to move or not to move for relationship

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10-06-2005, 06:23 PM
steve0

to move or not to move for relationship

alright bros'/girls...here it is this shit has been eating up at me for a while now so i decided to get some input from others, My ex and i split after 2.5 yrs. we were both going to school togather at Texas Tech we lived togather and all that great shit, well after we split basiclly because i wanted to explore my options, i moved to Austin and she moved to Flordia to be with here family we it's been 8 months ans we are talking about getting back togather she say has offerd for me to move to Flordia she says she wont leave Fl because she loves it yadda yadda, yadda,,,,she also says she will pay for my gas and i can live with her of cours...heres the funny part.......she says i dont have to work for 2-3 months and i can just hangout for a while and she will pay for my food -yes she knows how much i eat- also she says she will pay for my gym membership,, basiclly she will be paying for evreything, i have tried to explain that i could not let this happen but she insist, i dont think she quit understands how exspensive shit will become and we would prolly end up broke, but lately we have hardly been talkin on the phone at all and when we do it's pretty quick because she had a bad and dosnt feel like conversing or whatever...i just think this may either be to good to be true, or she is offering all this to me just as a test,,because i told her i would move, but not till January, and since then shit has been shakey during are phon convos.........ANY THOUGHTS????
10-06-2005, 06:26 PM
xtinaunasty

if you do it...dont do it for the free ride (no matter how good it may be ;) ) do it because you want to be with her.
10-06-2005, 06:31 PM
steve0

Quote:

Originally Posted by xtinaunasty

if you do it...dont do it for the free ride (no matter how good it may be ;) ) do it because you want to be with her.

yeah i know i do love her but sometimes, i just think she's bulshittin me just testing me to see if i will, so i told her hell yeah i'll go, ans now she's been distance the past couple days.. should i bring this up to her..
10-06-2005, 06:33 PM
spywizard

tests are never good.. because she will never believe.. thus you will always fall short, and then you find yourself not being you, but who she thinks you should be..

thus..

divorce, and a lost lifetime.
10-06-2005, 06:41 PM
xtinaunasty

man...what is it with women and games? they give us a bad name. not all women are psycho dammit!! well....THAT psycho anyway ;)
10-06-2005, 06:46 PM
steve0

so should i confront her about this ?????
10-06-2005, 06:47 PM
Puffader

Yeah , ok....You're all nuts!

Quote:

Originally Posted by xtinaunasty

man...what is it with women and games? they give us a bad name. not all women are psycho dammit!! well....THAT psycho anyway ;)
10-06-2005, 06:49 PM
xtinaunasty

yeah but some of us are worth it...i dunno steve. i would not initiate contact. then when she calls you (because she will). feel it out...see if she says anything about it.
10-06-2005, 06:51 PM
steve0

Quote:

Originally Posted by xtinaunasty

yeah but some of us are worth it...i dunno steve. i would not initiate contact. then when she calls you (because she will). feel it out...see if she says anything about it.

she wont bring it up,,i will have ask her something like ( is something on ur mind/ or do you wanna talk about something )
10-06-2005, 07:27 PM
SwoleCat

Only if she springs for Cell Tech, because that is what makes monsters out of regular men.

~SC~
10-06-2005, 07:32 PM
Evil Predator

AndroTest :lol:
10-06-2005, 07:34 PM
USfighterFC

sounds like a trap
10-06-2005, 07:36 PM
decadbal

huge huge mistake.. for one, letting someone pay for your lifestyle. your not a kid anymore.. and moving after you already decided it wasnt worth it.. not smart at all..
10-06-2005, 07:46 PM
xtinaunasty

Quote:

Originally Posted by steve0

she wont bring it up,,i will have ask her something like ( is something on ur mind/ or do you wanna talk about something )

if she doesnt bring it up then she doesnt really want you to move. i know it sucks but she is fuking with you...
10-06-2005, 07:54 PM
steve0

Quote:

Originally Posted by xtinaunasty

if she doesnt bring it up then she doesnt really want you to move. i know it sucks but she is fuking with you...

damn why do bitches allways fuvk with me she is a :liar:
10-06-2005, 08:56 PM
BARLOW

dont do it man!!!!!!!!! DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!
10-06-2005, 10:07 PM
steve0

ummm yeah F her what am i thinking, i was about to pack up all my shit and move half way accross the US for this chick man im stupid, i gotta get a grip..mmm time for some me time :haha:
10-06-2005, 10:28 PM
SprinterOne

I don't want to sound like a complete asshole or a total snob, but why is it so hard for people to use punctuation in their posts? I couldn't even read the thing man. Everyone on here should be at least 18 and should know how to use some punctuation when writing.
10-06-2005, 10:50 PM
chest6

I dont know man. Girls are strange..you could get down there and she could have found someone else/not be interested anymore or something like that. It sounds too good to be true like you said.
10-07-2005, 07:18 AM
ttuprincess

Dont do it. That sounds like a trap.