Women??? What do you think

[GIROLAMO]

I have been friends with this girl for like 10 years. When we first meet we messed around but only a couple of months. But we still were good friend. After a while I stared catching feeling for here and I told here how I felt. She said she did not want a relationship. After she told me that I really did not call like I use to and we really stopped talking for I while. But we were still friend and talked like once a month. Know all of a sudden we are good friends agen and she calls me like 3 - 4 times a day. And we hang out all the time. What I am asking is do you guys think there something there or just friends??

[Heracles74]

You don't need a woman to give you advice on this bro. Be a man, tell her to go get bent. You weren't good enough for her back then, why is she good enough for you now?? Dignity my friend, its all you will have left when everything else is gone.

[Mizfit]

Ask her straight up

[GIROLAMO]

I dont want to mess up ower friendship if she turns me down also I like the coment that Heracles74 said.

[GIROLAMO]

I just think it kind crazy that she calles me so much and wants to hang out all the time I think I am getting like mix signals

[Heracles74]

Ask her straight up

Or, you could just ask her what she is wanting from you as PLP suggests.. I'm a little biased here. I used to be real ordinary and chicks ignored me al lthe time, nowadays I am looking a lot better and really fit and some of them old chicks from the past show interest. I won't pay them mind becasue they showed how shallow they are. Not that I can't be too... just airing it... ok. I'll go take a zanax now...

[Heracles74]

chicks are all about mixed signals, but then again so are we. Think about your self respect and your dignity. you weren't enough for her before... why now?? talk to her if you think it will help you. as gay as it sounds, you have to follow your heart.

[IronFreakX]

if shes hot bang her for a weeks or so....

[RA]

You dont want to be the big F. Id say call her on it.

[GIROLAMO]

What do you mean

[RA]

Friend. After a while she will introduce you to the guys shes bangin, "Hes my friend" A bud of mine did that. We harassed the hell out of him. Just my .02.

[co2boi]

Bro, the best thing you can is become very scarce. Be "busy" a lot, date other girls and make sure she knows about it, etc. You don't have to be rude or disrespectful, just don't be needy, clingy, or wussy in any way. The less you need her the more she'll want you. You can't ask her straight up, she doesn't know what she wants. She'll tell you the truth about what she THINKS she wants, but then she'll likely disappear again.

She's calling again because you gave her the gift of missing you. Keep giving and you'll get back.

[symatech]

She's calling you because you are all the sudden unavailable. So her curiosity is peaked etc etc. If you start hanging out with her a lot and calling her like you used to she'll loose interest. So I'd say there isn't much there. Just ask her what she wants but be prepared to just remain her friend.

[GIROLAMO]

Thanks bro thats great advice and your absoulty right

[alphaman]

Sounds like she's become needy all of the sudden, and she knows that she can get what she wants out of you. Sounds like you're being used. I'd tell her to get lost, because if you fall for it, eventually- she'll find someone else, or lose intrest when she doesn't feel needy anymore.

[co2boi]

Girls always have a plan B brutha. It's safe to consider yourself plan B.