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    Pre-Nup Before Getting Married

    Has anyone requested that their future spouse sign a pre-nup? Or were you asked to sign one? What is the process of getting a pre-nup take? Thanks!

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    My buddies x step dad wishes he did my friends mom got the house and the shop and her brand new explorer but that got very nasty I think it depend on you and your spouses views but good luck either way bro.

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    I found this for you, brutha.
    I have to go lift, so I'll catch you later mi amigo.
    http://www.milwaukeefamilylaw.com/CM...WhatWeDo13.asp

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
    My buddies x step dad wishes he did my friends mom got the house and the shop and her brand new explorer but that got very nasty I think it depend on you and your spouses views but good luck either way bro.
    She said she would sign one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Papi93
    She said she would sign one.
    I'd do it then bro it won't hurt anything

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    Quote Originally Posted by Keyser Sozey
    I found this for you, brutha.
    I have to go lift, so I'll catch you later mi amigo.
    http://www.milwaukeefamilylaw.com/CM...WhatWeDo13.asp
    Muchas gracias hermano. !Eres el hombre!

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    dont you trust her then???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Papi93
    Muchas gracias hermano. !Eres el hombre!
    what does that mean lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
    I'd do it then bro it won't hurt anything
    Keysor gave me a great link. I going to read through it tonight, after I pull myself away from this site . My family and friends minds will be at ease if she signs one. I don't think we need to but I rather be safe than sorry.

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    DO IT !! i few buddies of mine plus my pops said you gotta do it man iv seen to many guys loose there half there shit over a female its not right and its not worth it, just because she dont wanna be with anymore or vis versa dosnt mean she should get your money, i know that they do cost a pretty penny to get drawn up by a attorny but still its worth it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
    what does that mean lol
    Thank you very much brother. You are the man!

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    Quote Originally Posted by steve0
    DO IT !! i few buddies of mine plus my pops said you gotta do it man iv seen to many guys loose there half there shit over a female its not right and its not worth it, just because she dont wanna be with anymore or vis versa dosnt mean she should get your money, i know that they do cost a pretty penny to get drawn up by a attorny but still its worth it
    What do you think it's going to cost?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Papi93
    What do you think it's going to cost?
    Less than the divorce will

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tyrone_Biggums
    Less than the divorce will
    True. It just e-mailed the site Keysor gave me. I'll let you guys know when they reply to me.

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    cost prolly has something to do with your lawyer most lawyers charge 100-200 an hr, but pre-nup can be diffrent you can put anything you want in there you have ti list all your stuff like......chair, frig, dog, house, desk, shit like that you get the hint

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    Quote Originally Posted by steve0
    cost prolly has something to do with your lawyer most lawyers charge 100-200 an hr, but pre-nup can be diffrent you can put anything you want in there you have ti list all your stuff like......chair, frig, dog, house, desk, shit like that you get the hint
    I hope it can stay under $500.

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    500 no way bruh i think there a couple G's

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    my bad i just did a google search it depens on how much your estate is worth so you should be ok, no worries bruh

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    Quote Originally Posted by steve0
    500 no way bruh i think there a couple G's
    Damn. I guess she will get half or I'll have to divorce her after two years (that's when she gets permanent residency). How long do you have to be married, for her to get half?

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    as soon as you both say " i do " what yours is hers

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    i donr even know you bruh and i ont want u getting married, im going to my cousins bachalor party the day after christmas we got two rooms on South Padre goona be a blast we sent out 60 invitations, so make sure you have one hell of a party bro

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    Quote Originally Posted by steve0
    i donr even know you bruh and i ont want u getting married, im going to my cousins bachalor party the day after christmas we got two rooms on South Padre goona be a blast we sent out 60 invitations, so make sure you have one hell of a party bro
    We are definitely going to have to wait. I need to save some cash for the prenup. Thanks for your help.

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    if you don't trust the pussy.. why are you buying the pussy??

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    not really though... a prenup will protect assets that are your's alone before the marriage..

    the main reason then becomes, you want to protect your future earnings from her.. for in most states she gets 1/2 of everything that was earned during..

    the prenup can have a clause in it that says exactly how much she will recieve in alimony, child support..
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    Get ONE no questions ask if you have anything to lose!!

