ok, heres the deal. Iv been seeing this girl for a couple months now. Shes everything id want in a significant other. Very pretty, smart, bubbly personality, just an all around good person. We're able to talk for hours at a time and not get bored with each other too. Iv really fallen hard for her and she knows it. Problem is 3 weeks before we met the guy she was seeing for 6 years broke off their engagemnt. It was a mutual thing but he was the one who said it first and she cant seem to get over it. She still has his ring and he keeps calling and or emailing her looking for it back. Iv told her to send it back to have some closer. And that way we can move forward with whatever we have going. But it seems shes hanging on and its really bothering me. We act like we are bf/gf but she keeps saying shes not ready for a commitment. Iv brought up maybe we should not see or speak to each other till she gets over him. But she says "no" thats not what she wants. She says she really likes me and doesnt want to loose me but inturn she says shes not ready to commit to a relationship right now. This has me sooooooo confused its all i can think about and i really dont know what to do? Should i tell her we need some time apart so she can figure out if she wants to be with me, or should i just ride it out and see what happens? What would u guys do if u were in my shoes? I appreciate any response! Thxs!!
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