 5 months...Quote:
Originally Posted by CrazyRussian