My boss came up to me at my desk yesterday to give me some work to do when he was distracted by my arms. He looked at them and this is what he told me:
"Man, your arms are getting pretty big there...... You don't want to get any bigger because men don't like women with muscles. Are you trying to attract men or beat up the men you're dating? Men don't like women that are flabby - but they don't like women that have big muscles either. They like women just toned up.... I mean, you can do what you want...that's just my opinion........ "
WTF!? I said, "No, I won't be bigger than the men I date because I like big men....I'm not worried about that..... And don't worry, I won't look like a man..."
But, I had to say it all with a smile because he is my boss/ the CEO of the company!! But, I thought that was really rude of him to say......
For those of you who don't know me - I am 5'6 136 lbs. I am NOT a big girl...... I'm toned, but not NEARLY as big and muscular as he made it out to seem. I guess I am realizing that you can't please everyone..... it WAS a bit discouraging to hear that though.....