Alone and Frustrated

Hey bros...

i gotta vent...if you wanna listen then read away...

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im sick of having no girlfriend...or any prospects...the only prospect i have is a girl who i have gone out with a couple times. she is very cute, nice, funny, i got nothing bad to say about her at all. but i just dont think she is into me like i am into her...so it kinda hurts but you slowly get over it and grow up.

im not the type of guy who likes to go clubbing to meet a girl. i like to stay in a lot. i am not a hermit but im not much of a drinker or anything.

i like to meet girls through friends and stuff, i guess maybe my method is outdated, but i find it a lot safer then meeting some girl at a club and getting some crazy STD!

im moving to germany this summer so hopefully stuff may pick up when i go, but who knows...

im sure some of you bros have felt like this...just frustrated with the dating game and trying to find someone special to share your time and experiences with...well i guess it just isnt my time yet.

thanks for reading

sorry if it didnt make any sense...

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Originally Posted by ultimo

Hey bros...

i gotta vent...if you wanna listen then read away...

:rant:

im sick of having no girlfriend...or any prospects...the only prospect i have is a girl who i have gone out with a couple times. she is very cute, nice, funny, i got nothing bad to say about her at all. but i just dont think she is into me like i am into her...so it kinda hurts but you slowly get over it and grow up.

im not the type of guy who likes to go clubbing to meet a girl. i like to stay in a lot. i am not a hermit but im not much of a drinker or anything.

i like to meet girls through friends and stuff, i guess maybe my method is outdated, but i find it a lot safer then meeting some girl at a club and getting some crazy STD!

im moving to germany this summer so hopefully stuff may pick up when i go, but who knows...

im sure some of you bros have felt like this...just frustrated with the dating game and trying to find someone special to share your time and experiences with...well i guess it just isnt my time yet.

thanks for reading

sorry if it didnt make any sense...

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When you least expect it that right girl will come along.. sounds cheesy.. prolly because it is.. but that does not mean that it's not true. Good luck.

i think all i have left right now is cheese...lol

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Originally Posted by ultimo

i think all i have left right now is cheese...lol

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lmao

... and your right hand! :aajack:

truuuuue

Ha, Man, we've all been there, maybe only a couple of days for some, but just go out and step your game up, put your pimp attitude on and go pick them hoes out, you'll def get reject, but hey the more you try the more ladies you have to choose from...
Pimp hard, lift hard, live hard

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Originally Posted by ultimo

Hey bros...

i gotta vent...if you wanna listen then read away...

:rant:

im sick of having no girlfriend...or any prospects...the only prospect i have is a girl who i have gone out with a couple times. she is very cute, nice, funny, i got nothing bad to say about her at all. but i just dont think she is into me like i am into her...so it kinda hurts but you slowly get over it and grow up.

im not the type of guy who likes to go clubbing to meet a girl. i like to stay in a lot. i am not a hermit but im not much of a drinker or anything.

i like to meet girls through friends and stuff, i guess maybe my method is outdated, but i find it a lot safer then meeting some girl at a club and getting some crazy STD!

im moving to germany this summer so hopefully stuff may pick up when i go, but who knows...

im sure some of you bros have felt like this...just frustrated with the dating game and trying to find someone special to share your time and experiences with...well i guess it just isnt my time yet.

thanks for reading

sorry if it didnt make any sense...

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No no no.... you should go out and get random hoes. Your statistical chance of getting an uncureable STD from one are 2 random hoes is slim!

You'll have the same feeling after you move to germany. Girls are the same wherever you go. You need to change your habits a bit to meet more girls. Involve in group activities (in a college gym, for example) and you'll have very high chances of meeting hot and nice girls.

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Originally Posted by Alex2

You'll have the same feeling after you move to germany. Girls are the same wherever you go. You need to change your habits a bit to meet more girls. Involve in group activities (in a college gym, for example) and you'll have very high chances of meeting hot and nice girls.

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While I agree with what you're getting at, I don't agree with the statement that girls are the same wherever you go. Just from my personal experiences, that is. Different cultures breed different women. In Europe they have a more liberal attitude towards sex, as opposed to America where a booby flops out during the superbowl and half the nation loses their minds.

That's not to say he's gonna turn into a pimp once he clears customs, but you never know.

Bro, i am just like you. I hate going to bars to pick up girls. I dont drink much while i am on cycle or off for that matter. So i am even less sociable when i am on cycle which sucks. I hit up the online spots every now then and I landed some pretty nice ass in the last 3 months. I just broke up with the last one after 2 months. So i am dried up again. What sucks is when you meet these girls on say match.com and you start dating they make you get off so you lose all the other prospects and then when you break up its back to square 1. Oh well. As you can see i know how you feel.

BTW. girls are not the same everywhere. women here in south florida are club hopping whores for the most part. not all but most. they seem to not outgrow it even when they are in there late 20's.

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Originally Posted by Fat Mike

Bro, i am just like you. I hate going to bars to pick up girls. I dont drink much while i am on cycle or off for that matter. So i am even less sociable when i am on cycle which sucks. I hit up the online spots every now then and I landed some pretty nice ass in the last 3 months. I just broke up with the last one after 2 months. So i am dried up again. What sucks is when you meet these girls on say match.com and you start dating they make you get off so you lose all the other prospects and then when you break up its back to square 1. Oh well. As you can see i know how you feel.

BTW. girls are not the same everywhere. women here in south florida are club hopping whores for the most part. not all but most. they seem to not outgrow it even when they are in there late 20's.

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i dont know thats how they are here too.. so I THINK THEY ARE THE SAME!

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Originally Posted by ginkobulloba

While I agree with what you're getting at, I don't agree with the statement that girls are the same wherever you go. Just from my personal experiences, that is. Different cultures breed different women. In Europe they have a more liberal attitude towards sex, as opposed to America where a booby flops out during the superbowl and half the nation loses their minds.

