Originally Posted by Schwarz
I feel I need to chime in here as this is probably my number 1 topic to rant about.
I second Tren Bull's comments above. In my experience women fall into 2 categories. First, the ones that are implicitly out for themselves. These are the gold diggers, whores etc that TTU touched on. Secondly, you have the "mature" woman that TTU touched on who is independent, strong, earns her own money etc. The problem with this type of woman is twofold:
1. While she may not be trying to hurt you on purpose she will because these type of women are driven by emotion. In persuit of these emotions she will end up hurting you but will feel justified because "that's how she was feeling". For example, girl goes out with guy. Guy thinks relationship is going really well but woman is not sure. She decides that it would be easier to let the relationship run for a while partly because she doesn't want to blow him off and partly because she recons there's nothing better at the moment so she wants to see if they can make this work.
So some time goes by (maybe 6 months) and the man has taken her out 8,10, 15 times and always been a gentleman and paid for everything and then she decides to call it off either because a guy she actually fancies has come along or she's just got bored and finally admits she actually doesn't fancy the guy (even though she knew this from the start).
He's obviously hurt and feels cheated but she justifies it by saying s**t like "it's just how I feel" or "I thought I could learn to love you".....come on!!!! So in the end these women are just as self absorbed and selfish as the gold digger and the whore.
2. The other problem with women like this is that they don't appreciate the nice guy. "Mature" women like one one described above typically look for the high flying man, good looking and socially successful man. So many women nowadays crave this materialism. His car, house, money, social status etc. What annoys me the most is when men then turn around and say we want a woman who can cook, clean and rear children we get called "sexist"......
I'm not going to generalise and I am sure there are a handful of women out there who are genuinely nice and considerate but I just feel great pity at the female race and the direction they have taken. Here are some of my observations:
1. Women in the workplace - Don't get me wrong this is great and it's great women work and earn money. What gets me is when you get these hardened executive women who get to there mid 30's and decide it's time to have a baby (not because they want but because they feel they need to have one).
So they drop a kid literally into the arms of the nanny and then go back to work leaving the kid to be raised by the nanny. I'm not saying that the dad can't raise the kid but you can look at any study done and you'll see that the bond between the child and mother is the most important and influences the childs upbringing and future life. These women care only about their precious careers...what about the welfare of the child that you brought into the world!!!
2. Women in the social setting - This really, really disgusts me! You go out any Friday or Saturday night and all you get is hundreads of drunk women dressed like slappers, falling over each other, fighting and sleeping with the first man that comes along. I don't want to go out with a nun but I like a woman to act like a lady and this is very hard to find in today's "ladette" culture. I agree this is what men have done and are doing (and I don't condone that either) and women use this as a justification which I find laughable. So if men started to inject 3000mg of liquified Dbol straight into their livers you'd do the same would you????
3. Women in the relationship setting - I think I've covered most of this above but let me just say that the sound bites women spurt out (ie "he's got to have a good personality", "he's got to make me laugh", "he's got to be a good listener" etc) are all crap. It all comes down to looks, money, assets and social status. I don't know if it's a confidence thing ie having a good looking man with plenty of money and a nice car by their side gives them some sort of ego/confidence boost but this is definetly the case for most women.
Sorry to go on but you've touched on my all time fav subject.
S
PS Let me just say that I love women and being in love with a woman. I hope Comando Barbi is right and she is one of the few women who genuinley does care about their partners but I'm afraid from my observations these types of women are nearly extinct.