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    do women like us "big" or "ripped"

    look fellas.....we all know that everything in the world
    usually revolves around ladies....we buy bad ass cars = to get girls
    we dress good= to get girls
    we buy cool toys = to get girls
    etc...etc..
    but im wanting to know what you guys think girls want!!!
    Some girls ive talked to like the Calvin Klien model look...
    but others like the WWF huge "M" "F"ers....
    let me know your opinions.

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    Good topic.....

    Didn't you forget to include the Couch Potato fat Beer drinkin guy??



    My buddy at work and I were taklin bout this the other day.... years ago people used steroids just to get ****in huge.... nowadays a lot of people will just do a cycle of **** to cut up and looked rip without bein big.... because that seems like what the look is anymore...

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    oh yeah...my bad....
    the one that beats her too huh?
    they always get the girlz..

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    Most women I know love abs. Nothing against you big S.O.B.'s on here but 90% say big guys are scary looking.
    Remember us little guys look up to you we just get laid more. Joke

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    makes sense........
    but ****...we cant win for losing..
    we either get the girls from being ripped...or we get the respect(lol) from bein a monster...

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    Quote Originally Posted by mart651
    Most women I know love abs. Nothing against you big S.O.B.'s on here but 90% say big guys are scary looking.
    Remember us little guys look up to you we just get laid more. Joke
    That's more accurate than you think. Gotta walk the fine line. Big and ripped usually does the trick.

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    i have no idea...most of the women or I should say, girl here in az are a bunch of bitches..seriously, they look at your wallet...could care less about anything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by slamd097
    i have no idea...most of the women or I should say, girl here in az are a bunch of bitches..seriously, they look at your wallet...could care less about anything else.
    From a former Arizonian, you are absolutely correct. If you aren't packin, stay the **** out of Scottsdale. Me and my friends would play the reverse, "We're a bunch of thugs from South Phoenix" routine and go trash the houses of spoiled rich bitches in Paradise Valley. They ate it up. Nothing like spending the weekend in a 4 million dollar house, leaving it a dump, and coming back to do it again the next week, with more of her friends prancing around

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    wtf......thats not cool....
    but i wouldnt know...i havent talked to the first chic on here yet..
    i thought they were all hiding in the female forum.

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    I feel better about myself....when im bigger and stronger....which boosts my confidence.....rather than smaller and more cut up......I think that women pick up more on self confidence......it makes me more outgoing.....and plus busting out of a t-shirt doesnt hurt either

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    I have to agree whole-heartedly that Women are the reason I(we) get out of bed everyday. Desire for the fairer sex is as maddening as an itch you can't quite reach.

    As for ripped vs. big, It's been my experience that women generally prefer a guy with good definition.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mass junkie
    I feel better about myself....when im bigger and stronger....which boosts my confidence.....rather than smaller and more cut up......I think that women pick up more on self confidence......it makes me more outgoing.....and plus busting out of a t-shirt doesnt hurt either
    right on brotha, confidence will take you a looooong way. Most women also like a real man, not some timid, cowering pansy that listens to Kenny G and crys at movies...

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    Quote Originally Posted by mart651
    Most women I know love abs. Nothing against you big S.O.B.'s on here but 90% say big guys are scary looking.
    Remember us little guys look up to you we just get laid more. Joke
    oh yeah, if your a ugly bastard neither will help.
    sorry but keep working out and get big then at least you will have us little guys respect. I know it will not keep you warm at night but at least it's something.

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    ive been told that females like a guy that is kinda cocky.....i guess it gives them the feeling that they cant control the guy cause he can replace them.
    make sense?

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    I was just going to make a comment about confidence....


    I'm actually a pretty shy guy BUT girls that I end up meeting always tell me that they were intrigued by me b/c I have that COCKY and VERY CONFIDENT look... they say its the way I carry myself when I'm out...

    I think being tall just makes me look that way or something... haha

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    Quote Originally Posted by ripped4fsu
    right on brotha, confidence will take you a looooong way. Most women also like a real man, not some timid, cowering pansy that listens to Kenny G and crys at movies...
    That hurts. Some movies are sad.
    See all you women on here, I'm not afraid to show my fealings.
    Last edited by mart651; 12-03-2003 at 09:46 AM.

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    so how are we suppose to be conifident...
    be a prick...and tell girls they are a dime a dozen.......its almost like we cant win either way we go...

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    I'm a total asshole. It's been workin out fine. It sucks in a way, because I actually want to be nice. Maybe. Ok, maybe not, but being an asshole is really the ony way to go.

