Thread: talk about bad luck
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01-25-2006, 10:59 AM #1
talk about bad luck
long story short, my friend gets thrown out of his appt. by his fiance, 3rd time in 2 years it happens, he calls me and asks if he can stay at my house since i have alot of extra room, i say sure, for wks the guy is in the dumps, keeps saying how bad his life is blah blah blah, well i told him, it could only get better , boy i was wrong, this wknd he went to visit his sister , she is 31yo, good job,2 kids great life, never drank or did drugs, a real straight shooter. the idea for this trip as to help cheer him up. she ends up dying literaly in his hands of a brain anneurysm(A.V.M.) it is the most horrible situation, , it is unbelievable, i am really scared this guy is going to go off the deep end, he has been known to get really bad when depressed.(drinking, drugs, acting like a lunatic) what the hell do you do for someone like this?
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01-25-2006, 11:49 AM #2AR-Elite Hall of Famer
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unbelievable. Best wishes, cant offer any advice on this one...Where is he now?
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01-25-2006, 12:17 PM #3
im speechless man really i am first the fiance then his sister thats really to much to hadle, does he have any other family ???
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01-25-2006, 01:06 PM #4Originally Posted by 956Vette
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01-25-2006, 01:43 PM #5
You need to get him to talk to someone. Take him to see a therapist or if he is religious to talk to a priest.
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01-25-2006, 02:45 PM #6
Shit man you made me cry..I wont lie. Thats horrible luck. Just keep checking up with him and ask him if he wants to talk about it. Also..a therapist like Carlos said. Wow..that is really terrible. I hope the best for him..
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01-25-2006, 03:44 PM #7
i will suggest a therapist, you are both right he needs to talk this out, i don't want to see him go on a drinking/drug binge or do anything dumb. it is a sad sad day, tommorow is the wake MBarasso(an old moderator here on the board) and myself are going to be there for him, hopefully he will listen to reasonand talk to someone , he is a bit stuborn.
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01-26-2006, 01:58 AM #8Anabolic Member
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Take him to church bro. Let him go in and talk to the big man. Things happen for a reason, and they couldn't have happened any other way. He's destined to have these two events, and to just go on and find new strengths.
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01-26-2006, 03:23 PM #9Originally Posted by SnaX
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01-26-2006, 03:31 PM #10
Damn!
The Big Man is always there but He's mysterious. I'm in the DC area and it seems that the family and unemployed dad may be close (Delaware). Let me know if I can help with some employment. I have a couple of connections in the construction trades.
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01-26-2006, 06:07 PM #11Originally Posted by Grappler13
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01-27-2006, 09:19 AM #12
My lord...he will truly need you and his family/friends to be there for him...just let him know you care and are there for him...this is a very tough situation.
My Mom died on Thanksgiving Day and as i type this my Dad is in ICU due to a swollen pancreas and some gallbladder issues...not there as i live out of state but i am gonna have to make another flight possibly. Been a shit time for my family so i feel his pain.
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01-27-2006, 09:37 AM #13
only suggestions i can make is that you need to be as strong as possible cause it seems he looks to you for strength, and no matter how hard it is for you not to break down and show how hurt you are also, i think if your strong it will be a huge help to him. secondly if he starts to go on those binges you have to step in and give him alternatives to this destructive behavior. that is just my opinion and i am no ways an expert in this type of situation. STAY STRONG BRO you have all our support
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01-27-2006, 06:50 PM #14Anabolic Member
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I'm sorry to hear this, Doc. The part about the little boy asking where his mama was tore me in half.
Your a great guy, and I am sure you will do whatever humanly possible to help your friend.
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01-27-2006, 08:45 PM #15Originally Posted by WEBBNB
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01-27-2006, 08:46 PM #16Originally Posted by Keyser Sozey
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01-28-2006, 12:32 AM #17Associate Member
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I truly feel for you, your friend, and his family. The best advice I can give is to be available to him and try your best to keep him involved with his family. As bad as he hurts they will need support too and maybe move through this easier together. May prayers go to all.
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01-28-2006, 12:40 AM #18Associate Member
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wow thats rough man. he and his family will be in my prayers for sure
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01-28-2006, 02:11 AM #19
(keeps telling the 3 yo that his mom is with jesus and the angels and the kid responds"ok as long as she comes back tomorow she has to clean my clothes")
that got me all sad...
i feel bad for the guy....
life sometimes isnt really fair is it??
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01-28-2006, 02:16 AM #20
doc.sust all you can do is really be there for him...
and stay strong for him..
i think he looks to you for help, and at a time like this will be the best time to keep look out for him..
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