Thread: My gf had a heart attack...
01-22-2004, 04:31 PM #1
My gf had a heart attack...
I got a message from her friend David...he said she was just released from the hospital today...She hadn't ate for 2 weeks...5'1 and 80lbs...She was at school and went to the restroom because seh felt sick...and had a heart attack in the bathroom..a girl found her an hour later and she was almost dead..She got to the hospital and she was there for 2 days..shes at home now, gaining weight back...but i'm afraid shes gonna do this again..It's just a fear I can't get over...I'm trying to get her a diet together of about 1800-1900 calories that will keep her at a good weight of 98-105lbs..she wont eat much meat though..chicken occasionally...if anyone could help out or contribute a diet i would really appreciate this...she said she would follow it..thanks everyone..Shes wanting to stop modeling now..this is the 6th time it's almost killed her...I'm not letting another ****ing fphotographer say one word to her..If he does God be with his a$$...
Last edited by hoss827; 01-22-2004 at 04:33 PM.
01-22-2004, 04:35 PM #2
Hmmm sorry to hear that bro... a heart attack at your age is very dammaging in the long run she'll have to be extra carefull from now in.
How is she with fish or seafoods? Not much of a meat fan, maybe it would be worth looking into high calories Meal Replacement Shakes or weight gainers...
Just tell her they are what bodybuilders and models use to keep slim...
Would put a bit of meat on her bones...
01-22-2004, 04:36 PM #3
Sorry to hear that hoss............
find something she does like to eat.. not carbs, or sweets........
go from there..
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01-22-2004, 04:36 PM #4
hoss she needs more than a diet bro...she needs therapy real bad or death is right around the corner.
Sorry to hear this,hope all goes well....get her help ASAP!!!!!
01-22-2004, 04:39 PM #5
Sorry to hear that bro. I would talk to her doctor before you put her on any kind of specific diet to make sure it is compatible with her condition.
01-22-2004, 04:40 PM #6
01-22-2004, 04:40 PM #7
Thats crazy bro a heart attack? At that age i cant even imagine. You should talk to her parents bro she needs serious help.
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01-22-2004, 04:41 PM #8Originally Posted by Da Bull
01-22-2004, 04:42 PM #9Originally Posted by RageControl
01-22-2004, 04:44 PM #10
she needs some serious help.......she isn't mentally stable........you shouldnt have to worry about making her diet plans for her.........her doctors and parents should be doing that.........
01-22-2004, 04:44 PM #11
Wow bro well props to you for being there man.
01-22-2004, 04:44 PM #12
I'm sorry bro, is she taking ephedra... 5'1'' 80lbs..she's a todler!!! and she had a heart attack... geez thats terrible man, it don't matter what she eats, she's gotta eat!!!
01-22-2004, 04:48 PM #13
Sorry to hear that bro. Hope everything will be aight...
01-22-2004, 04:51 PM #14Originally Posted by monster.
01-22-2004, 04:51 PM #15
Hoss was this the girl that you said was going to model but had to lose like 5 pounds?
If it is man I think she should stay out the modelling circuit or anything to do with looks for that matter. You have to get her help man and you def have to watch over her. Anorexia is so dangerous and is very hard to get rid of. Get her some serious help.
01-22-2004, 04:51 PM #16
hoss she's lucky she doesn't live in Florida.We have here a law called the "Baker ACT"were if someone intentionally tries to harm themselves they stay in a hospital til docs feel they have recovered.
Shame how all these glam magazines fawk up young girls minds.
01-22-2004, 04:53 PM #17
My heart goes out to you and your girl Hoss......anything I can possibly do to help you out...please dont hesitate to let me know
01-22-2004, 04:55 PM #18Originally Posted by hoss827
01-22-2004, 04:55 PM #19
Good look bro, i can tell you for my experience that she needs you more than you think, if you think that she really listens to you when you speak about eating and stop modelling then you must be the more time you can be with her, really, good luck.
