Women and The Number of Sexual Partners..

[Stea7jjdyEddie]

Elliot..............it is just a number..........just do her!!!!!!! I know I am going to catch heat for this post but anyway you are in college who cares you are not going to marry her!!!!!!!

[Testify]

I don't know bro. At that age, with that many partners in her pocket . . . I would walk away. Even if she was careful, you could still end up with a "parting gift."

[Elliot]

Some girls, although smart and attractive, believe it or not, just like to have intercourse.

[DNoMac]

I'm in college myself, and i try not to worry so much on the numbers, but we all know at least one person who got caught up in some mess with some dirty guy or girl. Be smart and don't be one, besides, it isn't that hard gettin some tail, especially in college (and if ur in the gym all the time like most peeps on AR!!). Play on player....

[goodtobeapimp]

If you just want a piece of a$$ then go for it..Dont become attached though.I dont know too many people that would wanna go out with someone that they had to question if they are that easy or not.It would become a huge problem later down the road if you were with her..

[goodtobeapimp]

If you just want a piece of a$$ then go for it..Dont become attached though.I dont know too many people that would wanna go out with someone that they had to question if they are that easy or not.It would become a huge problem later down the road if you were with her..

[ttuPrincess]

How many girls do you knlw that have only slept with "2" guys and then sleep with you on the first night. I'll take an honest girl with a shady background over a lieing girl that will sleep with just 1 more.

Not always true.. don't generalize us... she could be telling the truth, but be really really into you even though you have only known her a few days...

My best advice, for men and women... Don't ask, Don't tell! that way you don't have to lie about it anyways! If you plan on dating someone, do you really want to know how many people have been there before? Or just play the imagine game in your head and pretend like your the 1st, and there just talented?

[Elliot]

Not always true.. don't generalize us... she could be telling the truth, but be really really into you even though you have only known her a few days...

My best advice, for men and women... Don't ask, Don't tell! that way you don't have to lie about it anyways! If you plan on dating someone, do you really want to know how many people have been there before? Or just play the imagine game in your head and pretend like your the 1st, and there just talented?

i reather know.. then find out throught other channels if its in the single digits i can handle that.. in the low teens would trouble me but anything over that would be serious..

[ADAWG]

I know that I am a bad person but if I like a girl or think she might be a possible romantic interest I dont want to know how many people she has been with. If I hear her say even one I get knotted up and angry but I think it is a territorial issue. Anyways thats just my crazy butt

[Elliot]

I know that I am a bad person but if I like a girl or think she might be a possible romantic interest I dont want to know how many people she has been with. If I hear her say even one I get knotted up and angry but I think it is a territorial issue. Anyways thats just my crazy butt

haha i used to be that way to.. but then i realized virgins just dont exist anymore..

[Animal Cracker]

If she says "high 20's, low 30's"..add a few more..probably another attention whore...hit it..and leave it laying.

[Commando_Barbi]

Bama - I'm gonna kick your a$$ when you get back here!

[bermich]

Okay I'm in class and i'm bored out of my mind so heres another useless thread.. Today as i was going to school i started talking with some chick from one of my classes and we go to the topic of how many people we have slept with i told her i slept with an amount of something in the high single numbers maybe even low teens, since i started when i was 17 and now im 19.. and she told me shes up in the high 20's low 30's maybe and she lost her virginity at 15.. im not math genious but that comes out to about 7 people a year.. and that got me disgusted since i look at it in a way that everyones been there except me and the cleaning lady.. am i wrong to think like that? i hope i dont offend anyone by this but it was a huge turn off. i mean this girl is really bright and everything. its just that she has sleped with over 25 guys..

So. She likes to have sex. Thats one guy every two months. Why the f u c k should she not sleep with a guy just to keep the number down?
If she were naked in your dorm room, you would bang the **** out of her. But of course she is a whore cause you werent one of the guys.
I think youre just irritated cause you are in the same group as the cleaning lady.
If you can honestly tell me you wouldnt bang her not knowing the number of guys she been with then I will say you are a saint and I look up to you.

