Thread: Spanking your children
10-13-2005, 10:51 AM #1
Spanking your children
How many people beleave that if you spank your children you will hurt them?I ask you,how many of you beleave that if you spank your children you will teach your children that if they do wrong they have to pay for ther actions?I saw an add aginst spanking children tonight on tv.what have you got to say about this??????
10-13-2005, 10:55 AM #2
There needs to be steps taken for instance strike 1, strike 2 and then they get their ass beat
I actually dont spank my kids often but if they want to keep pushing the limit they will be reminded who is in charge!!!!!!!!!!!
10-13-2005, 10:59 AM #3
i dont believe in it, well only if she has big tits and a cute arse!!
10-13-2005, 11:03 AM #4Originally Posted by ok-u-got-me
Originally Posted by ok-u-got-me
I believe that it teaches children that there are consequences to their actions, if they do wrong, there will be negative consequences. Sorry but time out can be a complete joke.
I know of many parents who donít spank their children, some turn out just fine, others are nasty children. I see these children in the supermarket or restaurants being loud, and misbehaving with their parents whispering and pleading for them to be good and think to myself how easy it would be to simply smack that butt and make everything so much better.
Last edited by Bigen12; 10-13-2005 at 11:14 AM.
10-13-2005, 11:09 AM #5Retired Vet
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I'd never lay a hand on my children. I believe its voilence, pure and simple.
10-13-2005, 11:10 AM #6
my son is 3 and i have only hit him once over the hand. Not to say that it is wrong to disipline your child as long as your not causing him or her any physical or amotional abuse
10-13-2005, 11:18 AM #7Originally Posted by Bigen12
i was hit with just about thing in the kitchen,
i was even knock off my feet when my mom threw the millenium falcon (the old one from the 80's the plastic one. ) down a flight of steps @ me.
and im a better person cause of that
10-13-2005, 11:23 AM #8
I got my ass kicked all the time. Didn't change my actions. I was still a bratt
10-13-2005, 11:24 AM #9Originally Posted by Puffader
10-13-2005, 11:27 AM #10
There is a difference between spaking and abuse!!!!!!!!
10-13-2005, 11:27 AM #11
i got spanked by my cop dad and cop mother. they had four boys and we were really good kids, because we knew the consequences. kids nowadays have no consequences. parents let their children run rampant, and scream and yell at their parents.
my son knows that if he acted that way, he would have a consequence. its rarely ever needed to spank him. but i think knowing that it could happen, is a deterent for him. and that is why he shows respect.
10-13-2005, 11:42 AM #12Originally Posted by MASTERDBOL
So did you fallow in there foot steps?
10-13-2005, 11:44 AM #13Originally Posted by ok-u-got-me
10-13-2005, 11:50 AM #14Originally Posted by MASTERDBOL
Ya thats what my dam wife tell me all the time.
10-13-2005, 11:53 AM #15Originally Posted by MASTERDBOL
10-13-2005, 11:57 AM #16
Children need discipline and look at the world today and how children act toward their parents. Kids are taught how to call child services very young and parents that are afraid to stand up to the own kids should not have kids in the first place. I remember one day my daughter was about 8 years old and she got in trouble for something and she got in big trouble and she said she was going to call the police, well I handed her the phone and said her ya go because they will take you away not me.... we never had that come up again.
Is an ass beating the right thing to do every time? No I don't think so but kids should be taught if you do something wrong you should get something to remind you not to do it again.
My step-dad was a biker (a real biker not a weekend want-to-be) and he did not care how was around or where we were if we smarted off or took the wrong tone with him or my mother Wack a smack right in the chops. Believe me we learned pretty quick.. Of course the time I stone an ounce of weed and some drugs out of his room he held me down and punched me in the face for a while (Which I think was not a good idea nor in the Dr Spock handbook).
Even with all the beatings (and by this I mean deserved ones) we all turned out okay.
Did I spank my daughter? yes and she is almost 16 and is very respectable to others and is not mixed up in drugs or anything.
