F**ked up X-Mas

I’ll post this thread here so I can get it off my chest. I have been dating my girl for almost 4 years now. She was born here in US but her parents are originally from Mexico.
I have posted a tread here few months ago saying that I’ll be going to Mexico. We have been planning a trip to go to Mexico for Dec 28th which is this Saturday for 1 week long. I was going along w/ her family to meet here grandparents uncles, cousins etc…
The last month was shaky for us. Fights here and there. I’m a person that doesn’t give up on things even when it comes towards my relationship. I always want to work at it and make it better especially if you are dating somebody you love deeply.
I spend X-Mas w/ my family. I did go by her house Wed night to eat w/ her family. Everything was fine until I said I was going home. I spend there 4 hours that day. That’s when she says we have to talk. She tells me how we are not getting along how she thinks it’s a bad idea to for me to go to Mexico w/ them. I’m thinking to myself if I don’t go w/ them then it is over between us. But wait she tells me that next. She says “I think we shouldn’t be together”. That I need to be by myself and she wants to go out w/ her friends and have fun.
I tried to reason w/ her before and that didn’t help a bit she told me to leave.
So the pussy that I’m I drop few tears, got my shit together and left her house. I came home and cancelled my ticket. Next day she shows up at my house saying how I don’t care about here because I left her house. Then she pulls my Mom into it calling her over and telling her how much she cares about me and how much she wants to be w/ me. Like a fucking soap-opera. Well my mom screwed her over by saying “well maybe you guys shouldn’t be together”. I couldn’t say anything after that. I was shocked that my mom has said that since she liked her. My girl starts crying even more and she leaves my house without me stopping her.
The thing that pisses me off is.
1. I got dumped on X-mas after I gave her my gifts.
2. My trip to Mexico was cancelled because of her.(1 week long)
3. I lost money because of that.
4. She comes to my house, involves my mom, because she wants to get back together.

Some girls don’t know this when they get pissed off.
Everything you say has consequences following it.

We will see what happens when she comes back from Mexico. I do want her back but this is fucking bullshit. I got played like a bitch. I’m going to make this very difficult for her.
Girlfriends suck.

Bro that is fucked up. Personally I wouldn't be able to trust a chick that is so night and day like that.. Chicks sometimes don't realize that when they change their mind they can not just change it back automatically and everyone else will go along with it.

Dude... doesn't sound like the kinda girl you want to be dateing anyway...

hehehehe ...what are you trying to understand dude?
it's a woman.......enough said....hehehehehhee

Probably won't make you feel any better but I can't figure them out either :-)

I am single and meet a lot of nice girls but we just don't connect on things like finances, education, goals, careers objectives, you know all that stuff that you end up having to live with after you have sex.

I know one girl that has become one of my best friends that I get along with in every aspect but she lives with and is going to marry an idiot. Go figure.

Sounds pretty pre-meditated to me......but she'll be back just because she knows you well enough to do what she did...and most of all because.....SHE CAN!.....

Good Luck,

M!nn!eMe

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Originally posted by manijak
hehehehe ...what are you trying to understand dude?
it's a woman.......enough said....hehehehehhee

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Dido....I think it was MinnieMe who once said. "men are stupid, women are evil."
:rolleyes:

Sounds like a right slag.

Sorry for you, mate.

did you give her a bad christmas present...j/k let time pass and if it meant to be let it be, if not oh freakin well.

I could understand how you feel now. This is the right time to clear your emotions and hose them down the chimney.

Be a bit cynical. Not too much but cynical and realistic after so much you have gone through.

Women gets impatient when they face a problem of messy emotions.

Thanks to everybody for making me feel better.

We'll see what happens in the future.

keep us posted bro!

sounds young - at that age they still think that there are enough good men around that they can play stupid games - as they get older, they get smarter (and more desperate) - in their early 20s they are still being bitchy, stupid and shortsighted.

Its the life of Drama.. Welcome to the club !!!

musta been the xmas present. "porno dvd's and see-through underwear...should've saved all of that for her sis"

man, I wouldn't have cancelled that trip to mexico, I would have flown down just to pick me up some nice mex vet gear. oh well.