But since you started this thread, Im gonna go out on a limb and say you are a hypocrit for starting a thread that makes you look like a hypocrite cause you would bang her the second she offered being in an environment suitable for her offer.

Just for record. You do not tell your partner how many people youve been with. Its not a good idea and many counselors, therapists, etc will say the same thing.

I think it is immature and narrow minded to view her differently based on the fact that she mentioned a number to you where as yesterday you didnt have that impression of her.
Or better yet, to get a better perspective, talk to her about it tomorrow and ask how she feels about sleeping with "SAID NUMBER" of guys. Then tell her your view point of it. It would be good to discuss how you both feel and maybe it will help her realize a guys out look and you on a girls outlook.

[Elliot]

So. She likes to have sex. Thats one guy every two months. Why the f u c k should she not sleep with a guy just to keep the number down?
If she were naked in your dorm room, you would bang the **** out of her. But of course she is a whore cause you werent one of the guys.
I think youre just irritated cause you are in the same group as the cleaning lady.
If you can honestly tell me you wouldnt bang her not knowing the number of guys she been with then I will say you are a saint and I look up to you.

But since you started this thread, Im gonna go out on a limb and say you are a hypocrit for starting a thread that makes you look like a hypocrite cause you would bang her the second she offered being in an environment suitable for her offer.

Just for record. You do not tell your partner how many people youve been with. Its not a good idea and many counselors, therapists, etc will say the same thing.

I think it is immature and narrow minded to view her differently based on the fact that she mentioned a number to you where as yesterday you didnt have that impression of her.
Or better yet, to get a better perspective, talk to her about it tomorrow and ask how she feels about sleeping with "SAID NUMBER" of guys. Then tell her your view point of it. It would be good to discuss how you both feel and maybe it will help her realize a guys out look and you on a girls outlook.

ive been verbaly bitch smacked

[magicstick2003]

ive been verbaly bitch smacked

ouch

[jerm]

Dude you've been with high teens by age 19 or cant even remember and youre mad at thsi girl for 20 or 30 guys? To me if a person cant remember their sexual partner's names or how many they have had exacly down the the number well thats sick in my book. Call me old fashioned.

[Paranoid]

Hey Elliot

In my opinion, a girl like that is good for a f uck but definitively not longterm gf material. I had so many bad experiences when I started looking for a serious relationship. This was when I was 19, now I'm 26 and been with the same girl for 6 years. Anyways, back when I was 19 I met this girl at a club (big mistake), Sylvia Travis was only 15 at the time, yet clamied to be 17. At this point in her life I was her 42nd guy and she was proud of this status. Last I heard of her she surpased the 100 mark and is still going strong. In my eyes girls like that have no self respect and use sex as a tool for attention, love, acceptance, etc. Have your fun, but don't stick around too long, and what ever you do, don't ever fall for a slut.

[ColdSore]

Sluts are bad...i hate them...you should use this as a "LEARNING" experience and try one of those funny sex moves on her...like a donkey punch, or the angry pirate!!!!....come on elliot...take one for the team!!!!!!!

[Mart651]

Dude you've been with high teens by age 19 or cant even remember and youre mad at thsi girl for 20 or 30 guys? To me if a person cant remember their sexual partner's names or how many they have had exacly down the the number well thats sick in my book. Call me old fashioned.

I can remember all the woman I have been with. I just use the alphabet method. A=Altria, Amy, Anna, Allissa and Amanda B= Betty Joe, Beverly 1 and 2, and Brittany You get the drift. Sometimes I have to go back because I forget one or two in a letter but usually I can remember them all.

[Testify]

The Donkey Punch!!! LMAO!

Its been a while since I heard that!

