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I lost my mom and dad permanately on Christmas day..........I have only the family I've created........

I'm a little ****ed up right now but Happy ****ing New YEAR!......

? ok ?

They didn't die but I found out they were doing something I would have never agreed with........I basically dropped everything and told them they were out of my life permanately..........

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They didn't die but I found out they were doing something I would have never agreed with........I basically dropped everything and told them they were out of my life permanately..........

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Were they smoking crack ?

I'm curious too.

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They didn't die but I found out they were doing something I would have never agreed with........I basically dropped everything and told them they were out of my life permanately..........

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THey didnt run over that Deer did they ? :?:

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if you discard family members that easily maby they are better of without you.

i am curious to,to what happend

Swingers?

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if you discard family members that easily maby they are better of without you.

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That sounds true.

I hope you don't regret what you did...

They've been doing heroin for the past year.....I found supplies and confronted them. I just can't belive they scooped to that level. There not even going through hard times.

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They've been doing heroin for the past year.....I found supplies and confronted them. I just can't belive they scooped to that level. There not even going through hard times.

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sorry to hear, how old are they?

Maybe you should be trying to help them realize that they need help. Notice I didnt say trying to get them help. I know this because I dealt with a loved one who was addicted and until they were actually ready to be helped, there was no stopping them. As their son you should be trying to help them, not writing them off..

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sorry to hear, how old are they?

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There in there early mid 40's........I think it's mainly my dad because he hangs out with a couple guys I know that like to party with that crap.
My mom well actually my step mom was a bit wild back in the day so I know she played with it.

I don't think there deep into it, thats why I told them they shouldn't mess with that crap anymore. But they still didn't admit anything to me, they kind of just stared off.....

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Maybe you should be trying to help them realize that they need help. Notice I didnt say trying to get them help. I know this because I dealt with a loved one who was addicted and until they were actually ready to be helped, there was no stopping them. As their son you should be trying to help them, not writing them off..

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I told them when they were ready to stop and talk to call me but I told them never to talk to me until then.

thats must be realy hard i coudnt amagine my parents doing that.best of luck with you and i hope your parents get help

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They've been doing heroin for the past year.....I found supplies and confronted them. I just can't belive they scooped to that level. There not even going through hard times.

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sorry to hear :( but dont abandon them. Be sure to be around if they need you.