Thread: Letter to CruiseControl
10-07-2005, 09:46 AM #1
Letter to CruiseControl
I hope your okay with me now that you know i was joking around, I am leaving to San Francisco today to join a march that is being held in honor of
someone I once knew. This will be the last post anyone ever see's of me.
Farwell to all..........
10-07-2005, 09:51 AM #2
well i hope you dont get gay bashed...
10-07-2005, 09:57 AM #3AR's Salad Tossing Connoisseur
Originally Posted by Decadbal
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10-07-2005, 10:19 AM #4
WTF is he serious LMFAO!!!!! cruis loves you bro...........
10-07-2005, 10:29 AM #5
cruis is training with xtralarg training partner now,,,he is very busy at the momentlast time i heard he was biteing the pillow,,,oh bless!!
10-07-2005, 10:30 AM #6Originally Posted by marcus300
10-07-2005, 10:33 AM #7Originally Posted by CRUISECONTROL
how did your training session go with XL partner?? hot hot hot
10-07-2005, 10:34 AM #8Originally Posted by marcus300
10-07-2005, 10:53 AM #9Originally Posted by marcus300
Dont worry I wont hold that against you, After all it is your body
10-07-2005, 10:56 AM #10
cruis ,,i dont like guys to suck my manhood,,,,it all depends on the circumstance,,,
you yanks crack me up your so funny,,,
10-07-2005, 11:38 AM #11Originally Posted by marcus300
10-07-2005, 12:51 PM #12
WTF is this guy on?
Sorry about what i started in the other thread Cruise! I had no idea he was like this.
10-07-2005, 12:53 PM #13Originally Posted by MatrixGuy
10-07-2005, 12:56 PM #14Originally Posted by CRUISECONTROL
10-07-2005, 02:12 PM #15Originally Posted by CRUISECONTROL
gutted wat did imisss?????
10-07-2005, 02:58 PM #16
poor cruise....always attracting all the gay dudes
10-07-2005, 03:05 PM #17
nothin new there then!wats he got a gay stalker now?
10-07-2005, 03:11 PM #18Originally Posted by chest6
10-07-2005, 03:15 PM #19Originally Posted by chest6
10-07-2005, 03:21 PM #20
coz your soooo lovely and cuddly!!
10-07-2005, 03:26 PM #21Originally Posted by booz
Just like my teddy
10-07-2005, 03:40 PM #22Originally Posted by CRUISECONTROL
10-07-2005, 03:47 PM #23Originally Posted by Mesomorphyl
10-07-2005, 04:04 PM #24
PM FROM CRUISE
Dear big guy 4 u, I do not want you sharing my feelings about you with everyone else. Please your going to cause a problem letting everyone know how you feel about me and how I feel about you. I know you and I are known as a tag team on other boards but we must put this to rest at this one. I'll call you later tonight. love ya big guy 4 me......
Cruise Control : Understanding Sex Addiction in Gay Men
from Joe Kort, MSW
No, this book isn’t about how to control Tom Cruise— although he needs some, given his ignorant advice that no one should take prescribed medication for depression. This is a long-awaited and much-anticipated book for gay male sex addicts.
After specializing in sexual addiction for over 20 years, I finally have a resource to give to my gay male clients who are struggling with sexual compulsivity. Twenty-five years ago, Patrick Carnes wrote his book, Out of the Shadows through a heterosexual male lens. Following that came a book by Charlotte Kasl for sexually addicted women. And now, Robert Weiss, MSW—author, psychotherapist and a colleague of mine in the field of sexual addiction— does a fine job illustrating how this addiction manifests among gay men.
Sensitive to how the gay male community will receive this book, he makes it known quickly in Chapter One that he is not pathologizing gay sex and that "sexual addiction is not really about sex at all." This is important because as a sexual addiction specialist myself, I often hear gay men dismiss the whole idea of sexual addiction as simply a bigoted ploy to further marginalize gay men and their sexual behavior.
Weiss defines sexual addiction in terms of what healthy sexuality is not about—namely obsession, compulsion, trance-like-states, and repeated poor judgment for one’s physical, emotional and legal safety. Sexual addiction leaves the sufferer feeling lonely and ashamed, disconnected and isolated—the exact reverse of what healthy sexual expression will provide. As Weiss explains, "Anyone can experience negative consequences that relate to sex; bad things sometimes just happen. But sex addicts are risk-takers. The law of probability dictates that the more frequently you take risks, the more likely it is that you will reap severe consequences as a result of your sexual behavior." Cruise Control (buy now) helps gay readers determine whether or not they are sexually addicted, why some gay men are at risk to become sex addicts, and what the compulsion is really all about. The second half of his book is about the recovery process—individually and with a partner. The partner needs to recover from his feelings of betrayal and deceit at his partner’s behavior; his recovery process includes rebuilding trust.
Weiss’ book also addresses love addiction, which was being used in the 1980s as a label for those jumping from one new relationship to another. Both personally and professionally, I thought Addictionologists had gone too far and that the term addiction was losing its meaning. But today, I understand exactly why behavioral problems involving sex, love and gambling are described as addictions. Individuals can become addicted to the internal chemicals that exist within us all, which are released when acting out certain behaviors. These internal mood-enhancers which include adrenaline, phenylethylamine, and dopamine, provoke feelings of being high and euphoric. You literally are in an altered state, because you have released a host of internalized drugs into your bloodstream. In all too many cases, the release of these natural drugs becomes associated with the specific behaviors that triggered them. The more risk, fear, and danger people experience, the stronger some of these chemicals become.
To this chemical high, add negative beliefs and shame about one’s self based on internalized homophobia, low self-esteem, poor body image (gay men do tend to strive for the perfect body), and you become vulnerable to a sexual addiction. Sex becomes the means for coping with (and distracting from) stress, so daily life is viewed through a testosterone screen... read more
10-07-2005, 04:05 PM #25
Cruise and I on our last vacation...
10-07-2005, 04:11 PM #26
OMG. Wait till Cruise see's this!!
10-07-2005, 04:56 PM #27
oooooooo the truths out!!!
10-07-2005, 04:58 PM #28
someones gointo get a bollockin!!!
10-07-2005, 04:59 PM #29Originally Posted by booz
10-07-2005, 05:00 PM #30
tick tock tick tock cant wait for the explosion!!!
10-07-2005, 05:34 PM #31
I think this guy is asking for a ban?
10-07-2005, 06:15 PM #32Originally Posted by marcus300
again with the gayness... (homosexuality)..The answer to your every question
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10-07-2005, 06:52 PM #33Originally Posted by BIG GUY 4 U
10-07-2005, 06:59 PM #34
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WTF is this shit all about
10-08-2005, 02:32 AM #35Originally Posted by spywizard
you narrow minded yankys crack me up,,,you lot want to live abit,,,,
anyway if it bothers you i will stop giving my opinion,,,,anyone fancy coming to a party??
10-08-2005, 02:56 AM #36
shit cruise is gonna flip
10-08-2005, 05:25 AM #37Originally Posted by chest6
oh yeah id say,where is the man of the moment anyways?
10-08-2005, 05:45 AM #38Originally Posted by booz
10-08-2005, 05:57 AM #39
LMFAO at this thread and stockys ava,,,
10-08-2005, 11:29 AM #40Originally Posted by S.P.G
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