[bermich]

I can remember all the woman I have been with. I just use the alphabet method. A=Altria, Amy, Anna, Allissa and Amanda B= Betty Joe, Beverly 1 and 2, and Brittany You get the drift. Sometimes I have to go back because I forget one or two in a letter but usually I can remember them all.

Its worse when you have to ask your friends to help you with your list cause you were probably drunk or just dont wanna remember certain ones. Its even worse when you have to ask the girl to her face if the two of you slept together.
The alphabet game does work. I only play that game to help me remember the name though.

Sometimes girls whom have been with a lot of guys are good to catch cause they are done exploring their sexual nature and are done partying and doing all that crap. They got it all out of their system and are ready to just kick back with one guy (at a time)

[Benches505]

You can't turn a Ho into a housewife...Ho's don't act right

[Elliot]

I can remember all the woman I have been with. I just use the alphabet method. A=Altria, Amy, Anna, Allissa and Amanda B= Betty Joe, Beverly 1 and 2, and Brittany You get the drift. Sometimes I have to go back because I forget one or two in a letter but usually I can remember them all.

Betty Joe?! wtf?! Did you do the family sheep afterwards.. wait thats hitmans territory..

[groverman1]

Add another to her bedpost.

[spywizard]

I call them all the same.......



Baby

[Elliot]

i call them precious.. thats cause im a pimp with a limp

[bermich]

Talking during sex. That makes me laugh and half the girls Ive talked to. One was laughing her ass off while this one guy tried to get all porn star on her. "oh yeah, you like that baby, does that feel good.. Ooh you feel so good baby"
She told him to shut up and quit ruining what was left of it. He tries doing that with all the chicks and they all bag on him afterwards.

[JohnDoe1234]

Hey news flash here everyone, girls enjoy sex just as much as us guys. So is it a small wonder that they are as sexually active as us?. I think it is hypocritical of us to label them whores or sluts just because they want what we want. Come on how many of us guys (my self included ) have slept with a dozen or more girls?, probably just about all of us. I actually have more respect for a girl who will go out and do what they have to, reguardless of peoples opinions, than for a girl that only has sex with the guy she supposedly is in "love" with. The reason being is, I find that many of the women that fall into the second category only do so becuase they want to keep the "good girl" image. I think that these girls want to have sex so bad that when they go a certain time with out a realtionship they are desperate to "fall in love" just so they can have sex again. I call these girls "serial daters" because they need to be in a realtionship at all times, and will never go more than 3 months before they find the "love of their life" once their last relationship has gone south. I know penty of girls that have had alot of partners, and you know what they are all good girls in my eyes. They are not dumb sluts, they are smart and educated. And as long as they are careful, and not raw dogging every guy they sleep with, then what is wrong with what they are doing .

[bermich]

I agree with John. I enjoy the company of girls whom are realistic. They like sex and to them it just feels good and it is no big deal. A penis inside a vagina. WOW. No big deal. Most of those girls are the ones who use protection and dont get all emotional on you, etc. Plus they usually know how to do it.
They dont make you feel like them giving sex is a treat or you have to work for it. If it is in a conveniant place and you dont mess up their hair before they go out, then sex is on.

[BLACKZILLA]

Interesting thread. I think things vary from girl to girl. Some are really horny and want to explore. I would hope that they are selective. I know personally girls who are nice but have been with a lot of guys and I honestly won't consider them as gf's, wifes, etc. It may be wrong of me, but it's my personal opinion. I actually dealt with this a little last night, after meeting a girl wed night we hung out again last night and she basically told me it was gonna happen. She is a nice girl who is sexually liberated and knows what she wants. I would also add that the chemical makeup of everyone is different. Some girls just wanna have fun right ladies?

[BLACKZILLA]

And what the hell is the angry pirate????

[hoss827]

I'm the angry pirate!!!!

[bermich]

I'm the angry pirate!!!!

Yeah. Youre the angry butt pirate. Keeping digging for treasure.