Skanky internet women vs the good woman you have at home

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 03:04 PM

Tell me please .... what is the draw? Why on earth would you sneak around, lie and cheat with some skank you met off the net when you have a good loving woman there with you????? Is it the thrill of getting her to send you pictures of her a$$ or other parts? I DON'T GET IT!

**symatech** · 06-17-2005, 03:07 PM

I DON'T GET IT!

me neither. not just the guys though...

**IronFreakX** · 06-17-2005, 03:08 PM

If u made a commitment stick to it if u cant get a divorce and save other people the heart break....no1 is forcing You to stay married....thats all i have to say

**smokethedays** · 06-17-2005, 03:08 PM

one rule honey: a man is as faithful as his options.

**IronFreakX** · 06-17-2005, 03:10 PM

so is a woman.....

**smokethedays** · 06-17-2005, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by IronFreakX

so is a woman.....

this is my 1st time to agree with u on something

**WildCh1ld** · 06-17-2005, 03:13 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

Tell me please .... what is the draw? Why on earth would you sneak around, lie and cheat with some skank you met off the net when you have a good loving woman there with you????? Is it the thrill of getting her to send you pictures of her a$$ or other parts? I DON'T GET IT!

Do you mean pictures like this???

edited...

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 03:14 PM

I know it isn't just the guys. It just sucks. There are times when I curse the internet. People getting addicted to cyber sex, gambling, cheating, etc.

If your committed to someone......there should be none of that crap. I would NEVER even consider that. I just found out that the entire time I was with my ex.....and he was with the girl before me.....he was out there hooking up with women on the net, and anywhere else he could find them.

Makes you wonder if you can really ever truely know the person you are with. I THOUGHT he was a good guy and it turned out he was a PRICK!

For me...when Im with someone....it's about respect...no internet, no phone, no nothing. I wouldn't disrespect someone that way.

Oh well....I must be a dying breed!

Originally Posted by symatech

me neither. not just the guys though...

**IronFreakX** · 06-17-2005, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by smokethedays

this is my 1st time to agree with u on something

I just hate u in the political forums , in the diet ,training , roid lounge etc....ur my friend....

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 03:15 PM

Hey wild....could ya cut that chit out of my thread please? Thanks

**WildCh1ld** · 06-17-2005, 03:16 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

Hey wild....could ya cut that chit out of my thread please? Thanks

done....

**IronFreakX** · 06-17-2005, 03:17 PM

Hott

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 03:18 PM

Originally Posted by WILDCH1LD

done....

Thank you .... I didn't need an exhibit of skanky internet chicks.....I saw them ALL over his computer!!!

**symatech** · 06-17-2005, 03:18 PM

Oh well....I must be a dying breed!

you and me both

**WildCh1ld** · 06-17-2005, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by IronFreakX

Hott

I know but a internet

whore...

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 03:19 PM

Originally Posted by symatech

you and me both

Ever think about marrying a future diplomat

**SexyKitty** · 06-17-2005, 03:26 PM

Personally I think it's a sign of weakness....cheating that is. Whether it's online or in "real life", people who are in a relationship but decide to cheat physically or emotionally are just weak.

They're not happy with who they're with, they want to see what else is out there yet they're too much of a wimp to breakup with that person in case the new person ends up not being what they thought, or not as good as the old. They dont want to be alone and dont want to lose what they have yet they're stil always looking for the next best thing. Pure weakness.

If people are so unhappy that they need to seak out someone new they need to just grow some balls and breakup with the person they are with, it's just not fair to them. Or stay in your relationship and work on it to make it better, a comittment is a comittment. This goes for men and women.

**HeavyHitter** · 06-17-2005, 03:33 PM

Hey CB... what if you have a girlfriend, but you flirt on sites like these. You run game, and give sexy comments etc (not cyber), but never go as far as cheating.... (even planning on meeting up w/ the person, although you never would)

how do ya feel on that!! cause to be honest, i do this all the time, without even thinkin about it!!

am i an aszhole?

**Crazylegs** · 06-17-2005, 03:36 PM

When is there a commitment? What exactly is it? How do you know when you have one? I know gravity is committed to keeping my ass staying planted on earth. I know the sun is committed to shine its heat on me, but nobody in an adhesion contract is committed to shit. If your feelings are hurt I am sorry for that but organize and choose the Pole that you have in life as apposed to repeating in stuck patterns of behavior. I don't think many people stop and look inside to see what kind of impact they may have on someone else, but if you were to do that what would you see?

**WildCh1ld** · 06-17-2005, 03:37 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

Thank you .... I didn't need an exhibit of skanky internet chicks.....I saw them ALL over his computer!!!

Is that how you caught him? You were looking through his computer and matched pictures with dates?

**Crazylegs** · 06-17-2005, 03:39 PM

Even better no commitment until your married

**hellapimpin** · 06-17-2005, 04:16 PM

i think that it is a sign of weakness if the person doesnt tell that they phucked up.

**Crazylegs** · 06-17-2005, 04:25 PM

I thinkits a sign of weakness to let what someelse do make your life ruined

**SwoleCat** · 06-17-2005, 04:40 PM

What sucks about cheating on the Internet is that you can still catch a virus.

~SC~

**MatrixGuy** · 06-17-2005, 05:00 PM

Any guy that cheats on his gf/wife needs his head examining

If only i had someone..................

