Your friends x

**bermich** · 02-15-2004, 08:42 PM

Its screwed up and drives me crazy. Why is it always so easy to hook up with your friends x girlfriend (for girls, your friends x boyfriend) ???
You know they do it just to get revenge or make him look like a pussy.
Most guys will do it behind their friends back thinking the guy wont know because she promises no one will know. The problem is: She is doing it just to make sure her x boyfriend finds out.
Or she actually does like you and planned on going out with you if they broke up. Do they actually think the x's friend will start dating her after a break up?

I just dont get it. Why go for the friend when there are so many other alternatives.

This isnt speaking from my personal experience because I have gone against this many times. But TODAY. I feel it is a bad idea. Tomorrow I will have a different opinion

**symatech** · 02-15-2004, 08:45 PM

i hear ya bro. my friends ex was a beautiful woman. i mean drop dead beautiful. crazy though.... she tried sooo hard to get me to rail her. and i'd be a lier if i said i didnt want to. We all know its **** near impossible to say no to a woman whose ready to go, especially beautiful ones with perfect bodies, while they are naked on your bed. it took every ounce of strength i had. having said that, i have so much more self respect that i was able to turn her down. it made me feel good to know that i still put my bros before hoes. my .02

**spywizard** · 02-15-2004, 08:48 PM

I used to ask my friends if i could do thier ex gf... they thought it was cool.. and said ok.....

but it always turns out bad... you loose a friend..........

too much easy couchie...to do it that way.....

Originally Posted by bermich

Its screwed up and drives me crazy. Why is it always so easy to hook up with your friends x girlfriend (for girls, your friends x boyfriend) ???
You know they do it just to get revenge or make him look like a pussy.
Most guys will do it behind their friends back thinking the guy wont know because she promises no one will know. The problem is: She is doing it just to make sure her x boyfriend finds out.
Or she actually does like you and planned on going out with you if they broke up. Do they actually think the x's friend will start dating her after a break up?

I just dont get it. Why go for the friend when there are so many other alternatives.

This isnt speaking from my personal experience because I have gone against this many times. But TODAY. I feel it is a bad idea. Tomorrow I will have a different opinion

**bermich** · 02-15-2004, 08:52 PM

Yeah. I have one friend out of 200 that would not f u c k my CURRENT or X girlfriends.
That is the main reason I have NO friends. They all say bros before hoes but when it comes down to it, they will ALWAYS tag the girl if they feel they can score with it.

They have a way in since they have something similar to talk about "YOU" Something to start a conversation and ask why she doesnt like you or why you are a dick and wont take her back etc. "if I was him I would have treated you so nice" Ive heard that line used so many times.
I told my friend a girl was lousy in bed and he went and told her I said that. He denied it and I asked how I would have known he said it. He said sorry. It was just his way of using the "Hes a dick and Im not" routine to score with your girls.

God Im in such a bad mood right now.

**hoss827** · 02-15-2004, 08:56 PM

Well, IMO the girl does it because she wants revenge, to piss the ex off. JMO opinion though.

--Hoss

**bermich** · 02-15-2004, 08:56 PM

Originally Posted by spywizard

I used to ask my friends if i could do thier ex gf... they thought it was cool.. and said ok.....

but it always turns out bad... you loose a friend..........

too much easy couchie...to do it that way.....

Ive done that too. That is so true. They have too much false pride to say they actually care for the girl and instead say it is ok for you to bang the chick they only saw for two weeks. Then things work out between you and the girl and they get all pissy and dont talk to you.

Grow some balls and speak up for how you feel.

I am currently dating a girl my friend first hooked up with. She wasnt even his type and he was seeing other girls during her. I asked him 50 times if it was alright if I took her off his hands during Laughlin (river trip) so he could **** some other girl. He said no problem and please do.
10 months later, he still seems upset with the fact we are together. Not much of a grudge but I can tell it still kinda sorta bothers him but he is still happy for us. The other problem that evolves with that is: You know your friend ALSO slept with her. So in the end, it is gonna bother someone.

**Babyweight** · 02-15-2004, 08:59 PM

No need to be in a bad mood Bermich....

**spywizard** · 02-15-2004, 09:00 PM

exactly.....

and you have 1 more post to go.......

Originally Posted by bermich

Ive done that too. That is so true. They have too much false pride to say they actually care for the girl and instead say it is ok for you to bang the chick they only saw for two weeks. Then things work out between you and the girl and they get all pissy and dont talk to you.

Grow some balls and speak up for how you feel.

I am currently dating a girl my friend first hooked up with. She wasnt even his type and he was seeing other girls during her. I asked him 50 times if it was alright if I took her off his hands during Laughlin (river trip) so he could **** some other girl. He said no problem and please do.
10 months later, he still seems upset with the fact we are together. Not much of a grudge but I can tell it still kinda sorta bothers him but he is still happy for us. The other problem that evolves with that is: You know your friend ALSO slept with her. So in the end, it is gonna bother someone.

**Babyweight** · 02-15-2004, 09:04 PM

I bet I can cheer you up...I can tell you what happened on my date last night.

**spywizard** · 02-15-2004, 09:06 PM

what?????????

Originally Posted by Babyweight

I bet I can cheer you up...I can tell you what happened on my date last night.

