Thread: My ex-wife kidnapped my kids!!!!
03-05-2004, 10:29 PM #1
My ex-wife kidnapped my kids!!!!
I went to Boston this week to visit and yesterday my ex-wife came to my mother's house and kidnapped my kids. I have no clue as to where they're at and according to the ****in cops... there's nothing I can do. I have to wait until Monday and go to the courthouse and file for a protective order to egt the kids back. And there's a chance they won't approve one for me. I believe they went to Corpus Christi.... I'm heading down there as soon as I talk to my lawyer Monday and get the paperwork to get my kids back. I don't know what the **** to do. All I can do is sit here and pray the crazy bitch doesn't hurt them or do anything stupid..... my hands are tied and I don't know what the **** to do.....
03-05-2004, 10:33 PM #2
Holy **** big t. I'm so sorry. I know they'll be fine. Good luck bro.
03-05-2004, 10:34 PM #3
Ahhh Tx. I'm sorry to hear that. I'll be thinking about you. Are you the custodial parent? If you have full custody, don't you have the ability to file for a parental abduction?
I wish I could help ya out. You are in my thoughts.
03-05-2004, 10:37 PM #4
Well we have shared custody but I'm the primary gaurdian... or something like that. According to everyone I have to sit here until Monday morning and than go to the courthouse and file for the protective order to get my kids back.... than after I get them back (which I have to find them first) I'm filing for Full custody and the stupid bitch will never see 'em..... pulling this **** on me.
03-05-2004, 10:38 PM #5
If she kidnapped the kids wouldn't they put out an amber alert? That sucks Tex, I'd have prosecuted to the full extent of the law.
03-05-2004, 10:42 PM #6
The cops can't do anyhting cause she's their mother and does have partial custody rights to them...... so I'm ****ed until I can file at the courthouse Monday....
03-05-2004, 10:44 PM #7
****, shady business....look at the position she has now put your children in...I hope all turns out well bro...stay strong, dont do anything that would make you look "unstable" later in court (i know its asking alot right now)
03-05-2004, 10:57 PM #8
Be strong TX. Hugs
03-05-2004, 11:19 PM #9
Sheit bro, thats not cool, sorry to hear about that, just hang in there.
03-05-2004, 11:31 PM #10
Hopefully it will work out on monday for you man... Be strong.
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You and your kids are in my prayers bro
03-06-2004, 12:38 AM #12
You miht want to call the Texas Child Abuse Hotline 1-800-252-5400
They'll want to know the circumstances of the abduction . . .
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03-06-2004, 12:41 AM #13
WHAT THE ****!?!?!?
Offcourse the court will give you your kids bro, this is mental! Good luck!
03-06-2004, 01:07 AM #14
Thats some f*cked up **** bro....get them back and put a restraining order against her man. No offense I dont know your relationship with her but to have someone do that sounds very dangerous and very shady and I'd want nothing to do with her after that.
03-06-2004, 02:36 AM #15
**** bro, sorry to hear that. I'm sure the kids will be ok, I'm sure a mother won't hurt her kids. My thoughts are with you big fella, hope it all turns out well.
03-06-2004, 02:50 AM #16
Holy **** Big T...d amn bro. I wish I lived closer and could be of some help. I will keep you in my prayers for sure bro! Need some one to talk to bro drop me and PM.
03-06-2004, 02:58 AM #17
dang bro, i read this stuff (sh@t) and thats messed up.. i was guessing where you went <--- a BIG WINK and to come back to this crap, bro, why did you parents let her take the kids? They must be close also..
PS... dont mind me im drinking,but thats besides the fact thats F'd up.
03-06-2004, 03:03 AM #18
Hang in there BigT..Things will work out for you in the end..Good Luck!
03-06-2004, 03:31 AM #19
I'm sorry to hear that Big T. Rest assure bro. Those are her children too. So I highly doubt that she'll do anything to harm them. And eventhough she's the mother, if she leaves the state with them, she'll be in some serious trouble with the Feds, not to mention a guarantee of losing all rights to her children.
03-06-2004, 03:59 AM #20
It happened to me once, all turned out ok. It just sucks not knowing where and the hell they are. And if something happens to them does anyone know where they are. I'll say a prayer for ya today.