    You can get one cheap at

    www.legalzoom.com I get a lot of work done with them and it is easier than using an attorney and WAY cheaper.

    You can do wills, trademarks, pre-nups, copyright, etc....

    Fantastic company out of Cali.

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    oh.. its only 200 bucks for the premium package and it is just like using a REAL attorney.

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    Quote Originally Posted by system admin
    Get ONE no questions ask if you have anything to lose!!

    You can get one cheap at

    www.legalzoom.com I get a lot of work done with them and it is easier than using an attorney and WAY cheaper.

    You can do wills, trademarks, pre-nups, copyright, etc....

    Fantastic company out of Cali.
    Thanks! I was feeling down in the dumps, about the cost of an attorney. I'll check this link out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by system admin
    oh.. its only 200 bucks for the premium package and it is just like using a REAL attorney.

    Bc
    Bro, you just saved me at least $1000! You are the man!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Papi93
    Has anyone requested that their future spouse sign a pre-nup? Or were you asked to sign one? What is the process of getting a pre-nup take? Thanks!

    No matter how common you are...DO IT!!!! Prenups protect you....and, your spouse.

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    my ex had a pre-nup
    i had to log everything
    we had my account , her account , and our account .
    had to keep sales slips for everything to show whos money bought what. so in the event of a divorce you could say i bought that with my money its mine.

    it takes the romance out of the marriage and makes it a business deal

    there even a section in there that said married for 0-1 year i get xxx amount 2-5years x amount which is negotiable
    due to cost of living etc...

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    There is no reason that you should not get one in this day and age, Actually, my feelings are that if you don't, you are a fool. Don't think for one second that s h i t can't turn bad, it does all the time. The prenup will state what each of you is entitled to so there isn't a big, expensive divorce proceeding. You might want to use a lawyer, the online forms can be usefull but you have to know what you are doing and what the options are/can be.

    Good luck

    Oh, remember that in the end it's just stuff, let her have it all, xcept the house, your car, business, boat, gym membership and your cash.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DevilsDeity
    my ex had a pre-nup
    i had to log everything
    we had my account , her account , and our account .
    had to keep sales slips for everything to show whos money bought what. so in the event of a divorce you could say i bought that with my money its mine.

    it takes the romance out of the marriage and makes it a business deal

    there even a section in there that said married for 0-1 year i get xxx amount 2-5years x amount which is negotiable
    due to cost of living etc...
    Do you receive any money from her?

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    Couples realize that should their marriage end, the outcome should be theirs to decide, not the courts'. And if you have children and are thinking of getting married, a prenuptial agreement is an important way to protect the ones who depend on you.
    From legalzoom

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    Quote Originally Posted by booz
    dont you trust her then???

    there is no trust when there is divorce dude. protect yourself at all costs! cause there is no love either when things are over. lawyers do the talking and so will her friends that will try and convince her to take u to the cleaners.

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    good to hear you will wait a little no reason to rush, this is what im worried about my girl is kinda hintting at marrige, and if i bring up the word pre-nup she would freak

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    Quote Originally Posted by steve0
    good to hear you will wait a little no reason to rush, this is what im worried about my girl is kinda hintting at marrige, and if i bring up the word pre-nup she would freak
    I was considering getting married once before. When I mentioned pre-nup, she freaked as well. I told her we couldn't get married then. She backed down. After over 9 years together, we didn't get married and I ended up meeting my new girlfriend.

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    dang after 9 years !!! i dont think i would ask my girl to sign a pre-nup if she put up with me for 9 years..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Papi93
    Do you receive any money from her?
    i declined the money i was suppose to receive ,
    1. i did not marry her for the money (she was worth about 22mil)
    2. i wanted away and ties cut as soon as possible .

    3. i feel better about myself for not taking the money cause like i said when i married her it was not about the money

    feel free to kick me now

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    Quote Originally Posted by DevilsDeity
    i declined the money i was suppose to receive ,
    1. i did not marry her for the money (she was worth about 22mil)
    2. i wanted away and ties cut as soon as possible .

    3. i feel better about myself for not taking the money cause like i said when i married her it was not about the money

    feel free to kick me now
    You did what I would have done.

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