**hellapimpin** · 06-17-2005, 05:11 PM

its only ruined if you cared enough not to do it in the first place and still did it.

Originally Posted by Crazylegs

I thinkits a sign of weakness to let what someelse do make your life ruined

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 05:39 PM

Originally Posted by WILDCH1LD

Is that how you caught him? You were looking through his computer and matched pictures with dates?

Its a LONG story but we broke up a while ago. His "other" girlfriend... the one from before and after and during me...happens to be in town. While she is here...he's still calling and coming around me. LONG story short...she busted him, called me, I went over and we all three had a long "talk" the next day she called me over while he was at work...to show me his email and ALL the activities he didn't even try to hide while she was here. ON TOP of that, he's been getting calls on his cell and home phone from at LEAST 3 other women.

My theory on young black men and FAT white chicks has held true. Out of all the women, including the girl that is here right now....I'm the ONLY fit one he's chasing. WTF!!!

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 05:41 PM

That is SOOO him. SOOOO HIM. Have you met him?????

Originally Posted by SexyKitty

Personally I think it's a sign of weakness....cheating that is. Whether it's online or in "real life", people who are in a relationship but decide to cheat physically or emotionally are just weak.

They're not happy with who they're with, they want to see what else is out there yet they're too much of a wimp to breakup with that person in case the new person ends up not being what they thought, or not as good as the old. They dont want to be alone and dont want to lose what they have yet they're stil always looking for the next best thing. Pure weakness.

If people are so unhappy that they need to seak out someone new they need to just grow some balls and breakup with the person they are with, it's just not fair to them. Or stay in your relationship and work on it to make it better, a comittment is a comittment. This goes for men and women.

**SwoleCat** · 06-17-2005, 05:42 PM

If it's any consolation, I hate fat white women.

~SC~

**SwoleCat** · 06-17-2005, 05:43 PM

True, but in my situation I look at it like there is plenty of me to go around.

I mean, come on I'm 270. That's 135 lbs. for each woman, and I'd still outweigh each one by 20 lbs. respectively after they share me!

See? Perfect!!!!! Everyone wins!

~SC~

Originally Posted by SexyKitty

Personally I think it's a sign of weakness....cheating that is. Whether it's online or in "real life", people who are in a relationship but decide to cheat physically or emotionally are just weak.

They're not happy with who they're with, they want to see what else is out there yet they're too much of a wimp to breakup with that person in case the new person ends up not being what they thought, or not as good as the old. They dont want to be alone and dont want to lose what they have yet they're stil always looking for the next best thing. Pure weakness.

If people are so unhappy that they need to seak out someone new they need to just grow some balls and breakup with the person they are with, it's just not fair to them. Or stay in your relationship and work on it to make it better, a comittment is a comittment. This goes for men and women.

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 05:46 PM

A small consolation....

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

If it's any consolation, I hate fat white women.

~SC~

**SwoleCat** · 06-17-2005, 05:58 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

A small consolation....

N E thing to help you out chica!

You're too sincere/intelligent for 98% of the men on this earth anyhow, so it's gonna be rough for ya to find that one "dude".

~SC~

**SexyKitty** · 06-17-2005, 06:13 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

That is SOOO him. SOOOO HIM. Have you met him?????

I think I've Dated him!

**SexyKitty** · 06-17-2005, 06:16 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

True, but in my situation I look at it like there is plenty of me to go around.

I mean, come on I'm 270. That's 135 lbs. for each woman, and I'd still outweigh each one by 20 lbs. respectively after they share me!

See? Perfect!!!!! Everyone wins!

~SC~

Now there's a win-win if I've ever heard one. And it would be just perfect if only you could find a woman that would settle for a 135 lb man!

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 06:17 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

N E thing to help you out chica!

You're too sincere/intelligent for 98% of the men on this earth anyhow, so it's gonna be rough for ya to find that one "dude".

~SC~

SO SC....what's a girl to do.....become the lying cheating heartless bitch? Then they would want to be faithful!!!

Sigh.

**Commando_Barbi** · 06-17-2005, 06:18 PM

Originally Posted by SexyKitty

I think I've Dated him!

Girl I am soooo sorry!!!!

**SexyKitty** · 06-17-2005, 06:20 PM

Originally Posted by Commando_Barbi

SO SC....what's a girl to do.....become the lying cheating heartless bitch? Then they would want to be faithful!!!

Sigh.

You know what....sometimes I think the answer is yes. They always seem to be nicer to the ones that treat them like sh*t! Not always but I've seen it quite a few times, it's like a challenge to them or something.

BG · 06-17-2005, 06:26 PM

Originally Posted by SwoleCat

If it's any consolation, I hate fat white women.

~SC~

I LOVE FAT WHITE CHICKS, JUST DONT MAKE LOVE TO THEM!!!!!

BG · 06-17-2005, 06:28 PM

You know it takes someone to get their heart broke for them to stop breaking hearts.

**SwoleCat** · 06-17-2005, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by SexyKitty

You know what....sometimes I think the answer is yes. They always seem to be nicer to the ones that treat them like sh*t! Not always but I've seen it quite a few times, it's like a challenge to them or something.

True. It's about attitude and game a lot of the times.

Too easy (pushover) and you are boring. However, the right mix of beauty and attitude is like a crack addict addiction, too hard to break away from.

~SC~