03-06-2004, 06:05 AM #21Respected Member
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I'm sorry to hear this bro. If their is anything at all that I can do, let me know
03-06-2004, 06:23 AM #22
My sister's ex-husband did some shiet like this too BT. The best thing is for you NOT to lose your head bro...then she can use that against you regarding custody. Do everything your lawyer advises you to do bro...I know it sucks...but you have to play by their (law) rules bro.
Tock had good advice also...CPS will want to know all of the circumstances also. They are very nuetral (usually) and will only be interested in the welfare of the kids. Having a report with them will also help out in case of any future shiet that she tries to pull. They can also testify in court about what all your ex has done to jeopardize the welfare of the kids.
Good luck with it bro...Godspeed.
03-06-2004, 06:53 AM #23
Big T, I'm so sorry bro. Stay strong bro and like everyone else said, just try to stay calm. I can't even imagine what you are going through. My prayers are with you.
03-06-2004, 07:25 AM #24
Dang Tex, i'm sorry to hear it. I think everyone had good advice for ya though -- stay calm and be strong, file on Monday morning...possibly look into what Tock said. You'll get your kids back...I have faith.
03-06-2004, 07:35 AM #25Respected Member
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Stay stong BT!! Even though she has partial custody doesn't she have to have written permission to take them out of the state? I believe so. She can't just go take them even if they are her kids.
03-06-2004, 07:40 AM #26
T! WTF! I can't believe that the cops won't help! **** I'd explain her past battles and let them know that they are at risk and that she's unstable. GD! Wish I could come and help bro! I'm here if you need me bro!
03-06-2004, 07:45 AM #27AR Hall of Fame
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Let's go lookin' for her!
Seriously, hope this pans out well for you and Monday rolls around quickly for you!
Stress is catabolic, don't let her knab your lean mass too.
03-06-2004, 08:25 AM #28
you are handling this alot better than I would...good luck bro
03-06-2004, 08:48 AM #29
There are no words I can say that others haven't said already. Very F*cked up.
03-06-2004, 08:55 AM #30
Wow.. that sucks..
I wish you all luck Big T !!
Be strong !!
03-06-2004, 09:00 AM #31
Thats just wrong bro... make sure you stack the deck (lawyers, child prot. services, witnesses) and crucify her in court.
03-06-2004, 09:03 AM #32
BigT, sorry to hear this...... you can't catch a break..... and the ****ing cops will not even bother helping.... bro I feel for you.....
I hope all works out on Monday........ Good luck!
03-06-2004, 09:05 AM #33
Big T, I know your kids look up to you bro...keep your cool and stay strong. Hopefully your kids will understand when they get older that their mommy was sick.
03-06-2004, 09:08 AM #34Swellin Guest
Big T, take a breath and step back. If your hands are tied...it has to be generating some insane anxiety. This will only lead to you doing something you shouldn't. IronCy was dead on with everything he said. Be careful!
This really sux bro...my thoughts are certainly with you.
03-06-2004, 09:37 AM #35
Thanks guys... I'm trying to believe she wob't do anything stupid. I've tried calling CPS and everyone else but they're closed until Monday morning.... No one can understand the the feelings that I'm having right now... all I can do is sit here and shake. I just want to talk to my kids... make sure they're ok. I'm going to **** her in court.... as soon as I get my kids back the stupid bitch isn't ever gonna see them again. I thank you all for your supprot... I'm not religiuos by any means but please pray for my kids......
03-06-2004, 09:45 AM #36
I realy hope you find them fast bro!!
03-06-2004, 10:36 AM #37
your kids will be kept in my prayers bro... good luck
03-06-2004, 10:50 AM #38
I'm sorry to hear about this bro. Your family is in my prayers. I know you've struggled with this for a while now . . . But the situation will improve.
ttgb gives good advice. Just don't do anything stupid. Follow all the proper legal channels, and you will come out ahead. I'm sure your kids are OK - she is their mother. You will have your day in court, and if you're smart about it, tings will turn in your (and your kids') favor. Good luck BT.
03-06-2004, 12:39 PM #39
Wow big T sorry to hear this. good luck finding them... ever see that movie enough?
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very sorry to hear it BT - gotta stay calm tho - she is their mother and I doubt she is doing anthing to harm her own kids - get the courts on your side before you do anything and then it actually may be a blessing in disguise if you get full custody later because of this
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