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    Unhappy Help!!!!! My boyfriend doesnt love me?

    Ok, so I've been with this guy, most of you know him as Schwamin for a year and 9 months, today ironically. And we're fighting. He says he never loved me and has been lying to me the whole time. My heart is breaking and I am really upset. I can't stop crying. This whole fight started b/c he went out of town and one of the girls that he went out of town with was asleep in his bed. He was in it. I think I have a right to be upset. He thinks I'm overreacting?

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    He told me this, and just a few days ago he said he was looking at engagement rings...what gives? We got in this kinda spat last year about the same time...I don't get him...but I still love him and want to wokr this out...HELP

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    i woulden't be happy if i found out my girlfriend slept in a bed with another man

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    ??Why was the woman in his bed?

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    Quote Originally Posted by stocky121
    i woulden't be happy if i found out my girlfriend slept in a bed with another man
    So you think I have a right to be upset?

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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack
    ??Why was the woman in his bed?
    Apparently there was no where else for her to sleep, which is BS cuz they have like 3 couches...

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    Quote Originally Posted by stocky121
    i woulden't be happy if i found out my girlfriend slept in a bed with another man

    Same here,

    Your best bet is to act as if your relationship is over, explain to him that since he doesn't love you, it is over, and that you are moving on with your life.

    He may have simply said that he didn’t love you out of anger, but you need to show him how serious a statement that is. Make him earn you back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    Apparently there was no where else for her to sleep, which is BS cuz they have like 3 couches...

    He should have slept on the floor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    So you think I have a right to be upset?

    if that was me i would take it as he slept with her and tell him to **** off. I know it's not something you wan't to hear but why else would she be in the same bed
    Last edited by stocky121; 06-27-2005 at 02:54 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bigen12
    He should have slept on the floor.
    thats what I said...

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    So you think I have a right to be upset?
    Yes. I'm sorry, I know how brutal stuff like this can be. I busted a gf, whom I loved, cheating on me (walked right in on the act). I'm not saying thats what your bf did, but I'm saying I understand the pain...

    Anyways, no you're not overreacting. Regardless of whether he cheated on you or not, that was a totally d-ck thing for him to say to you. Completely heartless and downright spiteful and mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    Apparently there was no where else for her to sleep, which is BS cuz they have like 3 couches...

    Ive never slept with a woman that I didnt....

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    He says I'm obsessed and crazy b/c I was calling him while he was out of town. I was just worried b/c the people he went with he doesn't trust. And I don't either.

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    Quote Originally Posted by clockworks
    Yes. I'm sorry, I know how brutal stuff like this can be. I busted a gf, whom I loved, cheating on me (walked right in on the act). I'm not saying thats what your bf did, but I'm saying I understand the pain...

    Anyways, no you're not overreacting. Regardless of whether he cheated on you or not, that was a totally d-ck thing for him to say to you. Completely heartless and downright spiteful and mean.
    I know. It breaks my heart. I hope to God he didn't mean it. I love him with all myheart. Its weird...he holds all this in and this lets it all out when I don't expect it. How am I suppose to fix anything if he doesn't tell me whats bothering him........

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    hmmm, sounds shallow, but have you seen this woman?

    how many others were in the room, is there proof of this? is there anything that he can do to prove that he was looking for rings or that


    ooooh actually holy fuk, I forgot all aobut the fact he said he doesn't love ya.

    HOLY FUK, dont dump him, torture him!

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    I don't think he did anything with her...I asked him and he said no...then again I believed him when he said he loved me all this time...

    But I do trust him. Despite everything he's said.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dally
    hmmm, sounds shallow, but have you seen this woman?

    how many others were in the room, is there proof of this? is there anything that he can do to prove that he was looking for rings or that


    ooooh actually holy fuk, I forgot all aobut the fact he said he doesn't love ya.

    HOLY FUK, dont dump him, torture him!
    Yeah, I've seen her. She's ok...and it was just him and her.

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    yeah youd have the right to be pissed, hes just lying to you, im sure he cared at one time!

