Help with the V-Badge also known as the dreaded badge of blue balls

How do you get these virgins sexuall (besides the alcohol way). This girl is mad about me I think but we have been together for almost 4-months and Im tired of touching, teasing and making out. She is a beautifull girl and I like her alot but Im the first boyfriend she's had that posses a set of cahones. She says shes scared cause shes never done anything before. One of her friends got her a cosmo (wasn't my idead ;) ). thank god start filling her head with thoughts! Should I just tell her not to be scared or what?

Don't pressure her into it. For most girls the first few are "sacred".

BTW - how old is she ?? If you're 16 like your signature says, then she's probably the same age. Girls at that age can be scared to death about any type of sexual activity. You gotta ease them into it.

shes 17 and i have been easing I mostly blame it on the flaming giners of boyfriends shes had before. I am the first to actually wanting to please her she had a boyfriend for 9 months and he didnt do anything with her it was 4 months before he kissed her. Its just frustrating I want to make her feel so good she has just new i guess and new things are scary untill you try them.

You're a better man that me, 4 months of the dating game and she won't even let you poke her? I'd be GONE after 2 weeks. Then again you're only 16, so..... you got plenty of time. Ease into it.. hell give her head and i mean good fucking head like your life depended on it and ask for nothing in return, that should atleast warm her up or will she not even let you near her down there? This is all so foriegn to me... where i come from the girls got their shirts off before we leave the bar and they're finished in the car. Where you from? Utah? lol.

Only way to loosen them up is to give them an orgasm. If i were you I'd work on the dry humping first. Make sure you're wearig sweatpants or you can get injured. Just line up your jimmy with where her clit would be if she didn't have any clothes on and rub away. Also work the boobs.. a lot of girls are really sensitive there. If you can get her to blow her top without even taking her pants off, she's going to wonder what you can do once you do. If not, just go for it. She's not going to take her pants off herself. Suck on her nips some, then maybe even kiss down her stomache.. then try to undo her fly.

ps. if you don't know how to go down on her, get a book. seriously. It drastically improved my technique. Try lesbian sex secrets for men.

pps. my 40's faster than yours.

I guess you most really care about this girl, b-cuz i wouldnt be able to wait 4 months for some butt. But anyway when you guys are hooking up just discreetly pull your dick out of your pants and then kinda give her a little shove in the right direction, if she goes for it your golden.......

p.s. my 40 time is faster than yours too... :)

Sneak it in when shes not looking.....

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Sneak it in when shes not looking.....

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i'm w/ bdtr on this.you have to go down on her.you need to introduce her hand to you dick when you two are making out.just put her hand there.let her become acquainted w/ him first.work on the sex later.when she's ready it's gonna be all good.you'll be glad you waited because when she gets amped up for it you're gonna probably put a hurting on her

Tounge twister baby tounge twister! Dont pressure her, just give it some time.....Make out with her and do a little more each time....if you get to pushy she might bite your wiener off

Bro deffinately need to do the triple tingly into the cake! Make sure you bring a tent and some candles, oxygen, snorkle, fins probably not, and make her soaking f*KIng wet!
Also, I know you want to get your hammer working but remember if you care for this girl then you'll respect her wishes! Hell,if she's a virgin now a days that's pretty fucking cool and you may have to do some work.

Good luck bro, and don't make her do something she doesn't or we'll be reading about you in the paper!

SID

Bring her into your room and have a set of gynocological stirrups in your room. I did that to a girl as a joke... she ran.

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Bring her into your room and have a set of gynocological stirrups in your room. I did that to a girl a a joke... she ran.

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bdtr!
bro that's too fucking funny! :lol: your making working on a sunday night not half bad! :lol:

or bring over a giant F*KN dildo! with a 55 gal. drum of oil, and some surgical glove...don't forget the nasty ticklers that look like torcher tools or gardening equipment! Walking with a deliverance draw and tell her to "just drop them pants...now squeal! squel!"

SID

thanks a bunch can you even give them an orgasm with their pants still on cause it was soaking and she was moving around but I doubt she had one. I asked her if she wanted me to get a little closer down her pants and she said she was scared(as virgin as they come) but i had to have rubbed her for 15 minutes. (wrists bout gave out) Oh yah the maxim helps i dont need one of those books

but thanks for the help

I didn't want to have it come to this, but it seems as if you're shit out of luck in the getting ass department. So i'll let you in on a little secret....... take her out one night and get her shitfaced, then start putting the moves on her. After 10 or so drinks she's either gonna puke or jump on your cock :)

The thing is, you gotta be really careful with the clitoris because it's super sensitive.. too light and you might as well be licking/rubbing her forehead.. to hard it's like a shot in the nuts. A good idea would be to ask her what feels good. For my current GF she likes 2 wet fingers sliding all the way up and down her clit, at like a beat of 2 times a second, where i'm barely touching her..


Ask your girl what feels good. try something for a bit, ask her to rate it 1-10. then try something else, ie pressure, location, motion (circles vs. vertical vs. side to side vs palm over the area etc.) You can get a girl to cum with her pants on, just takes some luck. Give her a little time and i'm sure she'll come around.

let her tell you when she's ready.imagine being in her position.someone is pressuring you to stick something in you repeatedly for a long duration!!you'd be scared too!!my ex gf of 10 yrs was a virgin.the first time we had sex it wasn't exactly as pleasurable for her as it was for me, BUT i waited until she was ready and it made all the difference.she'll remember it forever so don't be the dick (no pun intended) that pressured her.be the guy who made the experience special.set it up right.take her out, have an enjoyable evening somewhere special, MAKE HER FEEL COMFORTABLE W/ YOU,and if/when it happens you'll be thought of in a better light than just "the first guy i had sex w/".there partyboy isn't always such a skank!! :D hahaha

wait, is this a new partyboy we're seeing ??? a sensitive / caring kind ??? or was that just the old one ? haha.....

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wait, is this a new partyboy we're seeing ??? a sensitive / caring kind ??? or was that just the old one ? haha.....

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Definatley! Partyboy I'm a little dissapointed, really!

Serious though, wine her and dine her! Old E and McD's! (just get the chicken salad of course).... get a nice room at the Motel De Seis, Travele Lodgee, get if with the porn in the room! don't be a dick, and make sure that you don't give her the clap! That would be a bad 1st dance!
Definately be gentle, because you could hurt her mentally and physically! Not on purpose but you could. Good Luck, and no french ticklers!

SID

i'm still fucking whores!i just don't like to see the future vaginas of america tormented b4 their time!if he scares her off about sex because of being overzealous i may never get the bang her later in life

if none of the above advice works, try my way its called a ruffy-cold'a (rohibinal) works everytime...



im only kidding dont ever drug a girl to get pleasure from her

you should go down town to eat the cat :D