Heck when she comes home from school I may throw a beat down on her just to remind her.. J/K
10-13-2005, 12:01 PM #17
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Spanking is critical to a child's upbringing in my opinion. Abusing children is another matter totally and something I DO NOT condone. And it's true, some kids will be disrespectful little shits no matter how hard you spank them, but in the big picture, spanking is one step in successful child rearing.
10-13-2005, 12:04 PM #18Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
my dad hit me twice and i can remember both times like it was yesterday,,personaly i dont want my kids to be scared of me and remember me as someone who hit them,,,,,you can punish without hitting,,,be a dad and a friend not a bully!!!! there is no need to hit or spank kids,,use other methords
10-13-2005, 12:08 PM #19
10-13-2005, 12:09 PM #20Originally Posted by marcus300
10-13-2005, 12:09 PM #21
not only did I get spanked, my dad would backhand me upside the head sometimes when I was out of line, but it wasnt repeatedly, it wasnt abusive and never broke the skin or anything like that. I believe I'll woop my kids asses someday too, might keep them out of jail.
10-13-2005, 12:10 PM #22Originally Posted by marcus300
and yelling!!!??? thats by far the worst thing to do. kids will/do drown out yelling. it accomplishes zero. i remember getting spanked. thats not what i remember most about my father. but it also helped make me into what i am today. i have respect. i show respect. and i follow most laws because of consequences. something i learned when i was growing up.
10-13-2005, 12:11 PM #23Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
10-13-2005, 12:13 PM #24Originally Posted by MASTERDBOL
10-13-2005, 12:16 PM #25Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
My father would use his belt, and I can only remember a hand full of spankings, he is a big man and thatís all it took for me to stay on the straight and narrow.
I absolutely don't resent my father for spanking me. I truly believe that he had my best interests in mind.
10-13-2005, 12:18 PM #26
I think it comes down to TEACHING your children right and wrong, if spanking your kids help get the point to them, which sometimes is needed, then its ok, ABUSE is NOT OK! After spanking them you must reinforce your actions with teachable moments. I agree with those who have said that kids today are little spoiled shits. This is true, its not because there is no punishment, its cause parents dont know how to teach kids. They leave the teaching up to the TV and the worlds view, parents have much less contact with their own kids than the TV does. Spending time, and teaching the why's and how's of this world is being left up to the networks to teach children.
10-13-2005, 12:20 PM #27
dont agree at all,,,,you can punish without hitting or spanking,,,,end off
10-13-2005, 12:20 PM #28Originally Posted by happysumo
10-13-2005, 12:20 PM #29Originally Posted by MASTERDBOL
I hate it when parents are yelling at their kids in public places, and then doing the old count to 3 routine.....
My kids know as I knew, there would be no counting, just a mean look from Dad, it that warning wasn't headed, there would be a spanking on the way.
10-13-2005, 12:21 PM #30Originally Posted by CRUISECONTROL
Same here. I dont spank very often, normally they get sent to their room. It has to be something pretty bad.
10-13-2005, 12:22 PM #31Originally Posted by marcus300
10-13-2005, 12:42 PM #32
Hitting my kids is a no no. I always just stand my little girl up against the wall. That always works for me. It is very effective way for me to deal with her and not have to ever hit her. At least it works for me.
10-13-2005, 12:45 PM #33Originally Posted by ok-u-got-me
10-13-2005, 12:47 PM #34Originally Posted by marcus300
I don't like having to spank my kids at all, and I rarely did, and considering that they are 14 and 16, they are both too damn big for me to spank now!
10-13-2005, 12:51 PM #35Originally Posted by Bigen12
10-13-2005, 12:56 PM #36Originally Posted by marcus300
Well said Bigen12 and MasterDbol
10-13-2005, 01:03 PM #37Originally Posted by Mesomorphyl
10-13-2005, 01:05 PM #38Originally Posted by marcus300
10-13-2005, 01:11 PM #39Originally Posted by Mesomorphyl
10-13-2005, 01:12 PM #40
i never have spanked my kids,have twin girls of nearly 16 a boy of 11 and a newborn,raising my voice has always been enuff for them!!
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