Joke Of The Day ( My Love Life!)
See, all you loyal K'Fit Joke readers wont be disapointed with this post...as it is funny. However it's not funny to me as it is my love life that is the joke :D Sadly i'm serious.
Ok, i'm up for some advice, etc etc any hints, words of wisdom, anything.
Ok, here is a brief background
-If i'm with a girl and it's just a "friends with benefits" situation, i'm perfectly fine. I can just have sex with the girl, hang out and not worry about anything. Infact my cuz and I accidently switched girls one night (long story) and we and the girls were kool with it after it was all sorted out. However, If i'm in a relationship with a girl, I get jealous, paranoid, and dumb! I sooo do not understand it!
Take for instance my last girlfriend. I got jealous 2 times and argued over NOTHING, complete bullshit!
Why is this all important to me?
Well had a few friends over this past Friday. I was on the couch with girl 1...well girl 2 looked like she was not having a good time. So i called her over to ask why she was not having a good time (at this point girl 1 walked outside to give us some space) well girl 2 flat out tells me she's not happy because i'm on the couch with the other chica and not her. She then tells me she's got a thing for me and has had a small crush on me for awhile.
So i'm no idiot, I've noticed this girl many times and she's beautiful, funny, socialble as all hell, flirty and intelligent. So i think to myself...we can fix this. I talk to my roomate, tell him the situation and he tells me to "handle" it...so ofcourse i'm going to dump girl 1 off on him (what a shame really pssft..she just wanted to fuck and he had no problems -taking one for the team-)
Anyway me and girl 2 go upstairs and just talk and shoot the preverbal shit until 5am. then we crash and go to sleep. No sex no odd things (which is fine) minus the debate about her ass...
Sunday we decide we want ot go out, so we head out around 4pm; Hit up the Movies (american wedding - BLAH BLAH BLAH) then hit the bar, have some cocktails, then decide we want to go swimming. About the time she walks out in her bikini it starts to rain...(NC Weather is funny as all hell) I completely forget about the hottub at my work..so she changes back and we just lounge around the house randomly making out, and watching Gone in 60 seconds on the DVD playa.
Well during the course of the afternoon we talk about what we are looking for. With my history of bad relatioships, i figure it's always best to be completly upfront. If you want just sex, say it, if you want more, then say that :) I find it works better that way.
So she asks me what I want (thinking it's going to be sex = which she would be fine with i "think") however i tell her i'm tired of just all the random sex, and would not mind being in a relationship. I think this takes her by suprise (possibly due to some information her friends had given her about me...what can i say, my past is my past) But she seems really happy that I said that, and said right after that she is ready for a relationship too. And we agree to take whatever happens very slowly.
Ok now the prolem
She was suppose to call me last night at 8ish. Well i get home from the gym and am all anticipating her call...NO CALL...not all night. So i called her 2 times. 1st time i didnt leave a message ( i know dumb) 2nd time i figured she got called into work, and left a message.
My problem is I always ALWAYS assume the worst. I was like she's not into me. She's prolly out at some bar drinking it up having a blast, just playing me...
Well i call her this morning, to see if she wants to go to lunch today (today is her birthday) Well she has to work and then she apologizes for like 10 minutes about not calling me last night. Her friends evidently planned this all night drinking party for her - which she got sick at lol-
my problem is 1 i sat around all worried about it, and thinking the worst. and 2 that i dont know why it would get to me either way? It shouldnt at all...I should NOT care one way or the other. She was dressed to kill, and out with a bunch of her guy/girlfriends. and so i shouldnt be all whatever the hell i am bout it. I should be like kool, glad you had a good time. (*which i did portray on the phone*) My problem is i know i didnt feel that way even though i acted like it.
So before we got off the phone she said she wanted to do something tomorrow or thursday. So i told her, I tried to call her once, and she was not there. So if she wanted to talk to me she had to call me back. She said "damn that's mean, but I understand it." and again apologized for not calling me last night. I told her it was ok, but it was a pet peeve of mine for people to say they are going to call, and then to not. she understood that evidently and said she'd call me later (whever that is lol)
Everything about this girl makes me think she digs me. She tells me how hot she thinks I am, how much fun she has when she's with me, and the above story. So it's obviously me...so what can i do to NOT Fuck this up???
ALL HELP WELCOME..- that means the ladies too-
I'm in need of help, cause i'm sitting here doing this :scratch:
I hope to see some replies...
Thanx all
K'Fit
glad i'm not the only one
Man i'm glad i'm not the only one.
Looks like Partyboy is having a similar problem in a thread up here at the top with this one.
This is driving me crazy.
I so wanna ask her if she's dating anyone else, and what her intentions are...do you think that's a good idea?
K'Fit