That's not to say he's gonna turn into a pimp once he clears customs, but you never know.

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I agree with you. I know girls in Europe much liberal than here cuz my mom is European and been there many times. What I was trying to say is girls wouldn't come and knock at your door. You have to take initiative in most cases.

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Originally Posted by ultimo

Hey bros...

i gotta vent...if you wanna listen then read away...

:rant:

im sick of having no girlfriend...or any prospects...the only prospect i have is a girl who i have gone out with a couple times. she is very cute, nice, funny, i got nothing bad to say about her at all. but i just dont think she is into me like i am into her...so it kinda hurts but you slowly get over it and grow up.

im not the type of guy who likes to go clubbing to meet a girl. i like to stay in a lot. i am not a hermit but im not much of a drinker or anything.

i like to meet girls through friends and stuff, i guess maybe my method is outdated, but i find it a lot safer then meeting some girl at a club and getting some crazy STD!

im moving to germany this summer so hopefully stuff may pick up when i go, but who knows...

im sure some of you bros have felt like this...just frustrated with the dating game and trying to find someone special to share your time and experiences with...well i guess it just isnt my time yet.

thanks for reading

sorry if it didnt make any sense...

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Know what you mean brother. I loss my girl today. That rubber bitch. She pissed me off and I put her in the trunk of my car. Bitch ran off with my spare tire. Good thing I didn't pay much for her. She was on sale at Big Lots for $9.99

whenever u give up and think theres no hope so u stop looking, thats normally when someone comes along. -thats just my experience

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Originally Posted by Fat Mike

Bro, i am just like you. I hate going to bars to pick up girls. I dont drink much while i am on cycle or off for that matter. So i am even less sociable when i am on cycle which sucks. I hit up the online spots every now then and I landed some pretty nice ass in the last 3 months. I just broke up with the last one after 2 months. So i am dried up again. What sucks is when you meet these girls on say match.com and you start dating they make you get off so you lose all the other prospects and then when you break up its back to square 1. Oh well. As you can see i know how you feel.

BTW. girls are not the same everywhere. women here in south florida are club hopping whores for the most part. not all but most. they seem to not outgrow it even when they are in there late 20's.

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No offense, but I feel people that use the internet to find women are nub!

keep your head up bro. you can meet women in the oddest places. i think you should get into a big gym and maybe go out every few weeks. i have friends that never go out and they complain about this same situation. it is what you make it. good luck

Find the closest college/university gym to you and join. They always have some kind of group activities and trips etc and you'll find a lot of hot, nice, and educated babes who are looking for good guys. I met most of the girls I dated at my college gym. I go to workout and whenever I want to date a new girl join volleyball, swimming, yoga, or any other group and start talking to them and that is it.

There are many other places too but I found meeting girls at the college gym very easy.

You can console yourself with the knowledge that somewhere out there in the murky night, are millions of unhappy married men who wish they had never met their wives, and that you have not (yet) made the same mistake they have.

Somewhere out there are thousands of beautiful, charming women that drove thousands of reasonable guys nuts . . . and now they're dressing up, going to clubs, and waiting for YOU!!!

-Tock

hahahah nice
thanks for the support bros...ya i guess i was down in the dumps but im feeling better now

women can just be a pain sometimes when they dont let ya know what they want or who they feel.

ya going out clubbing was never my thing, ive always been a guy who meets through friends and stuff...if a girl sleeps with you from a club how many other guys has she done? thats been my experience anyways...

times will change...the summer is upon us and im leaning down and getting into better shape...and europa here i come!!!

Bro, am in the same boat. I always feel fed up and lonely when i dont have a girlfriend. I am a bit of a "homely" person, don't go out much... but the fact is, when ever i do have a girl in my life, they always seem to mess up my work in the gym as they want to see me constantly and am always thinking "wish i was single again" :lol: ... can't have that! :lol:
How old are you? You have the rest of your life to find someone and as said above, they usually come along when u least expect it :bbsmile:

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No offense, but I feel people that use the internet to find women are nub!

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I thought that too until resently. A bunch of my friends started using Match.com and they have been meeting a bunch of really great girls and getting laid a lot too! I'm married so I don't dabble in it but apparently a lot of girls are not into the club scene either and have the same trouble this brother is having. People who like to club don't know this cause, well, they're always at the club. Plus there are no real surprises prior to going out with the person. You already know you have stuff in common with them so there is stuff to talk about right off the bat. Internet dating was creeping in 2000 when it was new but it's only creepy now if your close minded and not caught up with the changing times and the internet. I would highly recommend this dude get an account on Match.com. You'll be amazed at the type of people you meet there. it's the best way to meet girls if you hate going out.

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Originally Posted by MatrixGuy

Bro, am in the same boat. I always feel fed up and lonely when i dont have a girlfriend. I am a bit of a "homely" person, don't go out much... but the fact is, when ever i do have a girl in my life, they always seem to mess up my work in the gym as they want to see me constantly and am always thinking "wish i was single again" :lol: ... can't have that! :lol:
How old are you? You have the rest of your life to find someone and as said above, they usually come along when u least expect it :bbsmile:

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i am 20

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Originally Posted by Tock

You can console yourself with the knowledge that somewhere out there in the murky night, are millions of unhappy married men who wish they had never met their wives, and that you have not (yet) made the same mistake they have.

Somewhere out there are thousands of beautiful, charming women that drove thousands of reasonable guys nuts . . . and now they're dressing up, going to clubs, and waiting for YOU!!!

-Tock

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Wow! The 1st time I agree w/ Tock!:)

Consider yourself lucky. Stick to porn.