girlfriend doesn't like sex
im 18 years old, my girlfriend is 19. we've been dating for nearly 8 months and having sex for 6. im not her first, nor is she mine. anyways, at first, the sex was very frequent and passionate. i would say like 3 or 4 times a week. gradually, it slowed down, as did she, i.e. just laying there and not wanting to try different positions. i asked her what the deal was and she said she felt like she just lost her drive for sex. i thought it would be a temporary thing, but it has continued since then, now it is about 1 time per week and i usually have to basically ask for it. i have always known that she hadn't been orgasming, though she does through clitoral stimulation, which i thought to be fairly normal for girls her age, but i at least thought it felt good for her, which she maintains it does. anyways, tonight, i asked her about it again, and she said that she just has no drive,and she really never has, and she hasn't ever seen the fascination with sex. and she says she just doesn't ever have any crave for it at all. she says that it is not me at all, and it is all her. she also says that it seems like just because she doesn't want it, it makes me want it more, which is most defintely true, but i dotn think taht 1 time or more a week with some actual movement from her is asking for much at all. she also said that it seems like every time we touch, i am always trying to get her into the sack by my movements and stuff, but again, begging for it once a week isn't much. anyways, its late and im not sure that i got everything out that i wanted to, but i think that pretty well explains the situation. also, its really not about me getting the pleasure, which i can easily do on my own, its completely the act that i want to happen, but i want it to be an enjoyable thing for both of us. i want to learn about sex with her, not just plug away at her until i come and she can go back to watching tv. does anyone have any ideas as to what, if anything i can do? i want to keep talking with her about it, but i dont want to continue to come off as a sex- hungry maniac. also, she is on the pill, which i have heard can reduce a womans drive.
p.s. no stupid comments like, "send her this way, ill satisfy her." i posted this on this board for the reason that you guys are the most mature out of all the boards and i think you guys might have some good suggestions. thanks in advance.
kenny