So, would you leave your gf

[Evil Predator]

whom you are definately enamored with, to be with a gorgeous ex-junkie(3 years clean) who you think might be the woman you want to marry. She's smart, she's funny, educated, independant.

I feel like an idiot... one with no clue as to what to do.

I like my girlfriend a whole lot, but i the feelings I have for girl #2 are tearing me apart.

Cheating isnt an option, I refuse to. Girl 2 kissed me tonight, and then we had to have a talk about this whole thing.

Now its time for me to go to bed, and im still trying to figure out how to go to sleep next to my girl while im feeling like this.

****ing stupid me. Stupid, stupid me.

[Puffader]

Well, why did you leave #2?
Who is better for you?
Why do love #2 so much?
Do you love #1?

[Evil Predator]

i never left 2, we werent together

i never said i loved either.

I already said, #2, is to me, the most attractive girl ive ever met :shrug

No, i dont love #1, weve been together like 4 months. Tho, i do like her a ton.

[G-1000]

you need to spend the night thinking.

[chest6]

dammit..my ex still loved her ex and went to go see him...fackk

[Benches505]

No such thing as an x-junkie bro. Be ready to deal with a relapse if you are going that route.

[steve0]

does #2 love you?? and does she relize what you may be giving up to be with her

[Evil Predator]

No such thing as an x-junkie bro. Be ready to deal with a relapse if you are going that route.

she'll always be an addict man, but she's not a junkie. 3 years clean (off methadone also) is an amazing feat. It does scare me, but it doesnt change my opinion of her. Lots of us were ****-ups for a long time, me included.

[steve0]

dammit..my ex still loved her ex and went to go see him...fackk

hahahahaahahahahahah, sorry to hear bruh,

[Puffader]

Go to #2. Don't drag #1 through all this. Your attraction for #2 will never fade unless you're with her. So let #1 free before you end up really hurting her. Give #2 a try. I hope it all works out for you!

she'll always be an addict man, but she's not a junkie. 3 years clean (off methadone also) is an amazing feat. It does scare me, but it doesnt change my opinion of her. Lots of us were ****-ups for a long time, me included.

[Evil Predator]

does #2 love you?? and does she relize what you may be giving up to be with her

Whats with all the love talk? Is love a couple of month process for you people? How can you love someone you dont really even know?

[Dave321]

do what you feel is right... I was dating a girl for 3 years... always was subconciously in love with my friend who happened to be a female... we are dating now, and she is the girl I will marry.... you never know what's in store unless you give the situation an opportunity. Be careful you don't confuse lust with true feelings... women are more desirable when you are in a situation where you can't have them... I still jerk off to Alyssa Milano.

[Evil Predator]

Go to #2. Don't drag #1 through all this. Your attraction for #2 will never fade unless you're with her. So let #1 free before you end up really hurting her. Give #2 a try. I hope it all works out for you!

That is EXACTLY whats been running through my mind man....

[Evil Predator]

I still jerk off to Alyssa Milano.

me too...

but, i'll still jerk off to the bra section of the sears catalogue if im hard up enough

[Dave321]

me too...

but, i'll still jerk off to the bra section of the sears catalogue if im hard up enough

roflmfao!!!

[steve0]

im confussed as hell i thought you were all about # 2 ??? she's the addict right??? and #1 is who you are with now right??? and you have only been with her for a few months right ??

[Evil Predator]

Hmmm... I think my minds made up. I just gotta get the courage to break it to Tricia

[Evil Predator]

im confussed as hell i thought you were all about # 2 ??? she's the addict right??? and #1 is who you are with now right??? and you have only been with her for a few months right ??

i am all about #2, the junkie.

I do like #1, but ive never felt the same about her as I do #2.

and ya, 4 months i think. I dont keep track.

[BG]

No such thing as an x-junkie bro. Be ready to deal with a relapse if you are going that route.

probably right Im sorry to say.And think of the nasty shit she did while being a junkie, bet girl 1 dont have any of that under her belt. The skeletons in the closet always catch up with girl 2. Make sure she gets checked out with a doctor if you do go with the junkie, Happy Holloween.

[Puffader]

Finally #1 has a name "Tricia"

Tell her you're dating Justin Sane. Jesus that dude swings every way!

[Puffader]

I see you're a ladies man! NOT..!!

i am all about #2, the junkie.

I do like #1, but ive never felt the same about her as I do #2.

and ya, 4 months i think. I dont keep track.

[Dave321]

Finally #1 has a name "Tricia"

Tell her you're dating Justin Sane. Jesus that dude swings every way!

What Did tha Five Fingaz Say to tha Faaace?

[Evil Predator]

probably right Im sorry to say.

well, i'll take my chances and trust her... She's come this far, ive never been one to hold someones past against them. Especially someone who's bettered themselves so much.

Plus, she's hard and toned everywhere, and she's big into fitness

[Puffader]

You slap like a sissy.

What Did tha Five Fingaz Say to tha Faaace?