**spywizard** · 02-15-2004, 09:07 PM

I mean ........ don't tell us unless you were alone..

you know we have fantasies about ya..

let us keep those dreams alive....

Originally Posted by Babyweight

I bet I can cheer you up...I can tell you what happened on my date last night.

**monster.** · 02-15-2004, 09:07 PM

I am not like that at all, I would never get down with any of my friends ex-girls.. I think that is a very disloyal and weak thing to do.. It has alot to do with respect.. My friends have stood by me at my worst times, and i would never trade a friendship for a 'good time' with one of their girls.. That to me is just bullsh!t..

**Elliot** · 02-15-2004, 09:08 PM

Originally Posted by Babyweight

I bet I can cheer you up...I can tell you what happened on my date last night.

please do..

**bermich** · 02-15-2004, 09:13 PM

Originally Posted by spywizard

I mean ........ don't tell us unless you were alone..

you know we have fantasies about ya..

let us keep those dreams alive....

LMAO. Thats awesome. I have fantacies too.

Tell me about your date and I will tell you how much I spent on V day and how the night just SUCKED and put me in a bad mood today.
ALSO. Im gonna start a thread about realstate agents. Look for it in 5 minutes.
I have 3005 posts now.

happy boy.

**Babyweight** · 02-15-2004, 09:14 PM

Not Hijacking Berms thread, so I'll have to start new...
Anyways..
from my point is this...The girls are worse than the guys..and it is because we either want to know what is going on with the ex so the girls try to persuade the friend or yes... to let him find out that we were with his friend.. I personally have never done that, only because most if and when I had an ex, I had absolutely no desire for any of his friends. They were all too young and kinda stupid. buttttt......My opinion...we are all ANIMALS....LOL
and I disagree with it completely.

**bermich** · 02-15-2004, 10:26 PM

[QUOTE=Babyweight]Not Hijacking Berms thread, so I'll have to start new...
Anyways..
from my point is this...The girls are worse than the guys..and it is because we either want to know what is going on with the ex so the girls try to persuade the friend or yes... QUOTE]

That made me remember a time when my ex did start talking to my room mate to find out what I was doing etc. Turns out he told her I was messign around and he is the one who used the lines about how he would treat her so much better etc. Well they hooked up and I found out. That is another story somewhere in the archives.
Her excuse was she just wanted to still be close to me and know what was going on by always asking about me from him. She is so mental it is sad.
Sad knowing a hot girl can be so mental. Really ruins the mood.
She is the type that would give you blowie and take the cum out of her mouth and try to insert it inside her vagina to get herself pregnant.
MENTALLLLL

**daman1** · 02-15-2004, 10:32 PM

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**Symian** · 02-16-2004, 05:38 AM

Originally Posted by bermich

Its screwed up and drives me crazy. Why is it always so easy to hook up with your friends x girlfriend (for girls, your friends x boyfriend) ???
You know they do it just to get revenge or make him look like a pussy.
Most guys will do it behind their friends back thinking the guy wont know because she promises no one will know. The problem is: She is doing it just to make sure her x boyfriend finds out.
Or she actually does like you and planned on going out with you if they broke up. Do they actually think the x's friend will start dating her after a break up?

You sound like you have about as good of luck with guys as I have with women. All the women down here are mental or druggies, or both. But, I've got 2 bros that I've known for 7-10 years, and nothing could come between us. We've all slept with the same women, and it's just something to laugh about.

Sym

**palme** · 02-16-2004, 07:03 AM

[QUOTE=bermich]

Originally Posted by Babyweight

Not Hijacking Berms thread, so I'll have to start new...
Anyways..
from my point is this...The girls are worse than the guys..and it is because we either want to know what is going on with the ex so the girls try to persuade the friend or yes... QUOTE]

That made me remember a time when my ex did start talking to my room mate to find out what I was doing etc. Turns out he told her I was messign around and he is the one who used the lines about how he would treat her so much better etc. Well they hooked up and I found out. That is another story somewhere in the archives.
Her excuse was she just wanted to still be close to me and know what was going on by always asking about me from him. She is so mental it is sad.
Sad knowing a hot girl can be so mental. Really ruins the mood.
She is the type that would give you blowie and take the cum out of her mouth and try to insert it inside her vagina to get herself pregnant.
MENTALLLLL

I dont see anything wrong with that

**LuvMuhRoids** · 02-16-2004, 07:10 AM

It's the excitement of taboo. Hooking up with a freinds ex is a no no. That and hanging out with your buds girl you get to know her with out dating her so that turns you on to her also. Actually, I have seen good relationships come out of that. One of my best friends married one of my ex's. She broke up with me to hook up with him and I didnt know it. I didn't care. More power to him. I had her and had a lot of her so it's cool.

**Mart651** · 02-16-2004, 09:10 AM

I hav eslept with a few of my friends Xs and some of there present. I always told them if I got a half a chance I would do it and they all said the same thing there is no way she would ever sleep with you so go ahead and try. Now I never thought of dating any of them and never would but then again I never realy thought of dating any of my girlfriends after we had sex. I would always tell my friend and they always got pissed. I figured it was better for them in the long run. I would never suggest it now and I think it was wrong but some of us always thought the women was not yours until she had a ring.