My friend scared the shit out of me this night
Around 3:30 my friend(lets call him Y) calls and wakes me up. Hes all drunk and ****ed upp crying and telling me he is bleeding and that he is gonna kill himself but dont realy dare to.
I try to make him calm down but all of a sudden he just says "maby Im dead tomorrow" and then hangs up the god damn phone.
So I try to get ahold of my other friend(C) and finaly I do. Y had called him shortely after me. It was a ****ed upp sitution because the week before C had found Y sitting on the floor in his apartment trying to cut his wrists.
But I live 1300kilometers from both of them and C was working night and couldnt leave his job so none of us could go home to his place.
Anyway it ended good. Y sobered up and didnt do anything. Talking to him right now. Me Y and C have for many years now been best of friends. Since 6th grade. It kills both me and C to know Y is this depressed we have no clue what to do. I was like that for 2 years horribly depressed and suicidal but still it feels like I cant advice him. Trying to convince him not to drink anymore and to go to a councelor or pschyciatrist but knowing how hard it was for me to take that step I guess its very hard.
Anyone else been in a situation like this and how did you help your friend?