01-22-2004, 04:56 PM #20
I know she'll get better bro, i'm just throwing the comic relief into all this drama
01-22-2004, 04:56 PM #21Retired Vet
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Hoss, sorry. But I simply can't take you serious anymore. Last week she wanted to lose weight to model, then she wanted to smash both her feets because she can't dance or something like that. I'm sure there's more I'm missing.
Give it a rest.
01-22-2004, 05:00 PM #22Originally Posted by Bouncer AKA bouncer
01-22-2004, 05:03 PM #23Junior Member
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If she wants to be a model then encourage her to be a fitness model. They look a helluva lot better than fashion models and are much healthier.
I'm glad she's alive and hope she can work things out. Be there for her.
01-22-2004, 05:05 PM #24Retired Vet
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Don't take them hard Hoss. Because the first time I truely believe you've been bull****ting us 24/7 I'll be in your face about it.
01-22-2004, 05:16 PM #25
Hoss, what caused it?
01-22-2004, 05:17 PM #26Originally Posted by cjp85
01-22-2004, 05:20 PM #27Originally Posted by hoss827
01-22-2004, 05:24 PM #28
Might have had low electrolytes and low potassium to cause the heart attack from not eating?
01-22-2004, 05:30 PM #29
I'm not sure what did....I don't wanna ask her..I dont want this being harder then it allready is for her. I just know she hadn't eaten barely anyhthing for 2 weeks...I just thank God shes okay..and that i have this chance to help her recover, and be with her..
01-22-2004, 06:08 PM #30
usually its obesely overweight people that suffer from heart attacks.......
01-22-2004, 06:16 PM #31
Sorry to hear bro...but this is where ignorance on ephedra comes into play...
[QUOTE=hoss827]No way in HELL would I let her take ephedra...i'm not letting her touch any of that ****..no way...QUOTE]
01-22-2004, 06:20 PM #32
guys... whoever has said any BS to hoss.... just leave it alone... even if he is lying.... who cares? if you don't like what he's saying don't read and don't post in his threads.. it's a simple as that.... bugs me that you can't go anywhere anymore and get help... or advice... without someone doubting you... always the cynics... the world's screwed up enough as it is...
01-22-2004, 06:31 PM #33
if you gain and lose weight at a rapid rate its a real easy way to get a hear attack. I forget what they say as rule of thumb but i think its if you lose or gain more then 20 pounds a month its severly unhealthy.
01-22-2004, 07:19 PM #34
Hoss, **** bro I am impressed with your dedication to your girlfriend. You just need to be there for her until she can overcome this problem. I know a girl that went through the same thing and nearly died. She refused to eat and she would throw up if she did. It all stemmed from self esteem problems, so your girl definitely needs some therapy.
01-22-2004, 07:21 PM #35
Hey bro...hope all turns out well for her...
and sig had a good point, you show a hell of a lot of dedication to your girl...she's extremely lucky to have you.
01-22-2004, 07:39 PM #36
**** HOSS sorry to hear that........continue to stand by her bro......it sounds like u might be the best thing in her life right now......good luck bro and if ya need anything let me now, I'll do what I can.
01-22-2004, 07:48 PM #37
Im sorry to hear that bro... But like people said this is a matter that should be delt with by the physicians in various feilds.... SHe def needs to see some sort of thyrapist, and she should def consult with a nutritionist...
01-22-2004, 07:56 PM #38Originally Posted by cb25
01-22-2004, 08:10 PM #39
Sorry to hear about that Hoss. Everyone is right. She needs serious counseling. You may have to go to Health and Human Services to get it for her....unless you can pay for it. Doesn't sound like her family is going to step up.
01-22-2004, 11:33 PM #40Originally Posted by Bouncer AKA bouncer
If this girl is really having all of these mental issues (which I don't believe) you should run far far far away. You cannot solve other people's problems and rescue them. All they will do is drag you down with them. Trust me, I've been there. In the end you're only stressing yourself and ruining your own life. You CAN'T fix other peoples mental issues!
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