Thread: your biggest fears?
11-30-2003, 09:21 PM #1
your biggest fears?
i'm sure you guys aren't scaried of very much............but what's everyones biggest fears?........i know, as much as i say im fearless.......i have a decent amount.......mine are:
Failure or Not making an impact in life
Missing out on things
Being alone in the future
Any type of terminal illness
11-30-2003, 09:22 PM #2
i fear just fear itself
11-30-2003, 09:23 PM #3
Planes....i hate everythign about them.
11-30-2003, 09:24 PM #4
11-30-2003, 09:24 PM #5Senior Member
- Join Date
- Jul 2003
people that are going to hell
11-30-2003, 09:25 PM #6
11-30-2003, 09:41 PM #7
Heights even though its part of my job........Hitman
11-30-2003, 09:44 PM #8Originally Posted by Danielle
Just before I turned 30 I kind of freaked out because I partied so much and let the bar scene consume me. I seen everyone around me making achievements and I lost focus. Friends got married, careers, home owners, kids. So I stepped out of the bar scene and shunned off a lot of friends that I knew just werent any beneficial for me including the girls I was dating. I hermited for a few years to try and change things because I knew I had to. Now Im over 30 finishing up my degree finally and I just came back to a social life. Being over 30 I realized I have a fear of being alone. Getting older because I cant hang like I used to and the bar scene is a younger crowd now. Most women my age are gone, married, and taken or plane phyco's. Anyone under 30 looks at me like im old and I find dating more difficult. Probably because I care now..lol Before I didnt really care what happened I was having fun. Ironically it worked against me Im alone now. In all my years of partying I lost my focus and responsibility in college and career and hopefully I can make an impact in life like I was intended and change things.
My fear is I wont make it. At what? Anything, because nothing seems to be going my way and age and time shows no mercy.
Last edited by LuvMyRoids; 11-30-2003 at 09:46 PM.
11-30-2003, 09:49 PM #9
Over the years i have learned not to fear anything and can honestly say im not really affraid of anything. I would say my only fear would be becoming paralyzed in a drag racing accident or something of that nature i havent wrecked yet but watched many that have. Im sure once i have kids and a family i would fear many more things then that .
11-30-2003, 10:03 PM #10
my biggest fear would have to be....probly being alone...i hate not haveing someone around, and im going through that right now...life kinda sucks when you piss everyone off, and all of your bud's a pussy whipped...oh well...at least im growing!!!
11-30-2003, 10:16 PM #11
Heights is definitely one
speaking in front of large crowds
being in a situation like say an interview, and just freezing
when they ask you a simple little question and you don't quite
have the right wording.. It just makes you feel so stupid
(God how many F's I've taken in school just because of that)
11-30-2003, 10:22 PM #12
I fear love.
I fear the possibility of not being a great father
I fear the truth that I won’t be what I want to become….
11-30-2003, 10:36 PM #13
I'm afraid that i'll never want anything enough to work for it.
11-30-2003, 10:45 PM #14Originally Posted by DocHoliday
11-30-2003, 10:49 PM #15
Losing someone i love, i honestly have no fear of anything else including death.
12-01-2003, 12:25 AM #16
I fear not making an impact on the world, I can honestly say that I won't be happy if I don't feel like a changed the world for the better somehow? Strange hunh?
I'm afraid of being alone, not necessarily right now, but ending up alone. That scares the **** out of me.
I'm afraid of not Living. By this I mean, feeling like I've LIVED everyday, not just surviving until you die, which I see a lot of people doin.
12-01-2003, 12:30 AM #17
Being a failure in life
12-01-2003, 05:56 AM #18
i'm deathly afraid of std's and getting a girl pregnant, i can barely take care of myself at this point in my life
12-01-2003, 05:59 AM #19
12-01-2003, 06:17 AM #20Originally Posted by mass junkie
12-01-2003, 06:18 AM #21
Spiders....I hate the fraggin things.
12-01-2003, 07:18 AM #22
Some of my fears:
Fear of any afterlife(although I am athiest).
Fear of losing my memory.
Fear of a world take over by anyone.
Fear of hurting my parents and sister; the only people I have ever loved.
Fear of too much knoweldge(ignorance is bliss).
I'm sure I have more but that's all I can think of. Nice topic Danielle and LuvMyRoids that was a good story thanks for sharing.
12-01-2003, 07:54 AM #23
ONLY one fear.............having one of my children pass away while I'm alive.
12-01-2003, 07:58 AM #24Originally Posted by BigGreen
12-01-2003, 07:58 AM #25
I fear not being a good dad. Everything else is worthless if you are not a good parent.
12-01-2003, 08:14 AM #26Originally Posted by Juggernaut2148
Good call. I’m way too young, but one of my secret life goals is to be an amazing father. Should one of my children pass away while I live, I might be devastated.
That little green thing on my shoulders is my head darn it. Thank you very much.
12-01-2003, 09:16 AM #27Respected Member
- Join Date
- Apr 2002
- Miller's Crossing
12-01-2003, 09:19 AM #28Originally Posted by Pheedno
12-01-2003, 09:41 AM #29
Outliving my child (every parents fear...)
Becoming a homeless street bum
12-01-2003, 09:55 AM #30
I also fear turning out like my dad....Being a worthless bastard in life, who ditches his child and mother because he made no effort to control his drinking problem whatsoever...God, I hope I don't turn out like him.
12-01-2003, 10:50 AM #31Originally Posted by Red Ketchup
12-01-2003, 10:53 AM #32Originally Posted by Juggernaut2148
12-01-2003, 10:54 AM #33Anabolic Member
- Join Date
- Jan 2003
- under some plywood sheets
12-01-2003, 11:20 AM #34Originally Posted by Juggernaut2148
12-01-2003, 11:23 AM #35VET
Originally Posted by Danielle
- Join Date
- Sep 2001
oh, and quicksand.
12-01-2003, 12:37 PM #36Anabolic Member
- Join Date
- Jan 2002
- The land of stars
Losing a my mom and dad and sisters (family and friends)
Letting substances control my life
12-01-2003, 02:00 PM #37
... Lying on my death bed or being old and starting a sentence with " I wish I would've...."
... I also just as many others on here am afraid of not leaving a good impact on the world.
... And ever since an old friend killed himself when I was younger I'm afraid of loosing another friend that way.... so that's why I always do my best to be crazy and funny so no one else ever gets bored enough with life to do what he did.... and in the same respects I will NEVER blow off anyone or not listen to their problems.... R.I.P. ~P.S.~ 1994
12-02-2003, 11:07 PM #38
Im not really scared of dying, but I'm scared of dying under certain circumstances, I don't want to die before I have kids, for some reason, natural instinct I suppose, I feel like I have to keep me going by having a kid. I always felt like I would die violently, being shot, or stabbed, or maybe even a car accident, so if thats true I don't want to die with no one around me I care about, at the same time I wouldn't want anyone I care about around me if it meant they were in danger. I used to have dreams all the time where I wold be stabbed or shot, they haunted me for a long long time.
Thats like what scares me in that sense, on the other hand it's snakes and heights!
12-19-2003, 04:32 PM #39
being a failure, getting rejected, heights and speaking in front of large crowds.
12-19-2003, 04:40 PM #40
My biggest fear is failing at my goals
Users Browsing this Thread
There are currently 1 users browsing this thread. (0 members and 1 guests)