Girl Question

[CrazyRussian]

They wouldnt let me post this in the ask the opposite sex forum...so here it goes


Ok, how about this......I dated a girl, we broke up cause we didnt have a lot of time for eachother, she met me at the gym and asked me out on valentines day, the thing is that i started to like her again and summer is coming up and we will have more time for eachother i think, so ladies.....how should i tell her my feelings and that i would like to try things again?

[Canes4Ever]

You should have time for her now, so I say go for it, and get to know each other during the summer, and then maybe when fall comes around and you don't have as much time for her again, she will understand you and your goals better.

just my 2¢

[Neo]

I've had to deal with this before. In my case, I told her how I felt and we started dating again. We had a WONDERFUL summer together, but as soon as fall came around, she started up with the same games that she had played the year before. It hurt me pretty bad, bro. So I'd question if it's worth it. On one hand you will have a great summer and fun times together, but on the other, there is a risk of getting hurt again. All I can really say is, do what makes YOU happy....no matter what....Good luck bro, and keep us posted...

[Big Rush]

I always find it easier to relay my true feelings under the influence of alcohol...is that bad..lol?????

[Ajax]

Just talk to her and tell her! Be direct, but not blunt.

Call her up (or visit her) and have a chat; if things go well, tell her that you really miss being around her and would like to see more of her again. Tell her you have more time now--and that you are willing to make more time for her in the future. (If you aren't really able or willing to do that, then don't lie about it, but if you really care for her, set your priorities and make time!)

The worst that can happen is she will be flattered and say no. The best--well, htat's up to you two after that!

[berry]

dont tell her man ,she will take advantege of it and hurt u even more,do it only if she opens up,i know its strange but the more u ignore the more they love in some casses...

[Mrs. T]

Is it safe to assume that the reason you don't have enough time for each other during part of the year, but do in the summer is because you are students? If that is the case - while you are in school, it is absolutely appropriate to make your education your #1 priority and everything come after that. If she doesn't have time for a serious love relationship because her #1 priority is her education, that is definitley not a game or a heartless action on her part. She has her priorities absolutely straight. If you are also a student, you should do the same thing. JMO, but I'm a mom.

[CrazyRussian]

we are both students, the issue was that she was taking 18 units and working almost 40 hours a week for her job, im a student/athlete and that takes up a lot of time, i dont have a job, but she came over the other day out of the blue and was telling me that she will be working less and that we need to kick it, this was like right after i started to like her again. it was a mutual break up thing, but she did hint that there will be more time...... did i mention she looks like anna kournikova

[bronzebeefcake]

Like the locals here say "Chance em bra" (go for it)(take a chance)....Life is toooooo short to be saying , could've-would've-should've...good luck and Aloha.........bronze.....

[Mrs. T]

You two enjoy your summer.