View Poll Results: HOW LONG BEFORE SEX?!?
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Under 1 Month
Between 2-3 Months
Between 3-6 Months
At Least 6 Months
Between 6 - 12 Months
One Full Year
Sex Only After Marriage
What Is Sex? I'm A Virgin!
Thread: Relationship Before Sex
03-09-2003, 11:16 PM #1
Relationship Before Sex
HOW LONG DO YOU WAIT TO HAVE SEX IN A RELATIONSHIP?!?
I was just curious, me and a couple friends were talking about this. Now assuming YOU WANT a relationship, and aren't going for a one night stand, then answer this to your best ability.
03-09-2003, 11:36 PM #2
where is the first week option... and im serious!
03-09-2003, 11:36 PM #3
Well i (before i got married) liked to get the sex outta the way at the very first opportunity because i wouldnt want to be in a relationship if the sex was bad, i mean being warm, funloving, outdoors type only goes so far but when ya get down to the nitty gritty they have to be good in bed...........HITMAN
03-10-2003, 02:21 AM #4
yeah! thats what its all about hitman. nothing is more dissapointing then to wait for a ritz and all you get is a plain ol' cracker. unsalted. soggy. stale.
03-10-2003, 02:36 AM #5
a 'sex poll' started by the guy titled,, my little pony princess????
ha ha ha ahaaa!! "Biochemically,, sex is no different than eating large quanities of chocolate!" (quote, al pachino, devils advocate)
03-10-2003, 12:10 PM #6
in all honesty if the girl is very hot i don't generally turn down sex regardless of how long i have known her. however i have been in 2 relationships the past 2 years where the girl wasn't 'comfortable' having sex for around 5 months. i respect girls decisions for the most part but a blowjob/handjob does get old if thats all you do for 5 months. if she knew that she would eventually have sex then why the fuck put it off for 5 months? now if she was a virgin that is a completely different cup of tea...
03-10-2003, 02:00 PM #7
me any my wife waited until we actually fell in love and became best friends.
that rarely happens but it was the best for us. i wasnt looking for another roll in the hay then and i lucked out and found the only woman in the universe for me.
there is nothing like being married or going out with the one for you.
work hard, be nic, BE HONEST and never cheat. the rest is small crap you can work out.
now with that said, if it is just a roll in the hay, have FUN and protect yourself. lots of stuff to catch these days, lots of deadly and annoying disease and you dont want anything perm hanging around your tool.
03-10-2003, 06:21 PM #8Originally posted by Decoder
where is the first week option... and im serious!
03-13-2003, 09:46 AM #9
try waiting 5 before having it with a girl you really want to sleep with...its torture, but builds discipline i suppose.
03-13-2003, 03:52 PM #10
This is up in the air. If i wanna build a relationship with a girl, I'll play it out. I don't mind waiting. But i really don't care, and it will be no strings.. then thats cool too.
03-13-2003, 11:33 PM #11
Under a month...somewhere between day 1 and day 3.
03-14-2003, 02:31 AM #12
I think that all men and women should atleast spend an hour or so together before sex so u can get a few "getting to know you" quetions out the way!! (stop laughing im serious)
03-14-2003, 09:49 AM #13
haha three date rule
03-14-2003, 11:23 AM #14
My fiancee and I waited almost a month I guess...
My ex-wiff we waited a week or so...
Before that I never wanted a real relationship, my relationships were base off of hours spent! If I met her at a club and we hit the car and went back that was a good relationship! Until I got married, I was a F'r and that's all I cared about.
03-15-2003, 02:06 PM #15
The longest I've ever had to wait was 3 months... I didn't really care because I don't care much for sex anyway. I love getting head from someone that knows how to work her mouth AND her hands. Great sex is good, but great head is priceless.
08-20-2003, 04:05 PM #16
I usually wait til after I get the bill from the restaruant we went to on the first date.
You dont buy a used car before you test drive it.
NO ONE wants to realize it but, if the sex is bad the relationship does not go so well if at all.
In fact, a lot of relationships stay together JUST because the sex is awesome. Had a few of those.
We couldnt stand each other but OMG the sex was worth the agony.
08-20-2003, 06:58 PM #17
Once upon a time I'd wait as long as half an hour, on occasion, even less than that . . .
Nowadays, I'd check 'em out pretty well beforehand. Not so much into the "wham bam thank you ma'am" anymore.
Can't say how long it takes, really . . . a while. 3 or 6 or 12 months, depends on how much info the other party volunteers . . .
08-21-2003, 01:46 AM #18
less than a month, definantly. you can tell the type who is slutty and does it all the time vs the type you just click with super good and then are all about the bonin...=)
-- clocky baby
p.s. i hate sluts...(guy sluts too)...=)
08-21-2003, 06:53 AM #19
There should be a Week option - seriously.
I've never had to wait longer than that. They always want me straight away, within a week. God knows why - I don't!!
08-21-2003, 11:48 AM #20
I am a firm beleaver on sex after marriage
I beleave it should be between 2 people who love each other from the begining to the end and has never been with anyone else but you
because sex should be for people who are in love and will be together for the rest of there lives not just one night stands because you can have those all your life but its just there for that one night and thats it no feeling or anything just my 0.02
Last edited by wrstlr69sdnl; 08-21-2003 at 11:50 AM.
08-21-2003, 08:12 PM #21
What is sex?
08-22-2003, 04:46 PM #22Originally Posted by solid-d
08-30-2003, 05:33 PM #23
Waiting for marriage. It's the catholic in me.
08-30-2003, 05:57 PM #24
not to sound like a puss or anything..but i look at it this way..if she gives it to you very early in the relationship then she probably gave it to everyone else that early..tap it and move on..if she makes you wait it amy be something to wait for...my second wife made me wait for quite some time...but hey ive never cheated on her because the sex is so good...wouldnt chance that for anything in the world...my first wife i cheated on her within a week of marraige
08-30-2003, 11:28 PM #25New Member
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heres the deal guys..........ive been with alot of woman. Ive got it within 15 minutes and its cool at first but then ask yourself do I want to be with this slut who doesnt even know me and shes fucking me. How many guys has she fucked this fast before? She's probally just a slut. My longest relationship was 3 1/2 yrs and i didnt get the goods until about 3 months. Bottom line.......the longer you wait the better it is and the stronger your relationship will be. When you tend to fuck right away thats all the relationship is based on. If you just want ass then cool, But if you wanna girl, get to know her as a person first. It will make your relationship a thousand times better.
A tip for pussy though....act like you dont even care about it or want it. Shell feel like your not attracted to her then test you by trying to get it and then she'll spread em like peanut butter in no time.
08-31-2003, 05:10 PM #26
Alright fellas its simple..................Would you buy A pair of shoes without trying them on 1st? .....................Exactly........
09-02-2003, 02:30 PM #27Originally Posted by bermich
Simply classic, bermich!!!!!
If I'm into a chick and she sleeps with me the very frist night, it's a turnoff. Now, if she wants me to eat her out, hell, thats a different story. Mans got to eat you know.....
09-03-2003, 05:24 PM #28
been as quick as 2 hours...to about two months with my ex who i was with for a long while. both were good, i like bjs better anyways though
09-03-2003, 06:23 PM #29
One week !! If she didn't give me none in one week I would dump her ass !!
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