07-27-2005, 10:04 AM #1
seducing chicks/feeling insecure...
ive never had a problem with both until i started bodybuilding which is weird, as ive got stretch marks and they make me feel really bad and i cant seem to take my shirt off when im with a chick thus making it harder for me to seduce her, any tips on easy seduction as im going out with a chick 2night and id love to bang her, thanks bros
07-27-2005, 10:04 AM #2
use cocoa butter from palmers
07-27-2005, 10:09 AM #3Originally Posted by chest6
icedude: just be you man. I am willing to bet thatyour stretch marks are not a big deal and she will not think much of it. Your looks or body may very well be what got her attention in the first place. So go with that. your stretch marks are a byproduct to your hard work. You can still do all the things you have been able to do before. trust me.
And remember. Nobody is harder on you than you. Lighten up man and go out, have a good time, and I hope you get lucky.
07-27-2005, 10:10 AM #4
Get her drunk bro, that always worked for me...
07-27-2005, 10:11 AM #5
Actually get her drunk first then take her to the beach if your near one, and sit in the life guard tower. Chicks dig that crap, take a blanket...
07-27-2005, 10:14 AM #6
Has chest6 said use cocoa butter or get tanned. There are some good fake tans on the market at the moment. This will reduce your stretch marks.
Then I find to seduce a chick, they love to dance and be made to laugh. Works 80% of the time for me and if you have a good body use it, wear a tight T-shirt and some good jeans, with that and dancing she’s as good as yours.
07-27-2005, 10:20 AM #7
You gotz to seduce her mind mang...then she'll be putty in your hands
What you aren't considering is how insecure she's feeling. Her mind is working overtime wondering if she will be good enough, look good enough, etc. Don't sweat it bro, just go with it.
07-27-2005, 10:21 AM #8AR Hall of Fame
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Where are the stretch marks?
I wouldn't worry about it, shit, it's a testament to all the hard work you have put in.
Shove your thing in her mouth and then show her the stretch marks around her mouth after.
07-27-2005, 10:22 AM #9Originally Posted by SwoleCat
07-27-2005, 10:22 AM #10
07-27-2005, 10:23 AM #11Originally Posted by Heracles74
Being able to be yourself gives off a distinct confidence which is like an aphrodisiac(sp) for women. (can throw some cocky comments in there, but it can have opposite effect on some women) Gotta have the gentle touch too. Through out the night, soft yet extremely gentleman like touches really turn a girl on (making her feel protected, and truly taken care-of) obviously th usual politness is key, but dont make yourslef look gay. if by any chance you can help someone else out, old lady walkin, somebody carrying somethin- do it!! and of course the killer takedown knowing how to dance is unstoppable bruva
print this out kid... hahahaha good luck!!
07-27-2005, 10:23 AM #12Originally Posted by SwoleCat
07-27-2005, 10:28 AM #13Originally Posted by HeavyHitter
Exactly right. You should print this out.
07-27-2005, 10:51 AM #14
fawk it tell her those strech marks are a road map to love!!!!!
07-27-2005, 10:58 AM #15
lol ther near my arms pits shoulder area sum on my chest!...well there unmissable with a shirt off, she'd be expecting a blemish free physique is all im worried about...:S
07-27-2005, 11:01 AM #16Originally Posted by icedudez
07-27-2005, 11:01 AM #17Originally Posted by co2boi
07-27-2005, 11:05 AM #18
but its lots of different stretch marks i wouldnt mind as much if it was big aggressive 1,lol...i may just go all out and do anything i can to bang her u only live once right
07-27-2005, 11:47 AM #19Originally Posted by Heracles74
07-27-2005, 11:59 AM #20
I asked my derm exactly how effective Cocoa butter and all those other lotions and gels work for stretchies
he said they do nada.
07-27-2005, 12:03 PM #21
be romantic...take her somewhere where there is a big risk of getting caught is high...so u just take it out shove it in her.....ur good to go!!! and u didnt even have to take ur shirt off.......
man sometimes i think im just too smart for myself....