[Evil Predator]

And think of the nasty shit she did while being a junkie, bet girl 1 dont have any of that under her belt. The skeletons in the closet always catch up with girl 2. Make sure she gets checked out with a doctor if you do go with the junkie, Happy Holloween.

dude, chicky is clean. Has a great job. Works out every day. Sure, she's done some ****ed up stuff im sure, but, ive put a needle or two in myself too. So have you ill bet. She' been tested, she's living as good a life as anyone.

Some people do change for the better.

[steve0]

bro go with ur gut on this one

[Evil Predator]

Anyway, im off to bed. Ive got mucho thinking to do.

[El Jugo Buen0]

before you go throwing away a good thing, you need to make sure the next thing is a certainty. Are you sure you know this other girl well enough to assume that you and her could have a long lasting, or atleast worthwhile relationship? Hang out with this girl a lot, talk to her...don't make any moves, try to find as much as you can...then make your decision.

[TexasFitnessGirl]

The grass is always greener till you have to eat those ****ing weeds.

[CAUSASIAN]

Go with the one that loves you more, and not with the one you love more.

[Benches505]

Go with the one that loves you more, and not with the one you love more.

I couldn't agree more.

[SnaX]

There is a REASON you left the girl.

What you THINK you are feeling for this girl is a lie. It's fabricated by your agressive mind, which is a tool for solvign puzzles, survival tool, and ultimately destruciton. It's goign to destroy this great relationship you have now.

And it IS NOT hard to kick this OTHER girl to the curb!!!!!!!!!
The difficult part about it, is that you are pre-conditioned to THINK it should be difficult, when you know the truth lies with the woman you are with now. Be a man, not a child. And do what you know is right. This OTHER girl.... whoever the FUHK she is, KNOWS you are in a relationship, yet she still kissed you. Whts this show you about her other than she is a ho. She would kiss any of her EX's. If you let this ruin what you have now, then what will you have left? you'll be alone. You wont have girl1, and you dont know if girl2 could be a perm. thing. Which is wont. So yeah you'll be alone.

And why the HELL are you still hanging out with someone who could ruin your current relationship?!?!.. Because obviously you're not strong enough to avoid temptation from some other bitch. If you dont do this right this time, you'll never get it right again. Don't be a dumbass/jackass.. or any type of ass for that matter. Thats all im saying.


Will this harshness help it settle any easier?

This all relies on you....


So what you can do is this. Not tell your girlfriend that this other girl kissed you. Because it's nothing to you. She's just being a loose person. You'll go on caring for this woman you are with now. You won't even second guess this old trash, and then you'll wake up one morning next to a beautiful woman who loves you with all her heart, and you'll think of the time that it could have all gone bad, but you didn't let it. And you'll be so greatful to have her.

[Evil Predator]

There is a REASON you left the girl.

ummm, no, as i said, her and i were never together.....

anyway, my minds made up.

[Evil Predator]

and thats it. Girl #1 just left my place crying

[CAUSASIAN]

Girl #1 will want you more now,because you rejected her.

[spywizard]

whom you are definately enamored with, to be with a gorgeous ex-junkie(3 years clean) who you think might be the woman you want to marry. She's smart, she's funny, educated, independant.

I feel like an idiot... one with no clue as to what to do.

I like my girlfriend a whole lot, but i the feelings I have for girl #2 are tearing me apart.

Cheating isnt an option, I refuse to. Girl 2 kissed me tonight, and then we had to have a talk about this whole thing.

Now its time for me to go to bed, and im still trying to figure out how to go to sleep next to my girl while im feeling like this.

****ing stupid me. Stupid, stupid me.

ummmm... kissing a girl is cheating... sorry but it is... for a guy anyway..

you already know what you want to do... is it because you can save the other girl?? well, you can't...

an addictive behavior in a woman is not always a good thing, if she is that obcessive (drugs) she will focus that obcession on something else..

jmo, just my experience..

sorry..

[1819]

The grass is always greener till you have to eat those ****ing weeds.

i wasnt gonna read this whole thread and im glad i did cause i was gonna type the same fvckin thing. if you say you got a good thing with girl #1, well then, be with girl #1. always gonna be other people your interested in. be happy with what ya got.

[timvds]

The grass is always greener till you have to eat those ****ing weeds.

My thoughts exactly.. At this rate he will be tappin crack whores in another 4 months.

Just messin!

[ttuprincess]

i know youve already made your decision, but ill add in my 2cents... .I htikn you made the right choice. To be honest you were not being fair to girl #1. Dont go running around trying to make a start of a new relationship while your with someone else.Using one girl as a backup till you have another set in stone is not right. In fact thats a chicken shit way to do things. I hope the new girl works out for you, cause you probably just let a real good one go.

[punchrf]

and thats it. Girl #1 just left my place crying

you did the right thing in my opinion if you were having stronger feelings about another girl. you don't want to be wasting someones time if you know you want to be with someone else. i don't know how you handled the break up but i at least hope you weren't overly aggressive with it. i don't know if i would be able to ever trust girl #2 if she was classified as a junkie. it would always be in the back of my mind but then again you know far more about the whole situation than any of us giving advice do. good luck with your situation.