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    If I was with a girl and she went away on a business trip with some men and one of the men slept in her bed(and I knew it)she would be gone. For him to do it is total disrespect to you.

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    but I trust him, despite everything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack
    If I was with a girl and she went away on a business trip with some men and one of the men slept in her bed(and I knew it)she would be gone. For him to do it is total disrespect to you.
    Thank you. Thats what I think too...

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    Thank you. Thats what I think too...
    that's what i think three

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    Ok, so I've been with this guy, most of you know him as Schwamin for a year and 9 months, today ironically. And we're fighting. He says he never loved me and has been lying to me the whole time. My heart is breaking and I am really upset. I can't stop crying. This whole fight started b/c he went out of town and one of the girls that he went out of town with was asleep in his bed. He was in it. I think I have a right to be upset. He thinks I'm overreacting?
    If he has been lying to you this whole time about his feelings for you then he is not worth it. You can do alot better.. there is plenty of guys out there for you, i just hope you don't get the same kinda guy next time around. Did he get upto anything with this girl?

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    So do you think he meant it by sayin he didn't love me? Or was it out of spite?

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    Dont know, guys can say a lot of shit out of spite.

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    listen , do u want me to whack him for u ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by IronFreakX
    listen , do u want me to whack him for u ?


    man, she didnt say he was gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MatrixGuy
    If he has been lying to you this whole time about his feelings for you then he is not worth it. You can do alot better.. there is plenty of guys out there for you, i just hope you don't get the same kinda guy next time around. Did he get upto anything with this girl?
    No, he said nothing went on with her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack
    man, she didnt say he was gay.



    iron freak's going to toss it up his wrongin

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    It seems to me that he was just pissed off and fighting so he ran his mouth and said some BS to hurt your feelings.

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    If he doesn't respect you, which it's evident he doesn't if he slept in the same bed w/another woman and told you the hurtful things he did, I believe the answer is pretty cut/dry.

    At least in my eyes it is. I don't understand all the threads here as of late w/people cheating on their significant others "6 times" and shit like that, and then asking "what should I do".

    If you have to ask others what you should do, it's no wonder you are being taken and played like a fool.

    Sorry, but my avatar is me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Benches505
    It seems to me that he was just pissed off and fighting so he ran his mouth and said some BS to hurt your feelings.
    I hope you're right...I don't want to lose him.

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    I do understand the thread for "support" of people here, yes, but as far as how anyone can "help" you in the true sense of the word is beyond me.

    You have to help yourself, or find yourself helpless.

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    You probably don't want to hear this, but don't let love blind you. I took back the girl who cheated on me because I was so blinded by love, that I was willing to accept anything she told me, including her f-ing lame ass excuse about why she was naked in bed with some other guy. Big mistake. I'm older now and not so naive...

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    Quote Originally Posted by SwoleCat
    If he doesn't respect you, which it's evident he doesn't if he slept in the same bed w/another woman and told you the hurtful things he did, I believe the answer is pretty cut/dry.

    At least in my eyes it is. I don't understand all the threads here as of late w/people cheating on their significant others "6 times" and shit like that, and then asking "what should I do".

    If you have to ask others what you should do, it's no wonder you are being taken and played like a fool.

    Sorry, but my avatar is me.

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    Well he didn't CHEAT on me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by PaRiS2005
    Well he didn't CHEAT on me...
    Yeah, you were there and know this for a fact, right?



    ~SC~

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    Quote Originally Posted by roidattack
    man, she didnt say he was gay.
    whack=spray=murder=kill=assasinate=eradicate=exter minate=terminate=death=lifeless




    whack does not mean gay unless u thinking bout.....

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    he is a man, sleeping in a room with a non-family woman. He hit it, sorry but its the truth.

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    So he never actually did anything with this girl then Paris?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maraxus
    he is a man, sleeping in a room with a non-family woman. He hit it, sorry but its the truth.
    Yeah, I wouldn't let a broad sleep in my bed unless I WAS GOING to definitely get some.

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