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    well...im gonna make a promise to myself to be a self rightous prick for now on....smash on the tiny fellas...and talk dirty game to all the ladies....
    and then at night ...ill ask god to forgive me for being a cocky jerk like the ones i used to hate when i was younger..
    who's in on it w/ me..? ??/// lol

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    I always pick up when I'm a prick. I was living with a chick last year and totally bailed on her without telling her. Went to a party that night and word was out on how much of an ass I was and I ended up picking up the hottest chick at the party (hot little 20 year old with pierced nips ).

    I've been told that I'm a whore tons of times by girls, then they get drunk and try to pick me up. Women are real strange...

    Anyway. My gf that I'm with now likes me better when I'm big and a big smooth then when I'm 30lbs lighter and super ripped. She also doesn't want me to shave my chest. Likes the big bear look I guess

    I've found that most girls get intimidated by a guy that's too ripped.

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    I'm not big nor good looking by any streach of the imagination however there are two things I have that work very well to my advantage; Confidence and the fact rejection doesn't phase me the slightest.......one of them is bound to cave.......eventually. hahahaha

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    Dangit, you were looking great in the contest pic. What % are you at right now at 220?

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    thats cool...........i guess im gonna run a test...
    see how many chics i get now and all...while im bulking......
    and then in 4mths.....when im leaning up..
    hell...i might even get a web page or something to keep track of it.....lol
    anyone know where i can get "jerk" lessons at.?

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    Jerk lessons? It's not hard. Just be inconsiderate, uninterested, and blatantly oblivious to the fact that she's a human being. I have perfected the art of seeing the hottest girl in the room, and then pretending she's translucent. When they wonder why in the hell you aren't lookng at them you've already got them. Continue the charade for as long as necessary. They'll come to you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dangit

    I've been told that I'm a whore tons of times by girls, then they get drunk and try to pick me up. Women are real strange...
    Isn't that funny how true that is.... I'm always told that I'm a playa but then they wanna go **** you on the first night with u... haha

    My take is on it b/c they must be curious why all these other girls are ****ing you so they wanna piece too...

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    great, would you look at this...geez women are evil. not a one has posted here and here we are trying how to figure out what they want!!!! and none of us can come up with an answer...

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    Quote Originally Posted by slamd097
    great, would you look at this...geez women are evil. not a one has posted here and here we are trying how to figure out what they want!!!! and none of us can come up with an answer...
    Probably because everyone is giving prick lessons and the women don't want to be practiced on.

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    ain't that the truth.

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    I know a female is viewing. come on we need your 2 cents

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    Most women I've talked to and am friends with prefer guys to be big and muscular compared to being ripped. Most or I should just say alot of women find men that are ripped unattractive. I'm talking riped with veins shooting out all over the place now.... most women I've talked to thinks that's gross.

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    ite...fellas......we need the girlz' opinions,,,,,
    honest ones at that.
    do u want u cocky or timid ,or big, or ripped..etc

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    Who cares about what women thinks!! I do this for myself (itīs true!) and if it helps me get women thats fine too...

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    depends on the girl. In my experience, they like to see the muscles. The more they can see the better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by palme
    Who cares about what women thinks!! I do this for myself (itīs true!) and if it helps me get women thats fine too...
    See there.....now that's confidence! Women want a man......not a guy that thinks he's a man. How many times have we seen some loser on the arm of a fine looking woman and wonder what he had that he was able to land such a prize........confidence plan and simple.........and a huge wad of cash. hhahahahaha

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    Quote Originally Posted by Juggernaut2148
    How many times have we seen some loser on the arm of a fine looking woman and wonder what he had that he was able to land such a prize
    I was thinking the same thing about you and your girlie. Hahahahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    do girls feel as safe or protected w/ a little guy or more w/ a big guy? Cause you guys know as well as i do...that if we date a hottie...we show her off...do girls rather brag about a ripped up or a big fella....girls know what impresses girls...right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bigdog81
    do girls feel as safe or protected w/ a little guy or more w/ a big guy? Cause you guys know as well as i do...that if we date a hottie...we show her off...do girls rather brag about a ripped up or a big fella....girls know what impresses girls...right?

    lol...which would you want having your back....150lbs with pea shooters....or 240lbs juice head?

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    Quote Originally Posted by palme
    Who cares about what women thinks!! I do this for myself (itīs true!) and if it helps me get women thats fine too...
    You hit it right on the head there....

    There are girls that like big guys... and there are girls that like ripped guys... some girls like the assholes and some don't....

    Just make sure you are happy with YOURSELF and you will find a girl that likes you for who you are too.... No one wants to be with someone that is Fake and not themselves....


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    shh.....if i was a female....i want the huge mofo that cant wear sleeves on his shirt. but we all know...that most girls are gonna date who makes them look good....lol
    u can never win......$$$$$ talks..

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    Ripped with some muscle is what my GF likes.

    Obviously confidence is very attractive as was said before. Another big thing is you should treat them as if they were a princess; be as kind and affectionate as possible. That's all they really want; love and affection.

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