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01-02-2006, 05:07 PM #1
bad spot with my grilfriend
i hate to air out my dirty laundry here, but i am feeling very down. today my girlfriend went into my email,and saw that i was talking dirty to a girl i hooked up with years ago. iknow it doesn't make sense and i am not sure how it even started,but all it was,was just talk, i never hooked up with her, i never did anything with her. now she is so upset, she came over and cleared all of her things out of my house. i feel SO bad, i never wanted to lose her, we were going to get engaged sometime this year, and now i lost it all.a bad judgement. i never felt so horrible in my life and don't know what to do. i really love her more than life, and now it feels if i lost it all. i don't know what to do, i feel twisted like a pretzel
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01-02-2006, 05:15 PM #2
DO NOT JUMP OFF A BRDGE like Stayingstack was gonna do the other day. Just talk to her is the best advice I can give u
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01-02-2006, 05:16 PM #3Anabolic Member
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I don't know what to say, homie. These days you have to watch out with everything, even internet flirting.
Hopefully, you will be able to talk some sense into your lady (after she has calmed down), and let her know that it was stupid of you. However, remind her that it was just talk. Let her know that it will not happen again, and that she is your priority.
Hit me with a pm, if you want to shoot the sh*t. I'm heading to the gym now, so I'll catch you later.
Feel better, bruthuh.Last edited by Keyser Sozey; 01-02-2006 at 05:18 PM.
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01-02-2006, 05:16 PM #4Originally Posted by Nismo
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01-02-2006, 05:17 PM #5Originally Posted by Keyser Sozey
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01-02-2006, 05:18 PM #6
She's just pissed right now....let her cool down she'll be willing to talk. But then you have to do the talking and be honest with her and explain to her it was wrong what you did but you swear on the life of someone important to you that you never did anything with anyone at any point in their relationship. Go over the top and do something good for her. Get her something nice suprise her with something really nice she loves. You'll win her back, i've done this with all the girls I got caught cheating on and it worked everytime.
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01-02-2006, 05:20 PM #7AR-Elite Hall of Famer
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it is normal for us to screw up, youre a guy...couldve been a lot worse. dont sweat it, dont beat yourself up. give her some time and space and she may realize the same thing. maybe when she air'in out her laundry she'll realize hers could stank worse...like mbaraso or something. lol, hang in there
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01-02-2006, 05:23 PM #8Originally Posted by 956Vette
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01-02-2006, 05:26 PM #9Originally Posted by USfighterFC
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01-02-2006, 05:28 PM #10Banned
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Hey doc, sorry to hear about that. Let it all cool down and then she will probably want to talk.
In the meantime, prescribe yourself something
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01-02-2006, 05:29 PM #11Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
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01-02-2006, 05:34 PM #12Originally Posted by Nismo
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01-02-2006, 05:36 PM #13
Sorry to hear that doc and wish you the best of luck and hopefully everything will work out.
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01-02-2006, 05:37 PM #14
she feel betrayed
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01-02-2006, 05:37 PM #15Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
Give it time bro, she can't stay mad like that. You guys got history so it';s not like she will walk away. I know you didn't cheat but you have to prove that to her. Wait for it to cool down and go out for a night on the town or something. I remember in a fvck up with my g/f at the time I messed up terribly and I suprised her with a dinner at a very nice restaraunt, then for a helicopter site seeing tour around Manhattan. It took coaxing for her to go but I showed up at her door in my Sundays best (no not naked) and kept the whole night a huge suprise....she was pissed but I think the fact she saw me try so hard showed to her that I was honest with her and HONESTY IS THE FOUNDATION OF ANY RELATIONSHIP. That caused things to get a lot better and even after it was all over I still had to keep it going.........come to think of it i wish i never wasted my money on such a stupid bitchLast edited by USfighterFC; 01-02-2006 at 05:41 PM.
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01-02-2006, 05:39 PM #16
u think it's innocent but turn the tables hun.. how would u feel
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01-02-2006, 05:39 PM #17Originally Posted by USfighterFC
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01-02-2006, 05:41 PM #18Originally Posted by USfighterFC
I'm playing the devils advocate.. sorry guys
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01-02-2006, 05:41 PM #19Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 05:42 PM #20Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
how exactly flirty were these emails?
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01-02-2006, 05:42 PM #21Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
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01-02-2006, 05:43 PM #22Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 05:44 PM #23Originally Posted by Hackamaniac
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01-02-2006, 05:47 PM #24Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
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01-02-2006, 05:49 PM #25Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 05:50 PM #26Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
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01-02-2006, 05:56 PM #27
she emailed me once and i emailed back, she said something dirty, and i reponded with something worse, it lasted a few emails, and then i just stoped, i would never meet up with her or anything and this girl lives nowhere close to where i do and is married, it was just a perverted, email, i am not sure how or why i even emailed her back and kept talking smack,
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01-02-2006, 06:26 PM #28Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
give your girl friend a few days to cool off.. maybe just a day.. if she likes flowers send them.. ( i dont.. but most women do)
Take her somewhere nice..
Explain yourself.. ask what you have to do to make amends.. don't just say your sorry exp**** why you r.. sorry means nothing unless you really understand u have made a mistake and really want to fix it.
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01-02-2006, 06:34 PM #29~ Vet~ I like Thai Girls
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Bro listen to Mizfit she is right, (and cute ) give your GF a few days to cool off. Women just dont understand the animal side of men. There are very few guys IMO that wouldnt have played like you did if it was just email shit. If she wont talk to you, write her a letter (not an email) and tell her how you feel. I know you are hurting, believe me I have been there a few times myself. If it does end, you will get over it, just try and be cool. Good luck bro.
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01-02-2006, 06:44 PM #30Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 06:47 PM #31Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
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01-02-2006, 06:52 PM #32Originally Posted by timvds
that is totally turning it around
so that means.. it's ok to do something wrong as long as you significant other doesn't know
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01-02-2006, 07:25 PM #33Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 07:48 PM #34Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 07:49 PM #35
i hate to vent all my bad here, but ifeel so crappy, it feels better to put it in print
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01-02-2006, 07:50 PM #36Originally Posted by Doc.Sust
If she throws it all away over a stupid email then it wasnt meant to be. However I highly doubt she will.
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01-02-2006, 07:55 PM #37Originally Posted by timvds
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01-02-2006, 07:58 PM #38Originally Posted by timvds
It's not harmless, someone was hurt.. his gf..
every couple has their limits..
Personally when im dating someone i dont mind pictures of women, or even if i see him looking at another women, but if i saw a dirty txt msg or a letter, an email or something like that.. my trust would be broken.... i'm not the jeolous type.. but beleive in honesty..
He was hiding this from is current gf.. he knew it was wrong.. not only was he exchaning dirty correspondance with another woman.. but it was someone he was already intimate with in the past...
You have no idea what kind of betrayal this is in some peoples eyes
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01-02-2006, 08:03 PM #39Originally Posted by Mizfit
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01-02-2006, 08:04 PM #40~ Vet~ I like Thai Girls
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Bro. you should get her to read this thread. That will show her how you feel.
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