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    I need your help with first date advice...

    What up? I met this girl at my work...and tonight we are going to hang out, but I don't know what to do. I'm thinking just take her to dinner and then mabey walk on the beach. Thinkin Sushi...yum.
    Any advice, I just don't want to make it a big deal, just mellow.



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    I cannot wait to hear pboy's response to this....but...

    What you said sounds mellow enough...a walk on the beach is ALWAYS a good idea.
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    So are you saying you'd

    dig that? What would you like to do? That would help me asking a woman's advice.


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    Re: I need your help with first date advice...

    Originally posted by Iwan2bsolid2
    Thinkin Sushi

    Why don't you ask me out dogg... I F'N love sushi!!!

    Seriously what you said sounds cool. First date should be about getting to know a little about each other, then you can both decide if it's something you would like to do again.

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    that sounds like fun. just don't laugh at her if she can't use chopsticks!

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    Originally posted by dane26
    just don't laugh at her if she can't use chopsticks!
    Alright...the Danester...making the petemiester laugh out loud!! Laugh-o-rama.

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    Talking Thanks homie's..I go with that then

    yeah partyboy's gonna be like take her to a titty bar or a swinger party, and slip some K or G into her drink when she's not looking..and that's when the date begin's - hahaha.




    <gotta love your response's bro.


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    Originally posted by Pete235


    Alright...the Danester...making the petemiester laugh out loud!! Laugh-o-rama.

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    OMG...now it's like I have two wives!!

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    be careful taking shots little girl. don't make the big dogs bite...... anyway, i was hoping that partboy would post on this soon. i can't even begin to imagine what he would say. i'll bet he has soft side that we don't know about.

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    Question hey your making a mockary out of my post?

    I'll eat you with some farva beans and a tall glass of chianti. J/k- I'm just in a silly mood..hehe. I'm a dork. Lata..



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    Here you go SOLID...a mini anabolic smiley mad libs for you...

    First comes


    Then comes marriage



    Then comes SOLID with a

    What happens here, stays here

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    No woman can resist a bucket of chicken and a Steven Seagal movie.

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    LOL! @ PRIMO

    that one had me laughin for ever, niceone Primo.....I gotta save that somehow..

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    Originally posted by primodonna
    Here you go SOLID...a mini anabolic smiley mad libs for you...

    First comes


    Then comes marriage



    Then comes SOLID with a


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    solid, that sounds like a plan

    hell i'm go out w/ you.i just won't put out,haha.i'm not showing my cards so you guys can rip me up!clubs sluts get the partyboy treatment, but good girls get the respectable treatment.good for you solid.hope you have a great night.

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    Solid,

    Dinner and a walk on the beach sounds perfect- except working the " Hey wanna walk down the beach?" into the conversation might be a bit tough.

    Plus the walk on the beach is a recipe for sexual tension. You'll be walking along and wondering if you should put your arm around her or not- or kiss her or not- or grab a boob or not- etc... And she'll be wondering why isn't he putting his arm around me? or leaning over to kiss? or grabbing my boob? etc....
    Meantime the conversation will have totally dried up...

    I'd say go with the the dinner and drinks after routine. the drinks always loosen up that first date.

    And do NOT attempt to go for action. No kiss, no groping. Resist the temptation and it will pay off on the next date.


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    'dat's my 2 cents worth bro...

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    Hey, I found the partyboynyc smiley! Check it out

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    hmmm

    unless she's a prostitute.if so, TIME IS $$$ MY BROTHER!!WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?!! ok now is that the answer you all expected from me?

    j/k bro.be yourself.

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    woo hoo

    how phat is that?good looking out EXCESS!!!

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    Dinner and a walk along the becah sound great. I'm sure the weather in So. Cali is good this time of year. Or after dinner a movie, either at a theater or your place if she is comfortable about going to your place. Whatever you do be yourself.

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    Nahh, don't be yourself. I usually find a fake Spanish accent gets women really hot. Be sure to unbutton your shirt and wear your gold chains. Ahhh geez, no wonder I'm single!

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    yeah on second thought....

    go as Solid's representative.no one will like you for you.you need the facade.hahaha

    ok, i'm done ripping you.for real though be good

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    Have a great date bro, just don't break out laughing during the date if you think of some of this advice!