07-27-2005, 12:38 PM #22Originally Posted by bigrob33
07-27-2005, 01:12 PM #23
there are far more important things in life to worry about than stretch marks from the gym. Hell, those ****ers are like trophies to me.
07-27-2005, 05:03 PM #24
Dude stretch marks are like battle scars you should be proud of them. You have obviously gained a lot of mass and gotten much bigger to get them. Be proud of them, show em off, say "hey bitch check this out" and rip your shirt off and show off those battle scars from the gym. You are the man! LOL
07-27-2005, 05:16 PM #25Originally Posted by mark956101957
07-28-2005, 10:19 AM #26
had the evening in withthe chick i like, was terrible, my confidence was so low i didnt even get a kiss goodnight, i feel like such a **** up ive ruined it with her, theres nothing i can do, i used to be so good with chicks didnteven have to try...
07-28-2005, 11:49 AM #27
07-28-2005, 12:19 PM #28Originally Posted by icedudez
Dont be so much a wuz. give her a call take her to a club. she will enjoy herself with out you having to talk to much.
she will remember the good times so arange to go out in a group thats always good fun.
Dont give up keep at it
07-28-2005, 12:24 PM #29
i dnt thnk she wants 2 c me again, im so gutted
07-28-2005, 12:25 PM #30Originally Posted by icedudez
07-28-2005, 12:27 PM #31
but this chick used to like me a lot we used to date a lot n stuff back in high school...the confidence has only really gone down since i started bodybuilding which it shudnt really cos i look better...
07-28-2005, 12:35 PM #32
bro... heres your #1 mistake... STOP THINKING ABOUT IT SO MUCH!!! its like SEX, if you think about going soft, YOUR GONNA GO SOFT. (god i hate when that happens) So all ya gotta do is... calm down, tell yoself who gives a fck!! Dont forget kid, your the man if you think you are!!
i was gonna say good luck... but thats so not it. HAVE FUN!!!!
07-28-2005, 12:57 PM #33
Chances are that the only one troubled by your stretch marks is you! I don't mind a woman with stretch marks which also happens to be very common in women who have had kids. On the flip side of that coin I do hear my friends talk shit on how they wouldn't touch a woman with stretch marks blah blah. If the woman is that shallow, ass **** her then throw her out the door.
Don't sweat the small stuff Bro
07-28-2005, 01:39 PM #34Originally Posted by mark956101957
07-28-2005, 02:50 PM #35Associate Member
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Hey icedude, iv got a very similar situation as you; I went from 138 pounds to 185 in the space of a few years and got LOADS of stretchmarks and they use to really diminish my confidence around women too. Iv honestly only ever seen 1 guy with stretchmarks worse than mine.
BUT, alot of girls have them, not just from pregnancy but from puberty aswel; like, around their breasts, hips, etc.; but i dont care about them or find them any less attractive, and they dont care about mine.Iv no doubt there are women who think that theyre completely disgustng, and women who think they look hot on a ripped body(1 girl i knew said they looked 'tough' or somethin ), but the vast majority probably wouldnt care. Look at it this way, if you had a choice between a girl with a hot body that had some stretchmarks, or a girl with an 'average' body, who would ya pick?
07-28-2005, 02:52 PM #36
women dont notice the flaw u think they do
07-28-2005, 02:59 PM #37Originally Posted by Prettylittlepest
07-29-2005, 09:59 AM #38
bump bump. okay so im seeing a different chick tonight, going out in her car, i aint gonna let this 1 slip, gotta bang her!!, I WONT need 2 take my shirt off in her car so thats a plus...any1 had ne chicks in cars? uncomfy?
07-29-2005, 10:36 AM #39Originally Posted by icedudez
07-29-2005, 10:44 AM #40
Sex in the car sucks - def do what Benches said though if you have to use the car and do it in the trunk - nothing like the spare tire rubbing against your ass while your balls deep in some nuggets butt. Why don't you just get a room?
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