complaint

**jbol** · 01-19-2004, 11:58 AM

what do you do when you have a complaint about a moderator?

**monster.** · 01-19-2004, 12:01 PM

probally pm another moderator?...This is a first a complaint about a mod..News to me..

goodluck bro

**sin** · 01-19-2004, 12:01 PM

keep quiet and smile!

**SpunHoney** · 01-19-2004, 12:01 PM

Originally Posted by jbol

what do you do when you have a complaint about a moderator?

~Same thing you would do if you had a prob with a manager at work, go over there head to a admin..maybe

~

**Mart651** · 01-19-2004, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by jbol

what do you do when you have a complaint about a moderator?

Curse there ass out on open forum. Don't be scared because they are a mod. What are they gonna do turn your avatar into some goofy ****.
It's probably Ron and no one likes him anyways.
J\K

**Ammar** · 01-19-2004, 12:16 PM

Can I ask what the MOD did to you?? You dont have to give a name.

chinups · 01-19-2004, 12:23 PM

Post it in a polite way so they can't take it off the site. State what happened, we are all brothers here and this should be discussed!!! If they are a mod they should be giving help not aggrevation.

**mass junkie** · 01-19-2004, 12:34 PM

It was Ron wasnt it?

**Da Bull** · 01-19-2004, 01:01 PM

Originally Posted by mass junkie

It was Ron wasnt it?

In Rons deffense I don't think so,his humor is a bit off but he's a very cool mod,one of my favorites

**jbol** · 01-19-2004, 01:02 PM

Originally Posted by chinups

Post it in a polite way so they can't take it off the site. State what happened, we are all brothers here and this should be discussed!!! If they are a mod they should be giving help not aggrevation.

it started when my fiance wanted to get into the womens forum,we only have one computer and share it.since i already have a username(jbol),i told her to create a new username(jbolsrn),and she did.so she is now a new member.she posted in the new female members to get access,never got a response,she then pmd the moderator requesting access,the moderator responded that we have the same email and comp,and believed it was the same person,i then logged on to my account and pmd the moderator explaining the situation.the moderator sent an email to jbolsrn(a new member)saying people like you piss me off,just because you dont get your way have to ask someone else.(she never asked anyone besides him).he then sent an pm saying that she had access and he is the wrong person to piss off.i then checked my pms and had the same messages,now i dont mind the messages in my box(after being on this site a while ive just learned to take this moderator with a grain of salt)but to pm a new member with these messages is uncalled for.i referred this member because of all the useful info and the great members on this site,and now she dont believe me.

**Mart651** · 01-19-2004, 01:15 PM

Originally Posted by jbol

it started when my fiance wanted to get into the womens forum,we only have one computer and share it.since i already have a username(jbol),i told her to create a new username(jbolsrn),and she did.so she is now a new member.she posted in the new female members to get access,never got a response,she then pmd the moderator requesting access,the moderator responded that we have the same email and comp,and believed it was the same person,i then logged on to my account and pmd the moderator explaining the situation.the moderator sent an email to jbolsrn(a new member)saying people like you piss me off,just because you dont get your way have to ask someone else.(she never asked anyone besides him).he then sent an pm saying that she had access and he is the wrong person to piss off.i then checked my pms and had the same messages,now i dont mind the messages in my box(after being on this site a while ive just learned to take this moderator with a grain of salt)but to pm a new member with these messages is uncalled for.i referred this member because of all the useful info and the great members on this site,and now she dont believe me.

Well bro, it sounds like you got what you needed. Maybe he was on his period that day. It realy isn't worth getting upset about it. It will all be forgoten in a week or two. No need to upset the mod. I think you would be better off just letting it slide.

Now if it was me I would say **** you, you **** **** **** **** and you can **** off and kiss my***.

**RON** · 01-19-2004, 01:28 PM

WELL if I were still a member and I was for a loooong time. I would have PMed another Mod or PTBYJ even. What I wouldn't do is bring it to the open board. This is a great way to get attention but a poor way to get your problem solved IMO.

Mart, Mass kiss my ass.

**spywizard** · 01-19-2004, 01:31 PM

Always apoligize in public.... tell them to F off in private..

It helps people to save face, and you can get more bees with honey......

jmo

**Mart651** · 01-19-2004, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by RON

WELL if I were still a member and I was for a loooong time. I would have PMed another Mod or PTBYJ even. What I wouldn't do is bring it to the open board. This is a great way to get attention but a poor way to get your problem solved IMO.

Mart, Mass kiss my ass.

LMAO LMAO
It was you! It was you!
Holy **** I'm sorry.

**jbol** · 01-19-2004, 01:34 PM

Originally Posted by RON

WELL if I were still a member and I was for a loooong time. I would have PMed another Mod or PTBYJ even. What I wouldn't do is bring it to the open board. This is a great way to get attention but a poor way to get your problem solved IMO.

Mart, Mass kiss my ass.

i did pm mods and there is nothing to be done,so im not trying to solve the problem,just want other members to know that there are some mods out there who should not be mods.

**RON** · 01-19-2004, 01:35 PM

BTW we are all human. Even the MODs have bad days. We do this solely to help you guys out and really receive nothing for it.

Your concerns is already being talked about Jbol. So this thread didn't even need to be IMO.

**jbol** · 01-19-2004, 01:36 PM

Originally Posted by jbol

i did pm mods and there is nothing to be done,so im not trying to solve the problem,just want other members to know that there are some mods out there who should not be mods.

and in rons defense it WAS NOT him

**Mart651** · 01-19-2004, 01:40 PM

Originally Posted by jbol

and in rons defense it WAS NOT him

It looks like everything is being taken care of> if you are not going to tell us who it is so we can flame them you may want to consider going to your top post and deleting it. That way you nwant be sarting a little fued.

**jbol** · 01-19-2004, 01:46 PM

Originally Posted by mart651

It looks like everything is being taken care of> if you are not going to tell us who it is so we can flame them you may want to consider going to your top post and deleting it. That way you nwant be sarting a little fued.

ok its going,going ,gone

**groverman1** · 01-19-2004, 01:47 PM

Mods are human, **** I thought they were....

**PTbyJason** · 01-19-2004, 03:54 PM

I restored the thread for an explanation, and this is the final word.

Ok, this is all a huge misunderstanding that is getting blown way out of proportion.

First off, I have done the same thing to a member before that the mod did to you. I sent them a PM telling them that it appeared that they were slipping into the female forum and I didn’t appreciate it. I threatened to ban them, but it turns out that it was all a big misunderstanding, and that’s the way this should be treated.

First off, myself and the other mods take the Female forum very seriously. We don’t let just anyone post that they won’t access then suddenly grant it. I made a promise to the females that the female forum would be a private forum that they could post anything they wanted without worrying about guys looking at it. I intend to stick to it. Do I or other mods go over board at times to protect that forum? Yep. But think about this. I promise that your girlfriend/fiancé/wife can post anything she wants in there. Imagine she posts something very personal, such as pics of herself. How would you feel if a guy lied to get in there just so he could gawk at her pics that she thought were private from guys? So yes we are overprotective, but there is good reason. Let’s let this issue die. It was a misunderstanding, but it was to protect the other female members. Just know that if another guy tries to slip in there, we are going to make sure he has to jump through hoops before we let him just slip in so he can see your girls photos or private conversations.