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    If you can see yourself really liking this girl take it slow respect is the key word here

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    Go for a meal a few beers will relax you both and just be yourself.If you like her give her a lot of eye contact be attentive and assertive.Women pick up on those things.If you do like her talk to and as you do just gentley touch her arm or her shoulder so she knows yoo are interested.Just don,t overdo it otherwise she may just think your a letch!!And as Pureanger said respect her and don,t dwell on past r,ships

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    Originally posted by EXCESS
    Be sure to unbutton your shirt and wear your gold chains. Ahhh geez, no wonder I'm single!
    Excess...if you look anything like your avatar, you don't have to un-button that shirt for us to see those gold chains Why does Hannibal even allow you to wear that stuff when you're on special ops??

    Yeah I know what you're gonna say..."Quit the jibba jabb foo!!"

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    now that the date is over, tell us how it went. EVERYthing!

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    Pete,
    "thats right foo!!"

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    I remember my first date with my wife 16 years ago. I picked her up on the motorcycle and cruised to a secluded beach north of Myrtle. We ended up sitting in somebody's swing who we thought werre sleeping and would not mind....WRONG! What a great date.

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    Talking your gonna be dissapointed

    the girl I was supposed to go on a date with was going to go to Arizona this weekend to check out the Universtiy...well she ended up leaving last night so she called me to postpone . Damn I was really looking forward to Sushi ...haha.

    then I gotta a phone call from another girl, so I took advantage of that, we went to rent Exorcist, but they didn't have it so we got the Wishmaster(her choice)....word of advice, don't ever ren't that fucking movie.

    So guys I appreciatte your help but it's gonna have to be put off till next week...so I'll let you know how it goes.


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    Ok well when girl number one comes back here's what I would do:

    Walks on the beach are nice....they really are - but they have become cliche. I mean how much thought does it take to come up with that one? I am not ragging on you - just telling ya what she will think. She'll be bored with that idea before you hit sand.

    As for sushi - Pete I will take you out - Sushi is my FAVORITE!!!!! But I don't know if she's down with that - if she is it's PERFECT! It's light so you wont be uncomfortable all night, she doesnt have to worry bout looking like a pig (lets face it - thats one of women's top concerns on a date - they never wanna look like a pig, thats why they order small salads then hit KFC for a bucket on their way home after they leave ya) Also - she will know you're spending atleast an ok amount of money - I mean Sushi is no Extra value meal. So if she's cool with it - then you're set.

    As for a replacement for the beach - well the beach and movies are FAR too unoriginal - I would do something off the wall. Hard to say though cause I dont know her and I dont know where you are. But think of something different bro.

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    Originally posted by Mike

    As for sushi - Pete I will take you out - Sushi is my FAVORITE!!!!!
    Don't even THINK for one minute, I'm not gonna hold you to that!!! Remember...I know exactly where you live

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    HAHAHA!..F@$cking MIKE...

    (lets face it - thats one of women's top concerns on a date - they never wanna look like a pig, thats why they order small salads then hit KFC for a bucket on their way home after they leave ya)

    shit's hilarious/\!


    Dude I thought you were gonna tell me something to replace the beach idea...Ok I know this she doesn't really like the beach, I mean she say's she never goes, she goes to Lake Havasue alot, so she likes the Lake...but shit I'm not gonna take her there so, you gotta conquer up somethin in that intelegent brain of yours- and help me out.



    THanks Dude

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    Whatd I tell ya bout the beach bro?

    She likes the lake?

    Hmmm.....well you didnt tellme wher you live yet - you're not in SD are ya?

    (Pete - you know if you're ever in my neck of the woods I'll take you to one of the best sushi places around - we got great sushi round here - though I'd imagine - where you are you don't have the slightest bit of a problem with that either)

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    I live in Huntington Beach, Ca.

    you got some advice for me?

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    I know that a lot of women used to order "salads" for dinner because they don't want to appear greedy. Well don't be shocked if she orders a lot. Things have changed. I have no prob with eating and eating good on a date. We women work out, we're confident, and we love to grub.

    I agree with the guys about the sushi. Make sure that she likes it before you take her there. If she has never had it I'd try something else.

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    hey fit girl the way you put that "we love to grub just turned me on" you wanna...

    roll? I'll ditch the other chick and we'll both go get our grub on...

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    Originally posted by fitgirl943
    I know that a lot of women used to order "salads" for dinner because they don't want to appear greedy. Well don't be shocked if she orders a lot. Things have changed. I have no prob with eating and eating good on a date. We women work out, we're confident, and we love to grub.

    I agree with the guys about the sushi. Make sure that she likes it before you take her there. If she has never had it I'd try something else.

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    if you guys are paying, can i tag along? i'll stay out of sight, i promise, just throw me some food

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    Wink Sure Dane it's cool wit me, fit girl?



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    No way Dane's getting all the free food. I'm in and that's a ll there is to it...hehe Anyway, which university in AZ is she looking at going to?

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